Oyindidi:
why write like this? Capital in between sentence

Martins4christ:
Thanks, Thats Helpful

selflessmaya:


i'm really really sorry about your predicament. i think deep down, you know no one here can really help u but u just wanna reach out. i cant really help u now since u are almost full term. if u had come here earlier like in your first trimester, since u dont want the pregnancy and only kept it out of fear, i would have advised you to get an abortion & me and many open minded, non-judgemental ppl here could have even tried to help u get one, it's not the horror thing ppl watch in movies where hangers are used and instruments are slid into the vag, that was medieval times, a simple pill, just one pill, that a gynecologist or midwife or top pharmacists have access to, could have ended this nightmare early, plus there are many ppl here in diaspora living in countries where abortions are legal who could have tried to get you this pill and fedex it or something... there really isnt much you can do now. pls dont do anything rash, u could really hurt yourself, just take it in your stride and move on, hopefully, you'll be just fine, will it be easy? no. but pls be brave. i'm really sorry this happened to u, i can only imagine how it feels to be in your shoes. pls take heart.

your parents are absolutely mean for letting you go through this alone, absolutely mean i tell u, even if they didnt want the pregnancy, why not shout at you if they must, express their disappointment, then, help you get a safe abortion or help u keep it if that's the general consensus. you made this decision alone at a point when you should have reached out and now you're really at a point of no return. pls call your mom and try talking to her, see if she can keep the baby for u till you're done with school and have a job, i wont suggest adoption to you, nigeria is a very risky country and no one knows what'll become of the child if it gets into wrong hands. if your mom wont agree, reach out to a sister or family relative who could help u talk to them. u really should have come here early, this story makes me so fu<king sad.

as for the guy, i am pro-choice (i believe a woman gets to decide to keep a pregnancy or not).. i believe in equal rights, this guy did not want a kid and he did his part to wash his hands off it, i think if a woman does not want a pregnancy but the man wants it, she should not keep the pregnancy, it's her body and her choice but i also think that if a man does not want a pregnancy and a woman chooses to keep it, she has accepted sole responsibility for it, it's only fair. do i think he should have done more for u like help u with connections to actually get it done? yes. but he didnt and i also understand the fears of going through this alone in a country where girls in your shoes dont have a lot of choice but you should have done your absolute best to ask around for 2nd opinions. i dont know why u didnt make moves or ask here earlier. no one should be forced to keep a pregnancy or punished for having sex, ignore all the mean ppl here and in real life, their taunts dont add or take from u.

dont be too hard on yourself, pls dont hurt this child when it's born or vent frustrations at it, just accept it and love it with all your heart, as much as i support abortion, i only do so in the very early stages when the embryo is pretty much sub-human, in the 3rd trimester, it's already a baby and once it's born, it's legit there, get in touch with your ex when it's born and make sure he knows the baby's here, send him pics and all, dont have any high hopes of his help and pls dont marry him just cos of the kid if he does get in touch. i rarely use this consolation cos it's pretentious but there are ppl better than u who will give anything to be in your shoes, there's a girl somewhere pregnant with AIDS too. pls count your losses and bear it and toughen up. call your mom and re-establish communication, if she wont help, try to see if u can find someone who can help get u a job and u can transfer to part-time studying, STAY IN SCHOOL!! pls take very good care of yourself, at first it'll be hard but this is not the end of the world. you'll move on.

ecoeco:
The same way u did not call us for sexual assistance
Pls don't also call us for financial assistance



#Eco99#

Oyindidi:
Someone that is really pregnant and won't type that rubbish above. &gt;

madone:
who is this one sef and what is all this nonsense comments.how does pregnant people type...mtcheeeew.gerout of here if u don't know what to tell here .....she doesn't need you to believe her story ,abi how many help can you offer her ....

Martins4christ:
I Knw I Deserve Mean Comments. You Cant Insult Me As Much As I Av Insulted Myself.
I Have Been Tru A Lot Already, What I Nid Now Is Am Advice On How To Come Out Of This Mess. I Really Dont Want This One Fall To Ruin Me. I Have Learnt To Get Out Of Depression, Guilt And Self Pity. Its The Practical And Reasonable Step To Follow That I Need Help With, Please

Oyindidi:
Why e pain you like this? Person wey no sabi her boyfriend name and address need cane

madone:
who is this one sef and what is all this nonsense comments.how does pregnant people type...mtcheeeew.gerout of here if u don't know what to tell here .....she doesn't need you to believe her story ,abi how many help can you offer her ....

