okay,so I'm in this fwb (friends with benefit)relationship with a girl.i do like her and tried to define it at some point,but she was dragging her feet about dating.so I left it at that,kept on having sex and regained control of the relationship and she was like any of us can sleep with anybody and it won't be cheating because we re not dating.
fast forward to today,she travelled back home and I told her that a girl writing post utme might have to crash at my place.anyways,the girl arrived this evening and this my friend was now texting me asking me to describe the girl whether she is hot and pretty and fat and bla bla bla.
the post utme girl is kinda hot and also mature not a baby.so when I described her to my friend.she was like enjoy yourself and use a condom.i was like.."okay then,chat later,gotta be a good guest".
she now bursted out ooo and was like I'm taking time to reply her text sef that I must be very"busy"...then she was like "chat later?,I'll never chat u up ever again "
i kinda feel guilty cos I dnt really plan on doing anyfn with ds post utme girl,she is asleep already.i did make my friend a Lil jealous,now I think I might have driven her over..
abeg any advice on what to do next or make i just ignore her

You dey craze?

Lawlahdey:
You dey craze?

Just saw ur dp.sorry ooo.just ignore my thread and keep going

the elders are on their way


the person below will hv something good to say

knax:

Just saw ur dp.sorry ooo.just ignore my thread and keep going

What about my dp?

Lawlahdey:
What about my dp?

Just keep going kwanu..forget the thread na.

But you haven't done anything wrong since you both agreed on this from outset. Jealousy is part of being human.

Don't come here tomorrow to seek for advise on HIV oooooo

knax:
okay,so I'm in this fwb (friends with benefit)relationship with a girl.i do like her and tried to define it at some point,but she was dragging her feet about dating.so I left it at that,kept on having sex and regained control of the relationship and she was like any of us can sleep with anybody and it won't be cheating because we re not dating.
fast forward to today,she travelled back home and I told her that a girl writing post utme might have to crash at my place.anyways,the girl arrived this evening and this my friend was now texting me asking me to describe the girl whether she is hot and pretty and fat and bla bla bla.
the post utme girl is kinda hot and also mature not a baby.so when I described her to my friend.she was like enjoy yourself and use a condom.i was like.."okay then,chat later,gotta be a good guest".
she now bursted out ooo and was like I'm taking time to reply her text sef that I must be very"busy"...then she was like "chat later?,I'll never chat u up ever again "
i kinda feel guilty cos I dnt really plan on doing anyfn with ds post utme girl,she is asleep already.i did make my friend a Lil jealous,now I think I might have driven her over..
abeg any advice on what to do next or make i just ignore her

knax:

Just keep going kwanu..forget the thread na.

Are you chasing me?

Why I prefer dating dude's in their 30's... No time for drama. The ones wet their head correct sha.

Maybe she is not a jealous lover, if you pull this kind of shiit on me, am done with your ass.

I'm a very jealous lover.

ok

Adaumunocha:
Why I prefer dating dude's in their 30's... No time for drama. The ones wet their head correct sha.

no wonder

ikbnice:
no wonder

no wonder what

Adaumunocha:
no wonder what

allow it pass ma'am. Forget I said anything.

dnt boda ursef bc both of u ar nt even serious, 4rm onset, u both agreed to sleep around, so u guys shud keep it up.

ikbnice:
allow it pass ma'am. Forget I said anything.

Next time don't quote me for d fun of it.

Is like you people need to redefine the defination of the relationship... TALK(shift sex btw you two to the side first) before everything blows up in your face. Ask her what she wants, figure out what you want. Reach a compromise or a decision, and everybody is happy.

Adaumunocha:
Next time don't quote me for d fun of it.

you think it's for fun. Hell no, I just don't like being negative.

inkdbetty:
Is like you people need to redefine the defination of the relationship... TALK(shift sex btw you two to the side first) before everything blows up in your face. Ask her what she wants, figure out what you want. Reach a compromise or a decision, and everybody is happy.

thanks alot dear..very nice idea.
btw..I went through ur posts.seems u love poems..I'm also a poem lover and writer.
wouldn't mind a pm from me..or would u??

ikbnice:
you think it's for fun. Hell no, I just don't like being negative.

Many peeps on nl are negative na... Nothing new. Just remember nothing is as it seems here.
No go dey imagine untop my comment. #Shalom

knax:


thanks alot dear..very nice idea.
btw..I went through ur posts.seems u love poems..I'm also a poem lover and writer.
wouldn't mind a pm from me..or would u??

PM does that work with the web? Because I'm not using the app.

inkdbetty:


PM does that work with the web? Because I'm not using the app.

sure does...check ur email

ikbnice:
you think it's for fun. Hell no, I just don't like being negative.

Bros you for talk Wetin de your mind oo...


Abi you de fear?

So, you still think sleeping around makes you cool or da real MVP?

You Berra receive the life of Christ and get the salvation that saves the soul. Jesus loves you, live for Him.

Repent and be saved today....

Lawlahdey:
Are you chasing me?

Lawlahdey.. Pronounce it for me

knax:


sure does...check ur email

But I Have Not. If You're On Twitter, Just DM Me.@IamBettyUdo

inkdbetty:

But I Have Not. If You're On Twitter, Just DM Me.@IamBettyUdo

I'm not really d social network kinda person . not on twitter

knax:

I'm not really d social network kinda person . not on twitter

So what are you on apart from nairaland?

Guy, ask her if she feels something for You..
if she b like "No".. Bruh, tell her how you feel.. if she deh para, Just forget her..

inkdbetty:

So what are you on apart from nairaland?

whatsapp

knax:
whatsapp

Wa-u. Quite Unfortunate For Me.