please i need your honest and candid reply to these

if your boyfriend"s ex gul,keeps mailing him to let him know how she is doing,and also wanting your boyfriend to always find out how she is doing,call or communicate with her,and your boy friend inturn does same to her,even ending his mails to her with
love
andrew
does that mean they still feel for themselves or just want to be good friends.

After the game is over, it has to be over completely, they may communicate but once in a very long time or even coincidentally. But as long as they frequently keep in touch and end their messeges with "love" then they can make love if together alone. The fire is still burning girlfriend,

As long as it didnt end with a fight. . .
Mature guys dont end relationships and start keeping malice with their ex's. . .
My girl knows i keep in touch with all my ex's but she also trusts me to handle the situation.

And yes, i end the mails with "love Lexi"

Hmmm, , they might still feel something for themselves, if only slightly, and if the chance comes up, who knows?, something may or may not go down. All I can say is, GIRL, SHINE YO EYE!!

If his ongoing friendship with his ex makes you uncomfortable, YOU MUST LET HIM KNOW, be completely honest, and just have a frank discussion with him about it; hear his side also, etc, and and ask him to decrease the amount of time they communicate, if it'll help things out a bit.

I don't think that's too unreasonable a request to grant for someone you love.

I'm sure he has no intentions of straying, but you don't know if the ex still has the fire of passion burning for him. Just tell him how you feel and trust him to do the right thing by you.


The key is communication,

My ex and I used to talk on a daily basis and that was only because I had no one else around me that could feed me mentally. Now we talk every once in a while via email. My husband has recently been making comments about my ex contacting me so I am going to just stop talking to my ex so that I can keep the peace at home.

He has not asked me to stop talking to him but just the little comments he makes, lets me know he does not like it.

I dont have any feelings for my ex anymore i think i used the communcation as more of a rub in his face of how good I am doing now.

As long as she know it's my turn no problem. If he is with me, it means that now I am his world. If on the other hand the girls wants to play a bitch, well she has to beat the world champion!

jaync:

After the game is over, it has to be over completely, they may communicate but once in a very long time or even coincidentally. But as long as they frequently keep in touch and end their messeges with "love" then they can make love if together alone. The fire is still burning girlfriend,

totally explains it!a clean break is best for both parties!

Happy re-union on the way*** May God bless them

Whats with all the old posts coming back to life. Is life really that boring that we make comment on a thread made years ago. I am sure the poster is over it and moved on by now.

The past should remain in the past.