Last month checking my glfd mobile found out she chats sexually with other men exchanging photos and speaking like that / i love you /i miss you/ how you like to do it/..... with two of them the chatt was more close and with the other one more personal. she also speaking intimidating about me me with them. When i told her she got very angry i check her mobile breaking her privacy and told me she is just playing and she doesnt own any explanation as am not her husband. am very confused i dont know what to do next

kostantin:
Last month checking my glfd mobile found out she chats sexually with other man exchanging photos and speaking like that / i love you /i miss you/ how you like to do it/..... with two of themthe chatt was more close and with the other one more personal. she also speaking intimidating about me me with them. When i told her she got very angry i check her mobile breaking her privacy and told me she is just playing and she doesnt own any explanation as am not her husband. am very confused i dont know what to do next

Please leave her alone you deserve better

Guy u are now the "side chick"

uzoormah:
Guy u are now the "side chick"

what means side chick ?

kostantin:
Last month checking my glfd mobile found out she chats sexually with other man exchanging photos and speaking like that / i love you /i miss you/ how you like to do it/..... with two of themthe chatt was more close and with the other one more personal. she also speaking intimidating about me me with them. When i told her she got very angry i check her mobile breaking her privacy and told me she is just playing and she doesnt own any explanation as am not her husband. am very confused i dont know what to do next

Bro why are you confused? Cus she clearly stated you're not her husband, why not turn her to f*ck-buddy

kostantin:
what means side chick ?

It is actually meant 4 gals.. bt in factual terms. u are and have always been the 3rd boyfriend

Dont know i have feelings for her. Couldnt believe what i ve seen.

Talasuma:


Bro why are you confused? Cus she clearly stated you're not her husband, why not turn her to f*ck-buddy

Brosssssss she don tell u naaah u no be her husband if u marry am she go talk say u no be her God..

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My brother u don miss road na Yaba left u enter no be banana island motor u dey use ur head oo

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kostantin:
Dont know i have feelings for her. Couldnt believe what i ve seen.

Lukatyew? Wich kain feelin's?! Best believe whatcha seeing dude.

Most chicks doing that in these recession days aint often able to separate fantasies from reality. They're prone to later meeting up and shagging those sextmate dudes; when the crunch hits, their panties drop like coins in a wishing well. Don't break out the champagne instead just dust your Nikes and take off, bro, this ones no keeper because she's still sowing her oats, wasting her time and life away. Don't let her add yours to the bill. You deserve better .

Jettison her arss already .

I HAVE TWO SOLUTIONS FOR YOU.
1.IF YOU ARE DATING HER HOPING TO MARRY HER,PLZ I WOULD ADVICE YOU REMOVE UR MIND FROM THERE. INSTEAD FOCUS ON THE S
EX U CAME FOR.
2.BUT IF YOU R SERIOUS ABOUT MARRYING IN A WAY THAT U THINK THAT YOU MUST, I DID ADVICE YOU TO STYLISHLY BACK OUT FROM THE RELATIONSHIP.
FROM YOUR WRITE UP ND THE GIRLS RESPONSE WHEN U CONFRONTED. IT SEEMS SHE IS IN HER EARLY TWENTIES PROBABLY BTW 21-25 COZ THAT'S HOW THEY BEHAVE.THIS SET OF AGE MOST OF THEM ARE CARRIED AWAY BY SO MUCH ATTENTION ND FOR UR INFO MANY OF THEM DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.

But she said the truth na u aint her husband..
So why worried so much abt her sexchat.

Or u telling me u dnt flirt or hav not flirted with other gals. Physically or verbally or "medially".
Ever since u 2 started dating?.

I hate guys who complain over a cheating girlfriend. They're just unnecessarily greedy and are big fools too. She's just a girlfriend, not your wife. She's free to fvck anybody!

Public utility alert bro.
Back off bro! I repeat, back off!

