Just as we all know there's no perfect relationship or person, some people are just all shades of wrong. Well, he might not be a woman beater and she might not be a serial cheat, still, there are some other things that might just be as bad as those. If your partner constantly does the following things, you might just need to take a break and evaluate the relationship.


1. They compete with you.

You two should argue, but the goal shouldn't be about winning. You should be able to listen and understand your partner's point of view. If your partner won't keep an open mind to your opinion, the relationship is more of a competition, which isn't healthy.



2 . They scare you.

If you constantly have to think about what you say to your partner out of fear to how they would respond, you might just want to rethink the relationship. You should not be too scared of your partner that you can't talk to them.


3. You have more third party, than you have yourselves.

The first person you should relate your challenges to should be your partner. If your partner isnt the one you break whatever news to, then what is your relationship about? Also, if your relationship is one where a third party has a better say than your partner, you might just want to reconsider your stand. Your partner should be your best friend.


4. They don't accept faults

Your partner can't always be right, because no one is perfect. A good relationship is one where you two can see your faults, accept blames, work on it and become better persons. If your partner feels you are always responsible for the wrongs in your relationship, you should consider talking to them about it, because it takes two to tango.


5. They treat other people badly

Does he yell at the janitor for no reason? Does she curse the gateman every single time? If he treats people around him poorly and with no regards, you might want to keep an eye on them, and monitor them carefully. Remember the saying what goes around comes around.


If your partner does any of the above consistently, you should talk to them about it, communication is key to a healthy relationship. The change might not be a sudden one on their part, but gradually, they should be able to adjust. If your partner would not listen, it would be better to just take a break and think about this: can you cope with these attitudes for the rest of your life?


This post first appeared on this blog - Bae's Diary!

Source: http://www.baesdiary.com.ng/2017/09/if-your-partner-does-these-5-things-you.html


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