JaffyJoe:
Man one of the best ways to permanently endear yourself to a woman is to come to her aid financially at a strategic time of need (talk & do).

There is nothing wrong with caring for someone you claim to love with gifts and lil cash sometimes. Same person you took your time to study when she worked for you and you feel can compliment you forever. Bros even if you buy 10k apparel for her and she later still say no, SO WHAT? No biggie, taking her shopping to a modest store is even a way to check her long throat meter.

Bottom line, don't biitch out now. That chic is your wife on some futuristic shxt. Don't lose a gem because you don't wanna appear like a mumu. If you find a good beautiful woman with awesome temperament & character, baba being her mumu is allowed.

egopersonified:
op, what this girl needs is a job and not a relationship. are you ready to buy her clothes, phones, feed her family, pay their rent, pay medical bills, etc? you won't do these now, but if she sticks around for five years you will pay for all the above whether you are both in a relationship or not. please help her get a job, she doesn't need your money. for once do something reasonable for a lady without thinking about getting a piece of her. BTW she knows her guy is a player, she is ready to stick to him despite that, if you like go sing it in the mountains.

dewhaley:
OP...just forget about the Invitation and try to avoid helping her...if you eventually feel like helping her,then know that she might keep coming back for more help from you and we both know you will want something later from her
#justSaying

profhezekiah:
Please where can I get a girlfriend on naira land DAT doesn't demand for money?

sirdouglas:
maximum respect Bro
U are one of those guys I appreciate their suggestion.
So what do u think brother??
Should I go with her or give her and excuse?
What will be ur next line of action if u are in my shoes?

sirdouglas:
was that the only part u read?? Didn't u see where I said the dude is a known play boy I bow for u ooo

sirdouglas:

Guy for some unknown reasons I love this girl. U mean I should just let her go?? I remember how my friends and neighbors where praising her character then. I just don't know

profhezekiah:
Please where can I get a girlfriend on naira land DAT doesn't demand for money?

chyy5:
Do u have genuine intentions for her? If yes, then re-mphasis ur intention to her. Is obvious she is having financial problem. Don't capitalize on that to do anything funny to her. Tell her what u want from her and if she can't say yes, then she should not remember you when she's in need. This was how a gal friendzoned me years and using the money I give her to cook for her cultist boyfriend in school. She remembers me each time she's broke and even when d guy fought with someone nd got wounded, d gal came to me pretending that her mother is seriously sick, not knowing is the idiot. Well, she regretted it cos I was long gone when d iidot dumped her sorry asx.

profhezekiah:
Please where can I get a girlfriend on naira land DAT doesn't demand for money?

profhezekiah:
Please where can I get a girlfriend on naira land DAT doesn't demand for money?

SmellingAnus:
She is in need of help and she knows you can help her if you want to....financial help to be precised...

Lakeside79:


Go to the real estate section or retired and aging section s

OfficialDad:


Its time you stop caring about what she thinks. You should be discharging orders and respect. When she realizes that, things would fall in place. Don't pay for anything. You re not going again, period!.

i love dis part

Adasun:
i love dis part

SmellingAnus:
Make her feel comfortable, assist her... Don't try to bring up anything related to asking her out, I mean don't try to make her feel you are taking advantage of the situation, ... After two weeks you can still mention and update me about the latest development then I will tell you what next to do

for your mind now, you are forming professor for women affairs

sirdouglas:
thank you but since I have made a mistake of inviting her already which she said yes but don't have anything to wear. I asked her to come tomorrow so that I can take her to my friend for new clothes. What do u suggest that I do

SmellingAnus:
Make her feel comfortable, assist her... Don't try to bring up anything related to asking her out, I mean don't try to make her feel you are taking advantage of the situation, ... After two weeks you can still mention and update me about the latest development then I will tell you what next to do

Funkychic:



lolz......movie director!