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Cheating For A Reason by HOTLILsa(op): 2:21pm On Feb 24, 2010
This is an email I got from one of my email buddies

My friend has been married for 5 years now. They have a 2 year little
daughter. Like any other couple they do have their ups and downs, any
way that's life. One day just after they had a fight over differences of
opinion, the wife was doing her normal shopping at their local mall,
When she met her long time varsity ex-boyfriend. After a chit-chat, she
discovered that he is doing well for himself and he is running quite a
few tenders under his company,  They exchanged numbers, from that day
they started talking over the phone until plans were made to meet but
how?That's when the varsity boyfriend came with the plan That they should
meet in Cape Town to spend a week together. She had to lie to her
husband and claim she is going to work conference at the Cape Town for a
Week. Which she did and her husband took her to the airport on a Sunday.
The ex-boyfriend had everything organized; the plane ticket and a nice
beach holiday resort for both of them to enjoy.She left on Sunday evening to Cape Town and arrived 2 Hours later to a very romantic evening with her ex-boyfriend. After the evening romance they made love but without a condom, off course they have known each other for a long time she thought. For the next days to come they had
Such a jol/ quad biking, cable riding. Wining and dining at Top restaurants and cafe's, something she hardly do with Her husband. They enjoyed everything money can buy until she left on Saturday back to Jo'burg. They had to use different flights to avoid being seen together (U know people talk). She was waiting for her husband to come and fetch her when she received a call from her ex-boyfriend. He told her that He was HIV-positive and the whole thing was not a co-incidence when they met at the mall. The reason why he infected her with the disease was because he was jealous of the family she has and the beautiful woman she has become and the
fact that he was financially successful but he is Not happy because he
knows that he is dying. At that moment she just stood there and froze.
Thinking what do I do now because it was already too late to take
anti-retro viral. Even if she laid a charge against him, it will only be
but to expose herself for cheating her husband.

That's when she quickly took a taxi to her friends place. She told her
friend everything that has just happened and asks for advice. The friend
told her to come clean with her man and tell the truth; anyway she has
just lost everything and nothing to lose anymore. Which she did over the
phone. huh

To my surprise even today. The husband went to fetch His wife at her
friends place, he sat down with her and told her how much he loves her
and reminded her of the vows he took at church with her and that it was
a terrible mistake she has done which unfortunately she has to pay With
her life. He told her that he is never going to leave Her, he has
forgiven her and he will stick by her side no matter what comes. huh



Off-course she had to stay in another bedroom and he had to share the
bed room with their little daughter. What's currently happening is that,
the wife is terribly sick she might die anytime. He told me this because
he was asking me for prayer support) because he believes as a group of
friends praying together, the stronger the prayer might Be.

And the other reason was that I should let u guys know Of such
happenings as a warning to those who are contemplating cheating to weigh
if its worth it!
As I sit down and think about this experience, I thought to my self: why
him? But I can not seem to come with an answer.
Re: Cheating For A Reason by sistajay(f): 2:33pm On Feb 24, 2010
Sad. . . . . . she has paid the ultimate price for cheatin, its good to see her husband is stickin by her regardless of what she's done. It's a stark warnin to cheaters out there to always, always practice safe $ex! Never ever trust your life to someone else by havin unsafe $ex.
Re: Cheating For A Reason by frijos(m): 2:45pm On Feb 24, 2010
Every woman needs to read this
Re: Cheating For A Reason by r231(m): 2:50pm On Feb 24, 2010
wow
Re: Cheating For A Reason by Nobody: 3:03pm On Feb 24, 2010
This is touching!!!!
There was a time i was not faithful in my relationship and i was having unprotected sex.My bf didnt really believe me that i didnt sleep with another guy cos then he was based abroad.Whn he evetually came back finally,he insisted that i shkld go to the test which i did 2ice b4 he culd start sleeping with me without sex.He does the test on several occassions cos of the natur eof his job so he didnt want wahala.Since i did test,i cant imagine being unfaithful again.i Thank God that am not a victim
Re: Cheating For A Reason by prixxy(f): 3:39pm On Feb 24, 2010
This is a very good story for all those that cheat should read(man or woman), YOU SHOULD NOT CHEAT UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE BECAUSE YOU SHALL REAP WHAT YOU SOW.

i do not feel sorry for her at all, because is people like her that give good once a bad name.Although its good to know that their are still some kind hearted guys out there.
Re: Cheating For A Reason by finguy(m): 3:48pm On Feb 24, 2010
and the morale of the story is always practice safe sex.
Re: Cheating For A Reason by Tonyet1(m): 3:56pm On Feb 24, 2010
And the concluding question: why do good people suffer ?
Re: Cheating For A Reason by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 24, 2010
Is this for real? huh cry wow! i got to be very careful, wink
Re: Cheating For A Reason by iice(f): 6:30pm On Feb 24, 2010
[color=#9900ff]Erhh don't they have that latex thing they use these days? undecided

Well. . .like i always say, you get what you ask for[/color]
Re: Cheating For A Reason by honeric01(m): 6:37pm On Feb 24, 2010
Pathetic, God gives the man and daughter the heart to forgive and bear the upcoming loss. sad
Re: Cheating For A Reason by uniqued(f): 7:00pm On Feb 24, 2010
Awww dis so sad. Nways warning to the cheaters out der. Na wa well sme are lucky and not fall into dis situation while sme well we see d result.
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