Earlier today dicefrost told us a story about the fight he witnessed between a husband and his wife and how the woman turned the table against the man, I want to make one thing clear, some stories you see/hear about a man beating his wife, sorry to say, these women deserve it.
After I finished school I worked with an artist who had a wife whose mouth ran like water. On a fateful day both couple had a quarrell and the woman was raining curses similar to the earlier story on the man, Mr. Ayo did what Evaberry suggested, he ignored her and was laughing but the wife continued. Only for her to slap Mr. Ayo. Out of anger he warned her never to do that again but she slapped him the second time. I guess some women get joy from provoking their husbands. Mr. Ayo, loosing it completely, decended on her like Mayweather attacked McGregor!
She passed out and was taking to the hospital and later her family blamed Ayo not knowing his wife was the cause. Men go through domestic violence too. I've met a man who was scared to go home, not because his wife would beat him but she won't stop till he retaliates and then he will be the bad guy. I know one who's wife has turned him to bread winner and houseboy. Men are humans too just like the ladies. Some of us can't retaliate and become the victim. There's always two side of the story.
I've had to pull down a burglary proof because a loved one was getting assaulted by a violent woman. It still hurt that I couldn't hit the person because she was female. I'm not supporter for domestic violence but men also get violated in their home. Think twice before you call us animals

don't hit a human should be the correct line

not craps like "don't hit a woman "

made up my mind on this matter years ago.... either you talk to your partner in a good manner or you face the consequences

women shouldn't be given preferential treatment.... no more equality?

That story was made up or exaggerated. If the man in question married an ill-mannered woman then I may understand but again, a woman won't just start calling her husband names in public over nothing. Calling him a pig then going further to abuse him over the size of his manhood didn't make sense in the story as shared by that dude.

It's true that men go domestic violence but women are mostly the victims here.

lilmax:
don't not hit a human should be the correct line

not craps like "don't hit a woman "

made up my mind on this matter years ago.... either you talk to your partner in a good manner or you face the consequences

women shouldn't be given preferential treatment.... no more equality?

Like I said I've been in situations where if it was a guy we would go fist to fist but I didn't. I believe in life dialogue and understanding matters. That's why is not everyone you see you just start toasting or want to marry. It's wisdom bro. I can't even hit my younger ones talk more of a woman

kimbraa:
That story was made up or exaggerated. If the man in question married an ill-mannered woman then I may understand but again, a woman won't just start calling her husband names in public over nothing. Calling him a pig then going further to abuse him over the size of his manhood didn't make sense in the story as shared by that dude.

It's true that men go domestic violence but women are mostly the victims here.

my dear, some women are like that. My new neighbor talk to her husband like she's talking to a kid.

kimbraa:
That story was made up or exaggerated. If the man in question married an ill-mannered woman then I may understand but again, a woman won't just start calling her husband names in public over nothing. Calling him a pig then going further to abuse him over the size of his manhood didn't make sense in the story as shared by that dude.

It's true that men go domestic violence but women are mostly the victims here.

Maybe it wasn't but both couple have their problem. The Op said he knows the man to be violent. Ask yourself which sane woman walks into her compound and the first thing to do is insult the man and talk about their bedroom problems publicly. There was a million ways to make him wash his feet to. Let's be truthful and fair, both were wrong and frankly they deserve each other

Oyindidi:
my dear, some women are like that. My new neighbor talk to her husband like she's talking to a kid.

That was why I said he may have married an ill-mannered woman.

Just as when cases are presented in a law court, people try to discern reality from fiction. What's the possibility of a wife just blabbing about her husband's manhood size over his failure to put on slippers?. It doesn't make sense.

kimbraa:
That was why I said he may have married an ill-mannered woman.

Just as when cases are presented in a law court, people try to discern reality from fiction. What's the possibility of a wife just blabbing about her husband's manhood size over his failure to put on slippers?. It doesn't make sense.

My sister, some women say worst truth is he might have hurt her earlier.

