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37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by NENigeria(m): 7:16pm On Aug 03, 2017
Erdoo Mongol, a 37 years old Benue born Tiv lady took to her Facebook wall to share an emotional and inspiring message with single ladies. She titles it
"My Birthday Speech"


Hurray! It's my 37th Birthday!

It's important to mention this age because many people kind of feel it's a curse to be single at this age. However, I'm a living testimony that we can achieve purpose and fulfill destiny whether married or single. If I were to be married before now, my life would sure be different but not necessarily better. So I'm grateful for the privilege to be proudly single and complete in Christ at this age, when I share my testimony, it will be true cos I know what it means to wait in and on God.

I'm grateful for the grace to keep my faith and chastity. Yes I need to encourage someone out there that it is possible! Two secrets I'd release here for the upcoming young ladies is to keep your body and your heart as you relate with the male folk in life. As I celebrate this 37th Birthday, I make bold to say no man has ever broken my heart, this is because I always give my heart to Jesus not men and of course I keep my body from their reach. A 3rd and last point is to perpetually strive to add value to yourself. This is the ABC of a Successful , Satisfying and Fulfilling Single life. Having done that, believe in God, believe in yourself and be on your way to the top.

By the grace and mercy of God I'm many things to so many people viz: A Joy, an Encouragement, a source of Inspiration, a pillar of support, a Blessing, etc and to some still, a rock of offence. I'm truly grateful for the privilege to impact my world in my little corner.

I've had my fair share of the lows and valleys in life but the positive experiences far outweighs the negatives and my CONCLUSION therefore, is that GOD IS GOOD. I'm still on course, still fighting the good fight of faith, ain't contemplating to give up cos I'm a work in progress in God's Hand. He'll finish and complete the good works He's started in me.

Determined to continually move to the top cos that's where great minds are. Have got no choice but to continue to shine in this one life. For those who may feel threatened by my determination to shine, Pls pardon me, BUT THE SKY IS LARGE ENOUGH, So THE SHINING OF ONE STAR CAN'T HINDER ANOTHER STAR FROM SHINING. Just discover your area, and begin to shine, we are all stars. I wish to sincerely appreciate my family, mentors, friends, acquaintances, unfriendly friends and the haters, ALL things have been working together and everyone has contributed to making me a better me with an iron will.

This birthday is particularly significant to me because 7 is a number of perfection, David achieved his dream of ruling over Judah and ALL Israel at the age of 37. He had this dream since age 17 but until age 30 when he began to rule over Judah only, howbeit, at age 37 the full manifestation of his dream came to pass.

I see this pattern playing out in my life, I have seen many dimensions of God's grace and mercy in the past but this time around it's a different story. God has visited me with a mind blowing, unbelievable and unimaginable testimony on the occasion of this Birthday. I will share it at the appropriate time. I'm dumbfounded and speechless. Only the Lord Almighty -Jehovah overdo, who fetches water with the basket to shame the bucket - can do this great Miracle. I stand amazed..... Do I say I'm grateful! Do I say I Love You! Do I say I Thank You! What else can I say.

Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by NENigeria(m): 7:17pm On Aug 03, 2017
source: Her FB wall mynd44
Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by Eralia: 7:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
congrats ! at least it is better than being in a loveless marriage.

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Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by Jostico: 7:28pm On Aug 03, 2017
the write up is too long.
Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by VargasVee(m): 7:30pm On Aug 03, 2017
Why bother writing such a long epistle to prove your point

Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by torres89: 7:36pm On Aug 03, 2017
everyone has a purpose on Earth
she discovered hers

discover yours
don't be a copy cat

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Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by NENigeria(m): 7:45pm On Aug 03, 2017
torres89:
everyone has a purpose on Earth

she discovered hers


discover yours

don't be a copy cat
WORD!

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Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by MhizzAJ(f): 7:46pm On Aug 03, 2017
It's well with her

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Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by IdeyFindWife: 7:50pm On Aug 03, 2017
We get the point: No Single person needs feel incomplete just becos of not being in a relationship and no one needs feel unfulfilled becos of not having that much-taunted "significant-other"!

But, the story left us hanging at the point where she never deigned to share one of her tantalizing testimonies. I was expecting to hear thanks for Harvard MBA Graduation, the purchase of a personal Helicopter, or a personal landed property even if not more than an all paid-up condo somewhere.

I just hope this epistle is not someone sounding out consoling herself to compensate for her not having actually maximized relationship opportunities that came her way earlier on in life.

One of the nasty disloyal "forming-holy" bitches who switched on me while still collecting all her Polytechnic livelihood from my little start-up profit earnings back in the day sounds a lot like this 9yrs on @30. Very desperate, very very unmarried and perennially single and currenlt;y busy "exercising-faith" like mad for a man after having escorted all her younger ones to their weddings and besting for colleagues since. Girl's always liking and re-posting those "Amen-amen" sturvs on FB, i hear she is now a facebook-evangelist.

Word of Advice: Take your chance while you still have it!

NB
I cld be wrong anyway, so halleluyah for the OP!

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Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by IamLEGEND1: 7:53pm On Aug 03, 2017

Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by Greatzeus(m): 8:00pm On Aug 03, 2017
Words of encouragement to single ladies who think they are less a lady because of their marital status.
Op,I hope the writer is not a retired slay Queen,forming decent after slaying her brains out grin

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Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by Nobody: 8:02pm On Aug 03, 2017
Keep consoling yourself you hear.
Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by NENigeria(m): 8:07pm On Aug 03, 2017
Greatzeus:
...Op,I hope the writer is not a retired slay Queen,forming decent after slaying her brains out grin
I hope so too
Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by Nobody: 8:11pm On Aug 03, 2017
so ladies in nigeria can still be single at dat age?
what with the way guys rush at ladies on a daily basis in huge numbers....hmmm
maybe she hates men sad
Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by vladhillz(m): 8:16pm On Aug 03, 2017
misery loves company..
Re: 37 Years Single Lady Advises Single Ladies by izospindle(m): 9:54pm On Aug 03, 2017
drop this you holier than thou atitude if you happy been single you will not be lamenting with sytle. drop ur high standard and submit to a man b4 menopause jam u. or you want to tell me u never get bf bfor. I

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