"Sweetheart you cannot go out dressed like this now, ahn ahn..."

I didn't understand her so I asked "but what is wrong with what I'm wearing?" looking at myself again, as if to check out my combat shorts, fitted T-shirt and trekkers.

"What is wrong with what I am wearing this time? At least I have removed the chain and rings which you called irresponsible"

"This is not befitting, and does not make you look responsible and mature, you are married and should dress so. What do you think my friends will think if they see you like this?" she replied.

"I am married to you not your friends so I will wear whatever I like, do I know them? Abeg abeg.....and the idea is to be responsible and mature, not look it." I answered.

"You are always doing this and it is not fair, I have been pleading with you to take down this hair. Barb it low and look clean, look like someone with a wife and children."

"Is it me you are talking to like that?" I needed to know because this was becoming rude. "You know what, I shouldn't even be here wasting time with you" I said as I walked away
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How does a man dress married?

I do tell anybody that cares to listen that if you don't get the desired change in your husband during courtship you won't get it even after marriage.

To your question@Op,a picture of you could aid our judgement but in the absence of a picture,I think you.should look around you and check for how certified good and responsible husband dress and check if you are anywhere close to it.