thingsyoudo123:
If tell her some very personal tins, dont be suprised to hear it from a relative one day or worst case from ur neighbor.

ENDTIMEgist:


you mean gooner like Arsenal fan or goner?

greatface:
Secrets?

The Title Reads "Secrets Men Keep From Their Wives" but the body sounds more like "How To Make Your Man Not To Keep Secrets From You."

I may be wrong please somebody correct me.

babyfaceafrica:
Secrets destroy relationships.. Say everything that your spouse deserves to know because only the truth can set you free...even if it will end your relationship say it!!!!....if you have a child, have dated hiabdeienss or family before...if you cheat..let him or her know..because or he finds out himself.....you are a gooner!!!

meelerh:
Hmmmm.... limit not prevent

Olulinks:

You're still a single gel. I can see those common line you just quoted above. What the OP is saying isn't before but during the marital life. OP is totally right in his submission above. I'm shocked!

patola080:
is ok so far ur man is jobless or d type dat move 4rm one woman to another or so far dat u re d one dat is gvin him food

nomsreal:

And you guys trust each other? Prefer not to marry than that kind of secret.
Can't judge though, maybe I'm not seeing the whole picture

babyfaceafrica:
Secrets destroy relationships.. Say everything that your spouse deserves to know because only the truth can set you free...even if it will end your relationship say it!!!!....if you have a child, have dated hiabdeienss or family before...if you cheat..let him or her know..because or he finds out himself.....you are a gooner!!!

sinkhole:
I guess you are yet to marry?

kissniyi:
HAHAHA. AT LAST. IM FIRST TO COMMENT, CNT STILL BLIV THIS. I DEDICATE THIS SPOT TO ALL ASUU STUDENTS ON STRIKE.

babyfaceafrica:
guess

sinkhole:
Yea, because I am married and I do keep some secret from my wife. I will give you an example:
My wife is very generous, a very good woman, but unfortunately our money only comes from me. If my wife see me with #10k, she can spend that #10k in a week and if she see me with only #500 she can also manage that #500 in a week so in order to keep some savings I have decided not to really tell her the actual amount in my account.

piagetskinner:


if u read the book of judges 14 and 15 u will discover that that woman wasn't meant to be his wife..but he went after her not because he loved her per say but because he lusted after her...and she didn't love him either, probably because he was famous and strong etc


this soon led to his undoing

piagetskinner:


if u read the book of judges 14 and 15 u will discover that that woman wasn't meant to be his wife..but he went after her not because he loved her per say but because he lusted after her...and she didn't love him either, probably because he was famous and strong etc


this soon led to his undoing

babyfaceafrica:
that one is different, I have examples of secret not to the kpt..read my post again.....if you cheat,if upunhave children outside

askseunoladele:
SECRETS MEN KEEP FROM THEIR WIVES

Men have secrets and they keep them very tightly to their chest. A woman almost ran mad during her husband's burial when another woman showed up with his son she never knew from Adam. They had a blissful marriage and she never suspected her husband was having an affair.

I'm not just talking about affairs. I'm also talking giving out money without your consent or extending secret hands to his family members. He can also have secret bank accounts, businesses and projects.

No marriage can survive on secrets. However, a wife's attitude determines how much of himself her husband will reveal to her. If you want your husband to open all his heart to you, you must be mature, faithful, loyal, dependable and trustworthy.

There are some women who have no secrets. Their friends know everything about their husbands including how many times they have sex per week. Learn to keep your husband's secrets secret.

Avoid jealousy like plague. Your husband will never tell you he's getting attracted to a lady if you are manic jealous and insecure. You may ask, why should he be attracted to her in the first place? Because you no longer do the things that attracted him to you so he's plain bored! He complained several times about it but you keep giving excuses so he gave up and fell in love with someone else. This may sound hard, but it's the truth. You can't keep a man glued to you by being boring, unromantic and frigid. So, if you are the secured woman who is loving and understanding, you can ask him why he is being attracted, he will tell you and when you make the necessary the adjustments, he will forget the other woman exists. It's as simple as that.

Give him free hand. Let him give whenever he wants to, after all it's his money. Never tell your husband not to give, you can rather wisely explain the pressing need at home and advise him to cut down on the amount he wanted to give to people.

Don’ t waste his money, if you do, he will not tell you how much he has in his accounts lest you make unnecessary demand on him.

Encourage his business ideas though you do not agree with them. If you object, he might go ahead with it in secret not minding whether he fails or not. Men love to take risks. Go on your knees and ask God to touch his heart instead of standing in his way.

Do not judge, criticize, abuse, make fun of and threaten him anytime he shares a secret, weakness, failure or temptation with you. Men love correction but not condemnation. If you attack him and make him feel like a criminal, he will never ever open up to you again, never.

May the good Lord grant us the wisdom to run our marriages in Jesus' name. Feel free to share. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele 2015, revised, edited and re posted.
www.askseunoladele..com

sinkhole:
Hmmm, I think secret is secret just like sin is sin, whether armed robbery or pick-pocketing or even some lying at home! But seriously, there are some simple secret you just have to keep, like the one I just stated and some you just don't do talkless of keeping it a secret, if you had a child before marriage, then tell your partner, if that person loves you then the person will accept you as you are. Personally, I will be devastated to learn that my wife had a child before we married or outside after coming together!

soberdrunk:
The problem with relationships nowadays is that almost everyone is going into it with so many 'expectations', 'requirements', "terms", and "conditions', "My man must be this', "my woman must be that". Our fathers and mothers can boast of long happy marriages because they loved each other truly with little or no expectations, learnt to accept the things they couldnt change about each other so there wasn't any need to keep 'secrets'. I remember my Ex-girlfriend telling me 'it is either you drop the booze and sticks or i walk' and for months i was living a double life, carrying brush and toothpaste in the car and masking the smell of booze with bodyspray. One day i thought to myself for how long will i keep up and why will i even be with someone that wont accept everything about me so i bounced, the fact still remains nobody enjoys keeping secrets, they only keep secrets because of the terms and conditions attached to a relationship.......

Flashh:
Samson told a woman his secret, she used it against him.

Not everything you tell your wife.

YelloweWest:

Don't push anything out of him. It's not worth it.
Give him a good dose of his medicine. Keep ur own secrets.