Thanks a lot bros and sis for your replies.Really i dont know what next. I fall inlove with that girl. I find always excuses for her rubish. But now since openly stated that is her privacy to sexchat and also speak with her mates about me not so good repeatedly it is difficult to find an excuse for her supposed love to me. It hurts me that this 2 years relationship with her is mostly one sided builted more from my side. I dont want to Bleep it up but i dont know how to restore the lost trust and appreciation.

No i didnt flert others by any means.

BLACKdagger:
But she said the truth na u aint her husband..
So why worried so much abt her sexchat.

Or u telling me u dnt flirt or hav not flirted with other gals. Physically or verbally or "medially".
Ever since u 2 started dating?.

kostantin:
Last month checking my glfd mobile found out she chats sexually with other men exchanging photos and speaking like that / i love you /i miss you/ how you like to do it/..... with two of them the chatt was more close and with the other one more personal. she also speaking intimidating about me me with them. When i told her she got very angry i check her mobile breaking her privacy and told me she is just playing and she doesnt own any explanation as am not her husband. am very confused i dont know what to do next

confused about what?that you are dating a Hoe!

kostantin:
Last month checking my glfd mobile found out she chats sexually with other men exchanging photos and speaking like that / i love you /i miss you/ how you like to do it/..... with two of them the chatt was more close and with the other one more personal. she also speaking intimidating about me me with them. When i told her she got very angry i check her mobile breaking her privacy and told me she is just playing and she doesnt own any explanation as am not her husband. am very confused i dont know what to do next

Wait are u thinking you are in a relationship before?

Sorry bro

Maybe am blured by my feelings and i cant see clear or i dont want to accept the bitter reality. I dont know. I ve spend and done a lot for being near that girl the last 2 years. Last time now she is always keeping very well her mobile never leave it alone and has pin code also i spot her has talks and ehen i appear she ends it quickly or they call her when am there she doesnt pick or when pick said i am busy i call you back. In sexual life now she doesnt want it so often anymore the most times she is doing it without will and she asks things for that. All those things make me to suspect that something is runing out of me.

Thank God you discover the animal on time

Dont know what to tell her and how to move on. I would like that is me who is wrong but i cant find excuses for her so easy anumore. To be honest I want her. I dont want to break. But

kostantin:
Maybe am blured by my feelings and i cant see clear or i dont want to accept the bitter reality. I dont know. I ve spend and done a lot for being near that girl the last 2 years. Last time now she is always keeping very well her mobile never leave it alone and has pin code also i spot her has talks and ehen i appear she ends it quickly or they call her when am there she doesnt pick or when pick said i am busy i call you back. In sexual life now she doesnt want it so often anymore the most times she is doing it without will and she asks things for that. All those things make me to suspect that something is runing out of me.

kostantin:
Last month checking my glfd mobile found out she chats sexually with other men exchanging photos and speaking like that / i love you /i miss you/ how you like to do it/..... with two of them the chatt was more close and with the other one more personal. she also speaking intimidating about me me with them. When i told her she got very angry i check her mobile breaking her privacy and told me she is just playing and she doesnt own any explanation as am not her husband. am very confused i dont know what to do next

obviously she is cheating on u...


any way na niggaz lyk u deserves to check ma signature

And what re u still doing with her? Run for u life bro

Just go back and apologize to her about invading her privacy n promise nt to do it again . Dude kill whatever feeling u v fr her den turn er 2 ur xex object or just breakup with er Cux

kostantin:
Thanks a lot bros and sis for your replies.Really i dont know what next. I fall inlove with that girl. I find always excuses for her rubish. But now since openly stated that is her privacy to sexchat and also speak with her mates about me not so good repeatedly it is difficult to find an excuse for her supposed love to me. It hurts me that this 2 years relationship with her is mostly one sided builted more from my side. I dont want to Bleep it up but i dont know how to restore the lost trust and appreciation.

reason I only keep bedmate so as not to be emotionally drained

She is righ, isn't she?
You're not her husband yet and you would never be.
The msg here is clear as crystal, chop all you can while it lasts. Yo hoe aint got no respek for u!