My sister just rushed down to my place (4 streets away) with wounds all over her body and in tears.
I enquired what the problem was and she told me that her husband
(to be addressed hereafter as 'The Idiot')
Just finished beating her up.
My reason for bringing this issue up on Nairaland is because this is not the first time 'The Idiot' will be hitting her.
About four months ago she had to run away from her home for this same reason. She already has three kids for him, a girl and two boys
My sister did nothing wrong. (Even if she did, must he hit her)
I really want to teach him a lesson about how to treat somebody's sister. But all I've been able to do is merely exchanging words with him.
And physically I do not think I can take him on. (I remember one Chinua Achebe's book where the physically strong brother of the girl tied his in-law on a tree for similar reasons)
So I need ideas on how to teach 'The Idiot' the lesson of his life.

Pimples:

My sister just rushed down to my place (4 streets away) with wounds all over her body and in tears.
I enquired what the problem was and she told me that her husband
(to be addressed hereafter as 'The Idiot')
Just finished beating her up.
My reason for bringing this issue up on Nairaland is because this is not the first time 'The Idiot' will be hitting her.
About four months ago she had to run away from her home for this same reason. She already has three kids for him, a girl and two boys
My sister did nothing wrong. (Even if she did, must he hit her)
I really want to teach him a lesson about how to treat somebody's sister. But all I've been able to do is merely exchanging words with him.
And physically I do not think I can take him on. (I remember one Chinua Achebe's book where the physically strong brother of the girl tied his in-law on a tree for similar reasons)
So I need ideas on how to teach 'The Idiot' the lesson of his life.

hire men to teach him a lesson. Dont you have male relatives?
if he is in the US, call police and let him spend a few nights in jail to "soften" his bottom.

You dont have to use phyiscal strength, you can be cunning,

If he is in 9ja give him strong sleeping pills and tie him outside in public.

^^ my partner in crime!!!



whatever u do sha, dont forget hes ur 'sisters husband'

she might not be too grateful!

I want a case where by the time I'm finished with him, he will not know what hit him

go and ruffle him up

thats what i will do if i were u

ill take other guys and beat the shizz out of him

at least that will scare him from touchin ur sista

but to be honest i think she shuld leave him- theres nothing good abt a wifebeater!

[size=13pt]then contact ogaga4luv to do the guy strong thing for you

im dey cast some kain spell like dat   [/size]

@platinumnk
He is not dumb so he will not take your sleeping pills

he must be beaten soundly. simple as. whether u hire mopo or agbero just get the job done.

Cant you call the police? By the time he spends time in butt-smashing jail he will not want to return back there .

@poster
women like your sister are the exact reason why some men keep on battering their wives on and on and on.
if your sister would have done the right thing THE FIRST TIME HE BEAT HER UP then she wouldnt be in this predicament today.

married women should forget about the shame or what "they think" their bible is saying: THE MINUTE ANYONE LAYS THEIR HANDS ON YOU, THATS THE TIME TO LEAVE (or show them fire so they understand to never try this Poo again).

too many people say that divorce is against their religion and thats why they are staying THEREFORE these same women should blame it on religion, shut the hell up and accept their fate!!!!

all the previous answers were good but wouldnt solve the problem at hand as this man has absolutely no respect for you.
marrying a man and realizing afterwards that he is an a$$hole is bad but staying with him makes YOU (the person staying with him) worst than this a$$hole.

Read ma signature! The advice there is simple

Mrbrwnjay.

I love the way you always cut across bull, Poo. I have so much respect for your intelligence.

@platinum

Long time sweetheart. how have you been?

@Ebony,

Hey girl, started using kettle bells at the gym.

@OP, please gather your friends and teach this guy a lesson. I didnt say beat him up ooh, cos whatever you do to him might be visited on your sister, so you have to be careful. Scaring him really bad might be enough for him to get the message. I feel really bad for your family sha, cos i know i would wanna murder any man who beat up my sister.

the husband is a brute, an animal, a coward and unworthy of the woman, he'll get his just desserts soon

Pimples:

@platinumnk
He is not dumb so he will not take your sleeping pills

kmt

are u going to hand it to him?

crush and grind them and put it in his soup!

Abekeade08:



@platinum

Long time sweetheart. how have you been?

u abadoned me

@ poster,
See, b4 u put ur mouth in their business find out somethings first,
Did they not date b4 getting married?
If they did i think she liked it and decided to stay.

