Nobody in life is perfect, that's why your spouse can't be everything you want them to be. People who are in happy relationships are happy not because they don't see shortcomings in their spouses but because with that person, they have fewer worries than happy moments and ultimately because these shortcomings are not unbearable. To have a successful relationship, one must be ready to do the following;

1. The man should not see himself as the boss, his woman should sense him as one

2. The woman should not use her gender to bully her man, no man likes it

3. You shouldn't ask too often jealousy questions, some questions sometimes are better kept in the mind to save the relationship

4. You shouldn't forget to ask questions that give your spouse a sense of importance

5. You shouldn't forget that you cannot always be right

6. You shouldn't forget that as you are willing to talk, so is your spouse, so be ready to listen

7. You should have a forgiving mind and if u don't have, try develop some

8. Avoid lies, they doubt you and get careful with things they share with you, it's not good in romance

9. Even if they make you happy, make sure you can to some extent do without them

10. You shouldn't forget to make up for the promises you have broken

11. Add yours

Nice one