A lot of girls today complain guys walk away
from them
simply because they refused
having sex with them. While some are even
tempted
giving away their virginity just to
keep the guy.
Let me be blunt here . Looking at it critically
you will see
that virginity may not be the
real reason why guys walk away,it may not
be sex either.
The story of the ten virgins in the bible
made us to
understand that both the wise and
the foolish were virgin; the other five were
not allowed to
see the bridegroom not bcus
they were virgin or they lost their virginity....
NO! But because they were foolish and called
foolish bcus
they had no EXTRA OIL
And what is that EXTRA OIL if i may ask?
The EXTRA OIL here is your character or
those things you
can offer in a relationship
apart from SEX, VIRGINITY AND PHYSICAL
BEAUTY.
Most girls don't have that EXTRA OIL to
sustain them in
any relationship, while some
brag about virginity, that's all they got to
offer.
Apart from virginity and sex what else can u
offer to a
man ?
Can you support him physically ?
Can you support him financially ?
Can you support him spiritually ?
How about mentally?
All you do is demanding money for bags,
shoes, cloths
and outing. Making him spend
unnecessarily because you see relationship
as a Job
opportunity, sex as your office
duty and virginity as a CV or qualification for
the job.
Have u ever sat him down and help him plan
his future?
Has he ever seen you as someone he can
confide in?
How many time has he come to you in a
state of delimma
seeking your advice ?
Rather than jumping from one club to
another all in the
name of enjoyment.
As for the virgins, understand that virginity
ends after
wedding night but the EXTRA OIL
continues....
Though nobody is perfect because we all
have our bad
sides.
But try to be a woman dat a man will always
regret losing
for the rest of his life.
Be that woman that your man can't afford
loosing to
another man.
Build your man to your taste and stop
looking for already
made husband because u can
get an already made t- shirt but it wont size
you like the
one tailored with your
measurement.
Force yourself on a richman you didn't work
with to
achieve what he has and hear your
life story and also answered to heated
question someday.
Question like;
*Has anything been added to this house
since your
arrival ?
*Did you work with me to achieve all i've
got ?
*What is your contribution or in impact in
our relationship?
*
There is nothing better than building up
your man yourself
because you will forever earn
his respect, trust and love. I rest ma case. #
Be wise

..

Sincere truth