Blonchilli:

Maybe it wasn't but both couple have their problem. The Op said he knows the man to be violent. Ask yourself which sane woman walks into her compound and the first thing to do is insult the man and talk about their bedroom problems publicly. There was a million ways to make him wash his feet to. Let's be truthful and fair, both were wrong and frankly they deserve each other

I didn't read the story further from the first paragraph 'cause I sensed something odd about the write-up. It's unheard of for a woman to abuse her husband in the manner the op put it, the issue was too trivial for that. Perhaps they had some unresolved issues.

Oyindidi:
My sister, some women say worst truth is he might have hurt her earlier.

Perhaps.

It is so very shameful and disheartening that people think its okay to hit(beat up) a woman if she talks rudely to her husband,

It is very shameful that physical and domestic violence has now been termed okay simply because a woman doesn't know how to control her mouth.

kimbraa:
I didn't read the story further from the first paragraph 'cause I sensed something odd about the write-up. It's unheard of for a woman to abuse her husband in the manner the op put it, the issue was too trivial for that. Perhaps they had some unresolved issues.

Definitely they do

Evaberry:
It is so very shameful and disheartening that people think its okay to hit(beat up) a woman if she talks rudely to her husband,

It is very shameful that physical and domestic violence has now been termed okay simply because a woman doesn't know how to control her mouth.

It's shameful for a man to hit a woman and also shameful for a woman to hit a man. It's also shameful for a woman to have loose mouth. People might hail you but at the end you're only hurting yourself

kimbraa:
I didn't read the story further from the first paragraph 'cause I sensed something odd about the write-up. It's unheard of for a woman to abuse her husband in the manner the op put it, the issue was too trivial for that. Perhaps they had some unresolved issues.

I went through that OP's posts and it added up...
Saying he has always condemned it was a lie, he is a fan of the usual diversions. The thread was only to sell his views fully.

There are women like that who abuse without reason...but this couple know themselves better. They have unresolved issues, they are two insane people.

Evaberry:
It is so very shameful and disheartening that people think its okay to hit(beat up) a woman if she talks rudely to her husband,

It is very shameful that physical and domestic violence has now been termed okay simply because a woman doesn't know how to control her mouth.

i hate hitting or hurting women too but i dont mind biting ur thighs though..........they're just too sexy and tempting

lord how can you give just one woman such sexy thighs when my girlfriend is managing her skinny thighs

If only more ladies will join karate or judo training all these nonsense wouldn't occur. No one will ask whose fault it is because there will be mutual respect for fear of what the next person can do

Pidgin2:
If only more ladies will join karate of judo training all these nonsense wouldn't occur. No one will wsk whose fault because there will be mutual respect for fear of what the next person can do

Then the campaign for no domestic violence will be useless....

Its actually wrong to hit a woman the consequences are severe and dire, and you can be labelled a woman beater no matter how frustrated and angry you are, no one is going to listen to you even if you were provoked, but if you can hit a man and get away with it, please go ahead, no one cares about men that much, infact it's more of a comedy trope for a woman to beat up a man, back in those days they would tie such a man at the back of a horse while they throw stuff at him. There's no support system for men except the patriarchy which expects men to take it like a man, so you're free

Hitting anyone because they hit you first (male or female) = self defense = Acceptable

Hitting anyone who didn't hit you first because of useless reasons eg the person said this and that = not acceptable no matter what,

E.O.D

If they hit you first, then it's open fight
Otherwise saying it's okay to hit because someone verbally insulted you is a no no.

Daeylar:
Hitting anyone because they hit you first (male or female) = self defense = Acceptable

Hitting anyone who didn't hit you first because of useless reasons eg the person said this and that = not acceptable no matter what,

E.O.D

^

Daeylar:
Hitting anyone because they hit you first (male or female) = self defense = Acceptable

Hitting anyone who didn't hit you first because of useless reasons eg the person said this and that = not acceptable no matter what,

E.O.D

God bless you

cococandy:
If they hit you first, then it's open fight
Otherwise saying it's okay to hit because someone verbally insulted you is a no no.

The way some people think is just amazing. Smh.

banmee:


The way some people think is just amazing. Smh.

Nothing amazes me anymore on here

cococandy:

Nothing amazes me anymore on here

Lol. When i retire i am thinking of getting a grad degree in psychology. Maybe it'll better explain why they are the way they are. 1+1 definitely does not equal 2 with these people. Smh.