He doesnt Talk.

She doesnt Listen.

He doesnt Talk BECAUSE She doesnt Listen.

If she doesnt listen there can be no resolve, because he cant address the issue.

When he talks, she rolls her eyes, she sighs, she twists her lips & swings her neck, she gives him attitude & argument.

All because she doesnt want to KNOW theres a problem. All because she doesnt want to agree theres issues their relationship needs addressing. All because theres things she STOPPED doing.

But if she doesnt listen there can be no resolve. Because he cant address the issue.

He becomes stressed, he becomes distant, he eventually cheats.

He cheats because of the things he's not getting, from a woman that he cant talk to, because she doesnt listen.

She finds out he's cheating. She tells him that HE COULD HAVE TALKED TO HER so they could have fixed the problems before he cheated.

He tells her that he tries to talk about their issues, but she doesnt listen.

...& again she doesnt listen, because now he's cheated.

...& because he's cheated, she now has the authority to break the relationship.

She breaks the relationship. Because now theres no trust.

She now carries the baggage that Men are Cheaters.

He now carries the baggage that Women never listen.

They both enter New relationships with this baggage & the cycle continues. THE END.

QUESTIONS:

1. How could they have avoided the cycle ?

2. How do you break the cycle ?

I like to listen to people so that can't be a problem.