Hi nairalanders,

I want to know what you all think about this.. is it okay for a girl to have a boyfriend and on the other hand still have a male best friend?

It is too bad...You lover should be your best friend ever...

i nor know o....ask yourself

trust me u go bang dat male best friend leta cos sumtin go dey im boi were u go want 4 ya bf

What exactly will be the role of the boyfriend and the male best friend?

It's not advisable.your boyfriend won't be comfortable knowing that you discuss your relationship issues with another guy

of course
I see no reason why u can't
so far u ready to screw them both

My girlfriend has male besties,you can't stop her, everyone has a right to choice. I've learnt to have female besties,I hope she sees nothing wrong in it and understand I also have a right to choose.One of the ways to die is bothering about the things women do. I no even want know about the things she does or does not.

Ask google.

See as dem de friendzone people

My friend who called me ipob. I know you are married,ain't trying to hit on u,just wanted to say hi.

Amarabae:
Ask google.

Dazzal

illuminated93:
My friend who called me ipob. I know you are married,ain't trying to hit on u,just wanted to say hi.

Hw are you? And how was ur day.

And the innocent bestie will be having high hopes

I'm good,u look cool @dp. I'm observing the way u flashed that ring on your finger. The ring says perverts keep off,I'm married

Amarabae:
Hw are you? And how was ur day.

Too many kids now on nairaland,asking all sorts of silly questions... and we wonder why dey r not passing jamb

illuminated93:
I'm good,u look cool @dp. I'm observing the way u flashed that ring on your finger. The ring says perverts keep off,I'm married

hmmm, Not that. You misintepreted it.
So when are you marrying?
Are you not tired of being a bachelor? It must be boring.

I don't know for others but my man is my bestie of life

@OP. Let me answer you.
Keeping your options open as a lady who has marriage as a target is ok.
But don't sleep around,
many heartbreaks over marriage proposal today is because many ladies put all their eggs in one basket.
If he is serious with you, stick with him.
But if he is a time waster and unserious, abeg on your bluetooth o.
Plan B must be ready incase Plan A fails.

Which kind yeye "bestie" be that one? What the hell you need a MALE bestie for when you have a boyfriend? Your partner should be your friend, your brother, confidant, everything. Why the hell you need to hold back on some things with the bf, and then do them with the bestie. I dont follow. So you'll be free and discuss all things with the bestie, and the boyfriend would be for what? Sex?

Now this is why relationships dont make sense anymore. People dont even know what they want! Dating and relationships are supposed to be some sort of prelim to marriage. Imagine yourself as a married woman (since you can't do that as a single), would you be comfortable if your husband calls you every evening and says he's spending time with his 'bestie' babe after work and would return late at night"?

My dear, you are either confused or you want to double date and you're looking for a way to rationalize the stupid act.

Marriage ain't really a compulsory thing. Why would you even want me to get married?

Amarabae:
hmmm, Not that. You misintepreted it.
So when are you marrying?
Are you not tired of being a bachelor? It must be boring.

Male best friend as in some one you've frind zoned already or wat?

This is why I have said I will not give myself headache over any girl fa...

You Can't serve two masters at the same time

If u really care for ur lover neva try it cos dah ur bestie so will soon get jealous of wah u have with him and might want to have u for himself...
Haff done dis with a chick dah was my bestie..

So choose wisely

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=asGBxGyhzGE

Its not bad.

This one is probably a teenager possibly not even up to 19 yet wants to have multiple men in her life.


Your fvck rate shall be in bleeps/second until your thing becomes slack and you begin to look for a boyfriend and bestie all in one but won't be able to find cos no one ever wears a slacked shoe after testing it the first time.