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She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by isaacsegun(m): 7:04pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice. We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life. Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today. Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life) 21 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by wunmi590(m): 7:07pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Hummm, your matter got me in the corner. OP, I won't advice you to get married early if you are not fully ready, my definition of fully ready coupled with (financial and maturity). But truth be told, if I were you, I would make sure I talk to her to give you more time, remember you disvergined her and she also aborted for you, so you need to always put her in consideration while planing your career. The best you can just do for her is just let her relax her mind, assure her that you are going to marry her (that's if you intend marrying her), plan her program in your future agenda. I know the reason why she's desperate to settle down is because of the abortion, so that it won't later have side effect when she gets to a certain age (early 30's or late 30's). Don't let people push you to what you are not ready for, so that your future kids would not suffer. 91 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by greatnaija01: 7:08pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
kai you have wrecked her womb for another man to clean up your mess abi? chai.... when will ladies keep themselves till marriage...?? this is sad!! She is now an emotional WRECK. And you want a fresh girl who is untouched. Listen if u ever loved her... stick with her till Parents agree. You are not ok o cos if she curses you NO MATTER THE MAN OF GOD WHO PRAYS FOR YOU IT WONT WORK O.... you have both killed an unborn child... Pls do not make a monster out of her. cos if she does not kill herself or kill you she will destroy another Man's Life isaacsegun: 375 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by dingbang(m): 7:08pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
She will lay a curse on you... You better marry her before its too late 113 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by DarkMagic(m): 7:11pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
After taking her virginity plus 10years plus abortion that almost claimed her life..she will b on edge ni Well...E no concern me 201 Likes 9 Shares
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 7:13pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
This ur story just weak me and so.,......... 46 Likes 1 Share
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Who do you intend leaving her for after 10years of dating with an abortion?. When she was 17 she wasn't desperate, now she's 27 what were you expecting?. You better marry that girl!. 417 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Draei: 7:20pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Now you don't wanna marry her for no genuine reason? Nigger don't make me plank you through the screen...mtcheeeew! 259 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 7:22pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
But where is lalasticlala now sef 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Amarabae(f): 7:23pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Marry? What do you do for a living? 3 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 7:26pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
isaacsegun:but what sort of wickedness is this 183 Likes 15 Shares
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by AlexCk: 7:31pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
After 10 solid years(comprising of 2 leap years) & an abortion (that almost ended her), & pretty sure she's into u(probably), u now decided u won't marry her, because u feel the relationship can't work?!!!!. After 10 freaking years??!!!, Not like she cheated or, she's a manaic. But because u feel it won't work?? After 10years??!! Haba!!, Seriously mehn, that's just terribly wrong. Dunno what to even type/say 345 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 7:37pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
The wickedness of man... Op just tell us you are tired of the kinni. 147 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by MissRaine69(f): 7:37pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
You are a very cruel and callous man. You don't deserve happines. She is good enough to deflower, get pregnant continue to keep sticking your key in her ignition for years and now you mention age and it won't work? Are you serious? It took you 10 years to work that out? 239 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Stevebamdex(m): 7:38pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Verily verily I say unto you..you might not make heaven if you fail to marry that girl 261 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by QueenSekxy(f): 7:40pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
you are evil... 103 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by izzou(m): 7:46pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Draei:. 15 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Oyindidi(f): 7:46pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Marry her, may you not have erection if you dump this girl after 10 years. Anuofia 148 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Fadiga24(m): 7:54pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Chai the life of man.. 58 Likes
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Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Queenserah26(f): 8:03pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Na wa o 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by muller101(m): 8:09pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
That blood of that innocent baby is still hunting u guys 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by luminouz(m): 8:12pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Op..u no dey make sense.... Please adjust d message coz u sound confused 15 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by WeJCKs(m): 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
If that girl gets naked and open mouth for you eehh, all this years do you think there are no other guys that want to be with her, but she ignored all for you. Is I amu 83 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Nobody: 8:20pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
So after aborting for you and almost losing her life, you want another man to marry her. Some guys are not just worth it. 72 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Headlesschicken(m): 8:30pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
The kin thunder wey go strike you still dey gym... 61 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Cool23(m): 9:07pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
A simple case of wanting to eat your cake and have it 31 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Pusyiter(m): 9:10pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
are you to blame the guy or the assh*le wey open leg yakata make he piss put? Rorachy: 4 Likes |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by ayokellany: 9:42pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
isaacsegun: Pray God does not punish you for the trauma you are about to unleash into the poor girl's life. Strive to be fair in all of your dealings, humans have emotions. 82 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by Monaco2(m): 9:49pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
U Don ffuck dis geh for gud ten years now u wan leave her Guy y Wu u wan leave her for 114 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by solomix10(m): 9:55pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
isaacsegun:nairalanders av started laying curses on your way talkless of the one wey the girl go giv you 132 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by empressteemah06(f): 10:10pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
If am the one. I would curse you... You wasted 10yrs of her life... Why didn't you break up with her since.. Callous guy 59 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by GOFRONT(m): 10:14pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Op No Vex.........I fear U!!! 53 Likes 2 Shares |
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