21 LIES YOU'VE BEEN TOLD ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. Marriage is a necessary evil.
2. Finding the right man/woman is difficult.
3. Marriage is a burden.
4. Friendship is not necessary in marriage.
5. People change after marriage.
6. Sexual excitement dies off after the honeymoon.
7. Courtship is more enjoyable than marriage.
8. It’s okay to have sex before marriage.
9. Men are polygamous in nature so all men cheat in marriage.
10. Successful marriages happen by chance/luck.
11. Marriage is full of ups and downs.
12. Children are liabilities.
13. All women are stubborn and unreasonable in marriage.
14. Marriage cannot be sweet without money.
15. Courtship ends as marriage begins.
16. In-laws are evil and unloving.
17. Marriage is unpredictable.
18. Money scatters marriage.
19. Age only determines readiness for marriage.
20. You must have your baby 9months after wedding.
21. In Marriage it’s risky to tell your spouse everything.

See, your mentality is powerful! What you believe consistently is what will eventually happen to you. "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he!" If you believe the lies of the devil that marriage is a burden, your marriage will crash! But if you believe marriage is sweet and it will make you a better person in every way (Eccl. 4:9-12), you will experience bliss unlimited! Whose report do you believe? God's word or the devil's lies? The choice is yours!
© Seun Oladele, 2016, revised, edited, re posted, 2017.
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Sometimes u may cm across som topics that will warn u seriously about hw difficult marriage is, like ....( marriage is for not this , not 4 dat )


And some topics will encourage u to go marry bcz it has a lot of blessings & full of happiness with joy



Now offer to u couples of the house

To each man, his thoughts..

No matter how well, we want to sugar coat marriage or bad mouth marriage.

The reality is marriage is hard work. It's not easy to stay married.

And some of what u quote op is true and stark reality in Nigeria. I don't know of other places. But Nigeria? Yes.

Emmm pointless

Quit writing not ur calling

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