1. Nearly everything you say or do is not good enough in their eyes.
2. They comment on the smallest flaws regularly
3. They like referring to past errors repeatedly
4. They act like they are fabulous and never make mistakes.
5. They want you to feel guilty and ashamed of who you are
6. They like to violate your boundaries and have no regard for the word 'no'
7. It is always about them and how they feel, what they want and what they think.
8. They like to control people around them