Oyindidi:
Why e pain you like this? Person wey no sabi her boyfriend name and address need cane

Martins4christ:
Never Said Anyfin Lyk Yr1. Am A Direct Entry Ful Tym Student , He Was A Part Tym Student, Different Calender, Just D Same School, He Stayed Brk In School 4 A While, To Complete Clearance Nd Others. I Told U Wat Is Needed To Be Told, BASICS, Once Again, I Wanted Advice, Nt Some Pple With Trust Issues Givng Me Headache. First It Was D Name, Den She Suppose Dat Am Nt Preg Cos Of D Way Or Maybe Wat I Typed, Lyk Preg Pple Are Aliens Nt Human. Of Course, Miss Knw Al Took Her Tym To Note That I Wrongly Made Use Of Capital Letters, Nw Crowning It With Am Confusd Blah Blah Blah, Never Knew Am Supposed To Type My Entire Auto-Biography Cos I Need Advice. Its Not Even Lyk She Has Said Anythng Helpful, Just Prying For Flaws.
Well, Thanks A Lot Guys, For The Scolding, Concern, Advice, Everythng. I Have Been Able To Pick The Ones I Need. My Thoughts Are Clearer Now, I Would Try My Best To Move On From Here. Ese Gan Ni O.

madone:
who is this one sef and what is all this nonsense comments.how does pregnant people type...mtcheeeew.gerout of here if u don't know what to tell here .....she doesn't need you to believe her story ,abi how many help can you offer her ....

madone:
dont worry yourself again am here now let me see any stupid person that LL tell u nonsense... You just dont answer them,I here to face them with equal craze. Good girl,dont mind them eh

Oyindidi:
Accept your pregnancy already

Oyindidi:
I truly didn't understand her at first. I've a lot to tell.

madone:
and in ur quest to understand the simple story you wan fry the girl on a public space ...did u see the harm you almost caused .....that everyone that posted after ur text was mocking the innocent girl.....too much of nollywood is bad my dear...go and sin no more .....but if u still give her trouble am here

Oyindidi:
Stop crying more than the bereaved

zed7:
If you believe this, you'll believe anything. Same guy asking if direct entry admission was out last year. Anyway, if u need help we will dash you bags of used baby clothes. Nothing like one naira for you. Bullshiit.

madone:
guy read and understand her story,stop picking silly points ...if u wanna help do if u don't want paceoff.bullmess

zed7:

Shut up. You're probably the same Op using a different moniker. All ye corporate beggars should go and get a job. Pregnant girl indeed, olodo.

Oyindidi:
How old is your pregnancy? I'm kinda confused.

You met your bf in year 1 and he was in his finals. You got pregnant and he gave you money for abortion. You are now in 400 level.

madone:
hahahaaaaa lol you are a fool,a local bully and an idiot.NL members who have met me real life know that am very comfortable. Am here for idiots like you who don't have common sense. Check my moniker does it lol like someone intending to beg money from you...goat,unintelligent fowl like you. Check that girls profile and see ,she has been registered here since 2013 she has just one topic wich is this topic 13post only wich are just the post she has here...moreover she did not ask you for money just simple advice and ur bully head and uncircumcised mind is not even rich enuf to offer that mtcheeeeew.. You cant even read what she posted.....you be goat guy.how much you get to chop and to even talk of giving person. Pauper like you. Just stay and read the post if you don't have what to contribute. Am here for your likes ....leave the girl alone and face me eeeeeeediot

zed7:


Rich, comfortable, money. All these used by one person in a statement, that shows you are wretched and your life revolves around money. You have the IQ of a toad and it's belittling arguing with you. Get an education!

iamloyalty:


She is a fraudster look for financial help.

madone:
foool I can see you don't know how to read...where did read rich in my post. Guy u re frustrated becos no one care about you...no one want to help you...go and hide ....wretched fool

Martins4christ:
Never Said Anyfin Lyk Yr1. Am A Direct Entry Ful Tym Student , He Was A Part Tym Student, Different Calender, Just D Same School, He Stayed Brk In School 4 A While, To Complete Clearance Nd Others. I Told U Wat Is Needed To Be Told, BASICS, Once Again, I Wanted Advice, Nt Some Pple With Trust Issues Givng Me Headache. First It Was D Name, Den She Suppose Dat Am Nt Preg Cos Of D Way Or Maybe Wat I Typed, Lyk Preg Pple Are Aliens Nt Human. Of Course, Miss Knw Al Took Her Tym To Note That I Wrongly Made Use Of Capital Letters, Nw Crowning It With Am Confusd Blah Blah Blah, Never Knew Am Supposed To Type My Entire Auto-Biography Cos I Need Advice. Its Not Even Lyk She Has Said Anythng Helpful, Just Prying For Flaws.
Well, Thanks A Lot Guys, For The Scolding, Concern, Advice, Everythng. I Have Been Able To Pick The Ones I Need. My Thoughts Are Clearer Now, I Would Try My Best To Move On From Here. Ese Gan Ni O.

madone:
dont worry yourself again am here now let me see any stupid person that LL tell u nonsense... You just dont answer them,I here to face them with equal craze. Good girl,dont mind them eh

zed7:

Get busy, get an education and get a job. Never too late to make something out of life. Online scam is shameful.

Oyindidi:
I went through his posts and it's not in line with this post. Fraudsters everywhere