At times most women want to be treated like children
They want beating to be their means of correction
If u don't beat them - their body no go reach ground

And it can also be as a way of fore play

I think she is matured, if she really likes the guy
she should study him and avoid those things that triggers his anger to that extent
Calm him down and talk to him about the matter and his attitude when he is calm, Mostly just b4 or just after sex.
Marriage is not a bed of roses (so they said), so she has to be wise abt it.

But as a brother, invite him, talk to him one on one as a guy, and make it clear to him never to touch ur sister - u suppose know how them dey do am now (THE GOD FATHER).

Or have u talked to him b4?

Set him up, if he is a flirt , use it against him, catch him and beat him up.

Set him up, if he is a flirt , use it against him, catch him and beat him up.

Abekeade08:

Mrbrwnjay.

I love the way you always cut across bull, Poo. I have so much respect for your intelligence.

@platinum

Long time sweetheart. how have you been?

@Ebony,

Hey girl, started using kettle bells at the gym.

@OP, please gather your friends and teach this guy a lesson. I didnt say beat him up ooh, cos whatever you do to him might be visited on your sister, so you have to be careful. Scaring him really bad might be enough for him to get the message. I feel really bad for your family sha, cos i know i would wanna murder any man who beat up my sister.

  hey girl, those things are a gym in your palm, my body is ridonkulus these days how do you feel about this equipment? Hope you got an instructor to teach you the moves

platinumnk:

kmt

are u going to hand it to him?

crush and grind them and put it in his soup!
u abadoned me 

u abandoned me too

My sister did nothing wrong. (Even if she did, must he hit her)
I really want to teach him a lesson about how to treat somebody's sister. But all I've been able to do is merely exchanging words with him.

dont get involved. when they will start their 'bedroom' talks again, they wont come and tell you.

But violence against woman should not be tolerated.

Your sister should press charges. We have all the LAWs needed in our constitution to handle such weak MEN.

Ebonyeyes:

u abandoned me too

no i didnt u ran off with jaybee and his porshe

platinumnk:

no i didnt u ran off with jaybee and his porshe

No you ran away to the bahamas with Jaquan bish I will fight you for him

Ebonyeyes:

No you ran away to the bahamas with Jaquan bish I will fight you for him

u wan try me, I'll tell Jaybee ure trying to hurt his baby you're carryin

Baby ke? and its not Jaybee, its Justwise Well Jacquan is HAWWWWTTT

Abi oo, so hot I have to wear shades when I make love to him

Why girl why Anyhoo hope you are well

^^ Im cool, love, thinking about the kettle ball, hows you?

Yoooohoooo im converting people I hope y'all dont get hotter though . Im ok, having a little headache though.

mon-ami:

@ poster,
See, b4 u put your mouth in their business find out somethings first,
Did they not date b4 getting married?
If they did i think she liked it and decided to stay.

At times most women want to be treated like children
They want beating to be their means of correction
If u don't beat them - their body no go reach ground

And it can also be as a way of fore play

I think she is matured, if she really likes the guy
she should study him and avoid those things that triggers his anger to that extent
Calm him down and talk to him about the matter and his attitude when he is calm, Mostly just b4 or just after intimacy.
Marriage is not a bed of roses (so they said), so she has to be wise abt it.

But as a brother, invite him, talk to him one on one as a guy, and make it clear to him never to touch your sister - u suppose know how them dey do am now (THE GOD FATHER).

Or have u talked to him b4?

Are you high or pretending to be high

Beating ur wife till she sustains some injuries is totally wrong, wont take that from anyone. But just before u resolve to any act, remember violence doesnt solve any problem, rather its creates more.
Talk to ur sis, talk to her spouse, find out what went wrong. If ur sis was, advice her.
U might not want to get caught up in the middle of married folks. Marriage is a little too complex for the unmarried mind.
I've seen couples fight really bad but makes up soon with a few rounds of intimacy. maybe a nice meal by the wife.
And the only one who's left out of the make up is the fool who was also left out of the make out.
U dont wanna be that fool.
U could beat up this guy and find urself in ur sister's black list, afterall they've been living together for years and like it or not, he's her husband and the father of her kids.
Now, i'm not implying he should keep beating her up, what u should do to stop that is;
If ur sister still wants to continue with the marriage, then u, ur parents, uncles or aunts whoever ur close with, should meet the guy and a few of his family too and warn him (not threathen) to desist from laying his hands on his wife coz she is someone's mother, sister and daughter.
But if he tries it next time, lock him up and get ur sister out of the marriage legally, he is not worth it.
Dont resolve to violence, atleast for the sake of UR sister,UR niece and UR nephews.
May God be with u.

police!