Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of necessity to let everyone know the full details of what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion I did everything I could to stay away from her due to so much friction that the issue has caused between our parents and most especially the strict opposition from her mother, but she will never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village. I was happy thinking it will give me the opportunity to cut off all my contacts with her,which I did. But after some years she got my phone number through a friend,and we have been calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each other once in 2011 when she came to village, and we could not even talk because her mother was around that day. Since 2011 we have only been talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was already having a rethink towards her,but through one of our recent conversation I discovered that her mother was still strongly against our relationship likewise my parents, though I understand the reason my parents gave to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a relationship that none of our parents ascent to. But she's still insisting we must marry.

You claim you guys are closely related, if so then that's reason enough you guys shouldn't get married. Make her understand.

Op's explanation and village people are like..............5&6

jericco1:
You claim you guys are closely related, if so then that's reason enough you guys shouldn't get married. Make her understand.

she was awear of that

isaacsegun:


she was awear of that

then you guys don't truly understand that it could lead to great consequences. Please tell her to move on, otherwise the society might reject you guys.