Am yet to have a girlfriend. It's something that has eluded me for years, and this is making me ask myself whether most people in a relationship are truly inlove or just managing each other.
The school I attended was predominantly guys, therefore meeting a girl then was a tough task. Ever since I graduated a while ago the situation has gone bad. I have some normal female friends but I have no strong feelings for any of them to lead to a relationship.
The situation is I have tried and exhausted some tricks to increase my probability of meeting someone but still no avail. Am not scared of walking up to a girl but the problem I usually face is seeing the right girl at the wrong time always.
Guys of my age may have changed girls 3 times and still go about cheating. But am not jealous of these guys. Honestly if ever I should meet the girl of my dreams considering how difficult it was to meet her, I don't think am gonna let her go. I won't even think of taking the risk of cheating. I definitely have to be the best boyfriend I can to make her stay with me forever.
Anyway, my main question is; how can I increase my chances of meeting a girl out there in public? I need some ideas.

@Poster Join a church, and take part in all the groups.

   My guy tricks do not work for  long so why bother with them for goodness sake, just be yourself and you will meet a like minded girl.

just go out more

go to parties, shows, clubbin restaurants etc

single ladies are anywhere and everywhere

be charming and polite, approach women carefully and not aggresively

Im not gona tell u to go to church to pick up girls

but church is also a good place to meet people

guys and girls alike

trust the women of ur dreams is rite under ur nose

^^^ that's the most beautiful baby,gimme.

How have you been managing with sex?

madlady:

^^^ that's the most beautiful baby,gimme.

lol

NO!!!!

go make ur own

routan baby maker!

ayettymama:

lol


routan baby maker!

what does routan mean? ok just looked it up eh eh eh. Is there anything you do not know.

it was a volkswagon promoting thing

u put photographs of a guy and a girl

and it makes a baby

i thinktheyve finished actually

just go to places of interest like parties,camps,zoos,malls, church .etc just be ursef and if u see the girl of ur dreams go for her.

I also went to boys only, bet it affected me for 3-4 yrs after grad b4 I got my feet back

I can't even think of talking to a girl then, whenever I see 1, i almost got heart-attack  including most of my mates in high sch,

to my utmost suprise recently I still saw one of my mate still single after 7 years, same mentality I'm like WTF? 

but right now,  got all the codes, any girl I say Hi to:: she will jump up! even dem fit form @ 1st,  all na shakara

Watch more romantic movies, seek advices from friends (the experience ones) they will tell u aw to go about it,

with time u will catch up, goodluck on your search

There must have been someone who's found of u,if only u give the person a chance by opening ur heart. Don't let place, event or incident decide for you. The right person might just be a girl next door. Maybe u're waiting for luv at first sight,but i tell u that in most cases its just lust.

faakay:

I also went to boys only, bet it affected me for 3-4 yrs after grad b4 I got my feet back

I can't even think of talking to a girl then, whenever I see 1, i almost got heart-attack  including most of my mates in high sch,

to my utmost suprise recently I still saw one of my mate still single after 7 years, same mentality I'm like WTF? 

but right now,  got all the codes, any girl I say Hi to:: she will jump up! even dem fit form @ 1st,  all na shakara

Watch more romantic movies, seek advices from friends (the experience ones) they will tell u aw to go about it,

with time u will catch up, goodluck on your search

thats funny

most of the boys skool inno abt- the guys there q in front of girls skools after class!

Just be bold and confident, if you see a pretty young thing on the street that you fancy go up to her and get to chatting.

ayettymama:

thats funny

most of the boys skool inno abt- the guys there q in front of girls skools after class!

It's normal, cos they are crazy about them and no access to

some boys had to register extra coaching lessons because of these girls

Ebonyeyes:

Just be bold and confident, if you see a pretty young thing on the street that you fancy go up to her and get to chatting.

He can't be bold & confident just like that oo. u think it's easy? see as u dey talk am

@@Faakay

I know its not easy but us girls are shy too and all that 'tude is just a defensive mechanism under all of that 'tude they give you is a little girl blushing her pants off (For me anyway especially if the guy is hawt, hawt hawt )

ayettymama:

thats funny

most of the boys skool inno abt- the guys there q in front of girls skools after class!

Yes that's was certainly true for my school, but we use to fight with the boys.

