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5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 1:35pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
The business of offering sexual pleasures for material things by humans, especially the female folks, has been in existence since a time no one can tell or remember. This profession exist in most part of the globe; even places where people eat, drink, dream and talk religious doctrines. The difference is the rate and modus operandi which are normally dependent on cultural values and socio-economic conditions. Despite our cultural values we erroneously claim to hold so dearly, certain factors have proven to us that our so much touted cultural values have been beaten and rubbed on the mud like a lazy school boy by these same factors. Below are some factors that have necessitated the increase of prostitution in Nigeria in recent times. 1. POVERTY: The high rate of poverty in Nigeria has forced so many struggling parents to reluctantly neglect the welfare of their children. Let me tell you today, the level of patience in men is higer than that of women. It is easier for a young man to bear hunger and economic deprivation for a period than a young woman. It is even worse in women if such a woman is pretty and naturally endowed. Poverty and prostitution are like bread and akara; they go pari pasu. This has made many young women, both the educated and uneducated, to delve into the 'money for hand, back for fround' job. These days, the average naija babe you meet anywhere is likely to show you some olosho tendencies within minutes. Mechanics no let us know who be craze again; my guy, town dor cast! Country no easy! 2) THE MUSIC INDUSTRY: Most Nigerian songs promote the situation where young women offer sex for material gains. I mean, our music industry is so messed up to the point where these folks that call themselves artistes go to the studio to cook up crappy stuffs as songs with little or no sense! The main focus is usually worshipping the boobs and backside of young women and how they can die for these by spending their money. These are not love songs; we have always been given doses and doses of prostitution music over and over again in Nigeria. Now, what do you expect from young teenage girls who assimilate these songs into their mentality? They see whatever natural feauture they possess as means to obtain material things and offer sex in return. 3) THE OVER-DEPENDENCY MENTALITY OF MOST FEMALES IN OUR SOCIETY: Most girls now prefer to get quick money through this trade by barter that still uses currencies. They'd rather do this than apply their energy to other things that can generate funds. Some girls you call 'small girls' in your neighbourhood are not really 'small girls'. These girls take flight to places like Abuja and Port-Harcourt to bang and lick the navels of money bags over 60!!! 4) PARENTAL IRRESPONSIBILITY: Some parents are nothing but stooges and effigies in the lives of their daughters. They hardly care who she moves with or how she lives. All fathers are men and all mothers, women but not all men are fathers and not all women, mothers. You are raising a call-girl when you don't care how your 19-year old daughter was able to acquire a phone worth 170k and you know she is still dependent on you. You wey be her papa still dey stay zinc house! 5) LACK OF CONTENTMENT: Some young women are never contented with what they have. They are very eager to follow trends. They want to make use of the latest electronic gadgets, have their bank accounts credited often by different men, etc. Even some young women that work and earn steady income still engage in this trade just to keep up with trends. Except you are married and faithful to your wife, or a celibate or eunuch, let no man boast he does not patronize prostitutes. Your girlfriend who you spend on and she gives you sex is likely a prostitute! That is the defnition of prostitution! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 1:37pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Ƴou are a trillion per cent on point. Parental irresponsiɓility should top the list. Show me a disciplineɗ home, I will show you ɗisciplineɗ chilɗren. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 1:42pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
LordIsaac:Yea, the family is the smallest unit of every society. Family values surely reflect on the society. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by DOUBLEWAHALA: 1:47pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
no matter how discipline your family background is guy pray make poverty or sudden lack no come your way who no go no see 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 1:55pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
DOUBLEWAHALA:As stated in my first point, right? |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Apina(m): 1:57pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Rapmoney:There are people who have been affected by these conditions and they are not prostituting, and also people who have not been affected by any but are into the business. It's a matter of choice, stop making up excuses on their behalf 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 2:04pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Apina:I only stated the obvious. I didn't make excuses for anyone. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Apina(m): 2:12pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Rapmoney:What do u understand by "the obvious"? Abi u feel say na to dey speak English anyhow 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by DOUBLEWAHALA: 2:15pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Rapmoney:your head dey dia |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 2:25pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Apina:Grammar is irrelevant here. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 2:26pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
many guy won't listen that girl re sex machine |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by DanielGb(m): 4:26pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
The good news for Men is that it will increase more. And, Rapmoney forget the music industry, It as been corrupted. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by ednut1(m): 4:27pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Social media |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by pocohantas(f): 4:52pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
It's funny you mentioned all this and missed out one important reason. THE GULLIBILITY OF SOME MEN!!! THEY'LL DO ANYTHING TO FIND SOMEWHERE TO ADMINISTER THEIR PRICK!! THE GIRLS KNOW THIS AND THEY HAVE CAPITALISED ON IT. There are gigolos, but they ain't as popular as their female counterparts, because the average woman would never ever pay you for sex. Who you be?? Instead she'll come to your house and form uninterested. In usual testosterone rush, na the guy go still beg the girl to bend over, he won't even know he is the one being used for sex. He will still drop something in typical naija relationship style. Some of you guys are being used for sex FOC, and you don't even know. The prick is more erect than the brain. Demand! Demand! Very important factor. Let's blame nature... 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 5:08pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Lack of contentment. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 5:11pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Apina:You spoke my mind. Surprisingly, children of religious leaders with all the moral values their parents were able to inculcate in them still end up prostituting. The worse that could happen to any parent is when they have a wayward child that never listens. Like you said, it's a matter of choice 'cause even rich kids are also in the business for reasons they know best. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by tosyne2much(m): 5:13pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Nice one oga Rapmoney You forgot to add that the kind of woman you marry determines the kind of daughter you will breed. Some things are hereditary and prostitution is not left out. There are some mothers who groom their daughters into prostitution. However, if a woman was very promiscuous or she used to sleep around during her youthful days, it's possible her daughter inherit that same trait when she grows up 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by pocohantas(f): 5:15pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much: The men that are patronising them, is it their fathers lifestyle they emulated? ? |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by tosyne2much(m): 5:17pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
pocohantas:Some guys also take after their fathers |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 5:18pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
there are some pastors dauthers wey dey do runz ooo |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much:ashawo no dey change forget that tin its either she changes the way she does it if she don enter married life or she graduates into a madame .there are some mothers who groom their dauther into ashawo life actually. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 5:31pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much:anini always gives birth to small anini karashika always gives birth to small karashika true
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Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by ifyan(m): 5:34pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
You forgot to add LAZINESS AND GREEDINESS of the females folks. Plus the increment in konjism by male folks. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 5:48pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Thanks bro! I see you |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Rapmoney(m): 5:51pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
kimbraa:That's where the factor of lack of contentment comes in. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by SalomonKane: 5:54pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Very funny. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by SalomonKane: 6:03pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much:That's so not true. Haven't you seen children of wayward mothers behave better than their mother's? The way I see it, it's a 50/50 thing. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by tosyne2much(m): 6:06pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
SalomonKane:But would you deny the fact that waywardness can be hereditary? Sometimes, a particular trait runs in the family |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by tosyne2much(m): 6:08pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
lefulefu:That's very true. I have seen cases when a mother told her daughter to bring the highest bidder home for marriage 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by SalomonKane: 6:10pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
tosyne2much:No doubt, but such trait can be harnessed. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by adepeter2027(m): 6:23pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
So true |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Prostitution Is Increasing In Nigeria by Nobody: 7:19pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
The only reason prostitution is on its increase is because it's demand is on increase.! Destroy the root and watch the branches fall off. If prostitution is no longer an alternative means of survival, Not only will it decrease but fade off. 2 Likes |
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