Nnemuka:

Running out of time how? she is 35 and not 50 when menopause comes knocking...
I think the problem is with you sir, you're already having a cold feet towards her thus cooking up thoughts like she's staying with you because time is running out.

Young woman please ask your fellow women they will tell you that when a woman gets to 35 her chances of having children starts reducing quickly.
And menopause can start from 45 depending on the individual and not necessarily 50 like you stated

TheWiX:

Young woman please ask your fellow women they will tell you that when a woman gets to 35 her chances of having children starts reducing quickly.
And menopause can start from 45 depending on the individual and not necessarily 50 like you stated

menopause at 45??
but its stil 10yrs from now....
Funke akindele is 40 and pregnant for her hubby of 42, so what is the fear?

Who said? tis boring and dry

Nutase:
Older p***y like older wine I sweeter.

Mcy56:


Op, I noticed your emphasis on the bolded but you did not mention any quality of a virtuous woman - submissive, understanding, kind, ready to accept and continue to have respect for you despite the age difference, etc. or, are these and more good qualities what you refer to as maturity?

Ask yourself and be sincere with yourself that once you cleared your mind and decided to go ahead with the marriage, you wouldn't have a rethink again and starts regretting your action. If something happens to beauty, will you still continue to love her for who she is in as much as the qualities of a good wife/mother are still there?

You see, the question is really not about the age difference as far as Im concerned because there are a number of marriages where the wife is older but are really happy together and no one will ever know but the issue here goes beyond age disparity.

Another question, will you rather marry the lady you know and love and put age difference aside or you will marry a skelewu girl younger than you and will give you no rest of mind?

Also, are you a firm person that is capable of putting your home in order, I mean, able to control the woman if you noticed some bossy behaviours from her end and put her with her excesses back on track?

Lastly, you mentioned that you loved her, did she feels the same way towards you? Marriage is not a boyfriend girlfriend thing, remember.

Yes I see all this - submissive, understanding, kind, ready to accept and [continue to have respect] this one is in parenthesis becos she is a stubborn type and den she is not desperate

Lewaluv:
Please dont marry her..you sound foolish.

Thanks swtheart