Ebonyeyes:

@@Faakay

I know its not easy but us girls are shy too and all that 'tude is just a defensive mechanism under all of that 'tude they give you is a little girl blushing her pants off (For me anyway especially if the guy is hawt, hawt hawt )

I know

@Ebonyeyes. walking up to a girl in a street isn't an easy way to convince a girl. There are lots of crazy people out there in the street and the girl can't be sure am for real. But if only I the girls can exercise a little patience and do some quick check on the guy to determine his seriousness then the street becomes the ideal ground.

Whenever u see a girl first thing to do- MAKE EYES CONTACT. Look up to her eyes and give a smiled, if she smile back walk up to her and say whatever u want to say bt if u give her a smile and she ignore u just take a leave because u might nt really be the type she is looking for.
HERE IS SOMETHING WHICH MIGHT SEEM HARD TO BELEIVE,
Why do think some women kip falling for the same jerk who is abusive towards her both emotionally and physically. Now see the reason-A woman has no choice wen it comes to who she is attracted to or is going to fall in love with. This happens because women don't operate logically. As humans we av two minds! The logical and the emotional mind. Women are hard wired to follow their emotions more than logic. That's why so many women kip on fallng for the same old jerk who abuses them and often cheats on them. Their logical brain constantly tells them, they av made the same mistake. They will be abused again they will be cheated on again. Bt since they are biologically programmed to think emotionally they kip on running after the guy who triggers the emotional side of their brain.
In order words, women don't feel attraction to men because they decide to feel it. it jst happens.

don't go to church, beware !

best bet pray to god and

be patience u r not alone

we r both in d same situation
i must confess. if u r in diaspora
date white and when u r ready
for marriage date a nigeria
end of story.

Why worry too much when you can extend ya koboko and i tell you women go find you irresistible.

Alternate option, get fat account and spend lavishly at da club and dem girls go dey que for ya affection

Lastly, become a FATHER and forget about women!

@VGA. Why should I beware of going to church?

I don't really know the type of girls that visit the clubs cos I don't go to the clubs. Are they decent enough?

ayettymama:

just go out more

go to parties, shows, clubbin restaurants etc

single ladies are anywhere and everywhere

be charming and polite, approach women carefully and not aggresively

Im not gona tell u to go to church to pick up girls

but church is also a good place to meet people

guys and girls alike

trust the women of your dreams is rite under your nose

That 's your answer

eina:

@VGA. Why should I beware of going to church?

My guy I really wondered why he said that.

I am not a club girl, so I do not know anything about that at all.

madlady:


My guy I really wondered why he said that.

I am not a club girl, so I do not know anything about that at all.

I'm not an enemy or whatsoever. my fellow brother
date a white girl for now.for marriage please for god
sake and everything else marry an african or nigeria

God bless !

@poster,

forget that club thing and neither would I say you should go to church. Just keep praying about it.

For me, I prefer to go for someone I've known for quite a while say like 5years or more. When I'm ready to get married, I'm looking to go for someone I've dated before or someone I've been so fond of before.
It's just a rule of 'the devil you know is better than the angel you don't'.

Hope this helps.

VGA:

I'm not an enemy or whatsoever. my fellow brother
date a white girl for now.for marriage please for god
sake and everything else marry an african or nigeria

God bless !

He said he does not want to play around. He wants to wait not just date for the time being.

kvolander:

@poster,

forget that club thing and neither would I say you should go to church. Just keep praying about it.

For me, I prefer to go for someone I've known for quite a while say like 5years or more. When I'm ready to get married, I'm looking to go for someone I've dated before or someone  I've been so fond of before.
It's just a rule of 'the devil you know is better than the angel you don't'.

Hope this helps.

Thanks my brother that's what i was trying to explain.

4get church nothing in 4 u just go and praise ur god
and walk out. participate in groups if u like but dont
toast a girl in the church. just chill man

VGA:

Thanks my brother that's what i was trying to explain.

4get church nothing in 4 u just go and praise your god
and walk out. participate in groups if u like but dont
toast a girl in the church. just chill man

Why, please could you tell me what is wrong with a girl who goes to church?

madlady:



Why, please could you tell me what is wrong with a girl who goes to church?

Probably thinks they are pretentious just like the church guys who smash up takeaway girls on Saturday nights and make it early for 10am service

Ebonyeyes:

Probably thinks they are pretentious just like the church guys who smash up takeaway girls on Saturday nights and make it early for 10am service

Well you have good and bad in church, just like you have good girls in clubs, just that I  do not go so know nothing about them.