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7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by TrapHedges(m): 1:30pm On Oct 08, 2017
Many times men hurt/injures their wife not just by beating or hitting them, but there are some actions and behaviours that might injure your wife emotionally but you wouldn't know.
Here are the ways your can Injure your wife without knowing

1. Cuts her out of the discussion
When you act as if she isn’t even there or wouldn’t understand what you’re talking about, she feels a part of her is detached. She sees the marriage as a partnership in every part of life even the parts she may never fully understand.

2. Fails to notice the difference she makes
A woman doesn’t want to be appreciated for only what she does. She wants you to appreciate who she is, but you can admit it she does a lot. Whether it’s decorating the house or making sure the clothes are clean or that you have your favorite soap, a woman wants to know what she does is valued by you.

3. Underestimates the small stuff
You only said “this” but it was “THIS” to her. And it hurts. You may even think it’s funny. She may even laugh. But it is often building a wall of protection around her heart each time you do. The key here is that you can’t talk to her like you might talk to another guy. She hears and feels deeper than you do. Words can and do hurt.

4. Speaks with curtness
When you talk down to her, as if she’s somehow less than you, you bruise her spirit. Deeply. And, you know she’s not less than you, you don’t even think she is, she just can’t tell that sometimes based on your tone and the way you talk to her.

5. Corrects her as she’s talking
This could be finishing her sentences or speaking for her in the company of others. She feels demeaned and devalued when you present her to others as if she can’t compete with you in original thought, which you know isn’t true. (there some ladies that are more smarter than some men )

6. Acts suspicious
Don’t misunderstand or misapply this one. When you hide information, even when you think you’re protecting her, you cause her to question your motive. When you protect your calendar, or act like you are upset at the question “What did you do today?” or “What did you talk about?” or “Who was that?” when someone calls, it gives her an eerie feeling something is wrong. And, that hurts.

7. Admires other women over her
She sees you looking. She may even understand your highly visual make-up. It hurts her, however, when a glance becomes a stare…especially when it happens everywhere you go…all the time.
A wife’s heart, no matter how independent or strong she is, is tender in places. Lots of places. She can bruise easily in some areas of her life, especially the places that involve the people she loves the most, like you. A husband who understands this is more careful in how he speaks and responds to her.

source: www.nemezu.com/2017/10/7-ways-husband-injures-his-wifewithout.html?m=1

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by Nobody: 1:35pm On Oct 08, 2017
That's brilliant

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by basmur(m): 1:36pm On Oct 08, 2017
people, let us know when to resort to these points...

After bookmarking or page saving this its not that in every little misunderstanding you start rehearsing it...
lets be careful oo!!

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by Coloradvantage(m): 1:45pm On Oct 08, 2017
sure... and fucking her as if you are handling a piece of nonsense! too much porn sha.... most at times ladies Dont enjoy this nonsense... take it slow..., steady!!! increase speed! .., watch as she respond! not gbru gbru gbru.... without sense .... and using your fingers on her as if you fighting a war! most at times they won't talk depend on how close you guys are but it hurts.,,,

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by shinarlaura(f): 2:42pm On Oct 08, 2017
Coloradvantage:
sure... and fucking her as if you are handling a piece of nonsense! too much porn sha.... most at times ladies Dont enjoy this nonsense... take it slow..., steady!!! increase speed! .., watch as she respond! not gbru gbru gbru.... without sense .... and using your fingers on her as if you fighting a war! most at times they won't talk depend on how close you guys are but it hurts.,,,

Lol... u re 100% right wink

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Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by pu7pl3(m): 8:47pm On Oct 08, 2017
Coloradvantage:
sure... and fucking her as if you are handling a piece of nonsense! too much porn sha.... most at times ladies Dont enjoy this nonsense... take it slow..., steady!!! increase speed! .., watch as she respond! not gbru gbru gbru.... without sense .... and using your fingers on her as if you fighting a war! most at times they won't talk depend on how close you guys are but it hurts.,,,


Lol gbru gbru gbru grin
Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by ifyan(m): 10:47pm On Oct 08, 2017
Beautiful but women want everything, Why?
Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by MizAijay(f): 11:08pm On Oct 08, 2017
Well said..Some men just don't know how to treat a woman. Sometimes it's not as if they treat women anyhow on purpose, they are honestly clueless about to how to act.
Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by ogbright: 3:17am On Oct 09, 2017
Some men just lack the patience to deal with their woman. They treat them like some furniture in the house and not sensitive enough to her feelings.

Infact, most men don't make love, they just want to Bleep gbru gbru gbru.
Re: 7 Ways You Can Injure Your Wife Without Knowing It by opelyem(m): 9:42am On Oct 09, 2017
To satisfy a woman is really a full-time course of study. May God give us happy home.

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