DHighPries:

I have been in the States not quite long as an international student and unfortunately my first few weeks were like hell. I mean hell.Nobody to talk to. I was so bored and it seems I am just being born again.
After a while, I decided to start checking out a social network website and funnily enough I met a lady within 5 miles away from my school. Within a week of meeting, we were into each other as in communication wise and we started dating sort of till date. To be very candid, she eased up the boredom and I enjoyed each time we both spent together either on phone, chatting, texting, being together, watching movies together and those romantic wahala i am not used to. She comes visiting me everytime. She wants to know more about me and the african culture. Presently She kept on telling me she wants to be in my future to the extent of contemplating marriage that I always make her smile and happy. She has a job and she's doing good as a single lady.She recently broke up with her boy friend about 2 years ago and claimed him to be the only man she has ever dated in her life.
I dont know what to do because I cant marry someone older than me and it seems she is really serious about our relationship. Pls what should I do? I dont want to break her heart nor create a bad impression about africans.

na2day?:

on behalf of all africans, i want to let u know we are very proud of what u are doing in that oyinbo land and u are indeed a good ambassador to the motherland. plz dont leave her ooo, just manage the relationship and when she gets pregnant we wil come for the naming ceremony. dont forget to promise her marriage and how she will be treated as a queen when u will take her to africa, we dont want u breaking her heart; the last thing we need is an ambassador representing us negatively in the eyes of oyinbo ppl

Tink_sh:

Poster, it doesnt matter where you are from, thats silly! If you dont love her, you dont love her, pretty simple! Just tell her.

DHighPries:

I dont know what to do because I cant marry someone older than me

na2day?:

on behalf of all africans, i want to let u know we are very proud of what u are doing in that oyinbo land and u are indeed a good ambassador to the motherland. plz dont leave her ooo, just manage the relationship and when she gets pregnant we wil come for the naming ceremony. dont forget to promise her marriage and how she will be treated as a queen when u will take her to africa, we dont want u breaking her heart; the last thing we need is an ambassador representing us negatively in the eyes of oyinbo ppl

na2day?:

on behalf of all africans, i want to let u know we are very proud of what u are doing in that oyinbo land and u are indeed a good ambassador to the motherland. plz dont leave her ooo, just manage the relationship and when she gets pregnant we wil come for the naming ceremony. dont forget to promise her marriage and how she will be treated as a queen when u will take her to africa, we dont want u breaking her heart; the last thing we need is an ambassador representing us negatively in the eyes of oyinbo ppl

DOAweb:

@Poster

As Oyinbo she would appreciate your honesty except she only wants you for your sp**am and brown baby .

Believe me man, some of them will use you for their brown babies ambitions. Happened to my friend for real .

Tink_sh:

I am very sorry for your friend. But really?? Oyinbo's only want to use you for brown babies is the funniest thing i have heard in ages!!!

na2day?:

on behalf of all africans, i want to let u know we are very proud of what u are doing in that oyinbo land and u are indeed a good ambassador to the motherland. plz dont leave her ooo, just manage the relationship and when she gets pregnant we wil come for the naming ceremony. dont forget to promise her marriage and how she will be treated as a queen when u will take her to africa, we dont want u breaking her heart; the last thing we need is an ambassador representing us negatively in the eyes of oyinbo ppl

Tink_sh:

I am very sorry for your friend. But really?? Oyinbo's only want to use you for brown babies is the funniest thing i have heard in ages!!!

DOAweb:

Thanks anyways - but most of my friends that got married to oyinbos their marriage no last more than 5yrs. And I tell you it is a trend in the UK which I can testify to.

Remember I said most.

Freiburger:




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Tink_sh:

Yes i noticed 'most'. I understand you werent saying 'all'. I had a giggle cos i am an oyinbo myself but its always good to learn something new. Im sorry there marriages only lasted 5 years, thats just not right!

na2day?:

on behalf of all africans, i want to let u know we are very proud of what u are doing in that oyinbo land and u are indeed a good ambassador to the motherland. plz dont leave her ooo, just manage the relationship and when she gets pregnant we wil come for the naming ceremony. dont forget to promise her marriage and how she will be treated as a queen when u will take her to africa, we dont want u breaking her heart; the last thing we need is an ambassador representing us negatively in the eyes of oyinbo ppl

DOAweb:

[color=#006600]Shame, I have to say, you 'hardly' see mixed race couples in their middle thirties to late forties together, but you do see mixed race kids all over the place and they are the fastest growing race in the UK at least.

Most  of the mixed race guys and girls I have engaged were raised by their Oyinbo mums telling them their father left them (not true in the case of my friend atleast).

The calculation 'seems' to be a contract of convenience : my hypothesis

Black wants to get a resident visa
Oyinbo woman wants brown babies

Black man marries oyinbo woman =  5ys marriage and divorce.

And life goes on,  with the oyinbo women doubting 'most' African men intention of marrying them.

DOAweb:

@ElRazur

Very nice man, you followed my line of thought through and through, but I wish you had follow it on the basis of it's plausibility in  line of the words used - 'hardly', 'most', 'seems'.

Some evidence as you requested; the stats was all over the news when it came out.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/hi/english/static/in_depth/uk/2002/race/changing_face_of_britain.stm

I tell you what, how about me buying you lunch along with my guy getting a divorce and one or two of my mixed raced friends?  Up for it?

Tink_sh:

Love the sarcasm!!

ichommy:


Nice WORD jare my brother

milkan05:


Guy! u no go kill person with laff o!!! yeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!! LOL!!!

Freiburger:


So your head correct like? i no knowooooooooooo. impressive

ifedy:



na2day, dint know u were this kolo

190:

and one more thing is he na2day loves girls too much~