So I met this guy 8yrs ago on twitter, we connected instantly and before we knew it we were in hot love. Like most relationships, ours had its ups and downs. We later broke up for a while and both moved to Canada individually about 3years ago, somehow he reached out to me, we met up and rekindled our relationship (all the while we were dating he had a GF) perhaps this is the place where I tell you all we are both guys.
He's always telling me how much he loves me and how he's not sure he can live with the pain if we ever break up again and heaven knows, I love this guy too so much.

Fast forward to September 2017 (Last month) I found out he was getting married to his long time gf not even directly from him, I was in his house and his friends were talking about aso ebi. Then they asked me if I would come to Lagos for the wedding. I was shocked because I didn't expect someone I call my bf to have made such plans behind my back. I didn't even know he had proposed to the girl. and I wasn't devastated because I had always expected it.

I didn't confront him about it, I never brought it up with him at all. Maybe he got tired of it all and decided to officially tell me by saying "Oga, I'm getting married next month in case you haven't noticed". Just like that, out of the blues. In all of this I was calm because I had always expected it, I just thought I'd be given at least 6 months notice to get my sh*t together
He's getting married on Saturday and still called me yesterday to say he misses me. When the was talking all I could think of was his wife and how we were disrespecting her. (Ps: I don't know her)

Now I know I'm being selfish because last last I will marry a girl too, it's just I once told him we're out of Naija we can bullshit everyone's opinion and fucking get married in Canada no-one has to come so far we're happy but no, he's doing it for his family he says, I'm the first born he says. Ultimately I wish him a happy married life and I've concluded staying away from him and his marriage even though I know it'll cause me pain and that's not what he wants but I have to respect myself and not end up being the Bob risky in his life.

He has told me he'll call off the wedding if I ask him to, but I know that's not what he wants. A friend even advised me to go for the wedding that it might help make things easier if I get to see his "wife" but I can't help feeling I'll stand up when they ask who doesn't want these two to be together.
He still thinks things can be like they were even after his wedding and a part of me wants that as well, but I know our bread can never be toast again.

What can I do?

Hollup! Are they gay ni? Dude better whaka straight go look for a lady to marry. Your friend just fulfilled his social obligation to avoid d wrath of d society in which he came out of.

I Cant believe I Read A Damn Gay Story... All I Can Say Is "You Are Insane"... You Need Jesus.

Move on.
Date a freaking female too.


Honestly dunno how u peeps engage in same-sex affairs. The thought of it sef is yuck.


Anyways, like i initially pointed out, move on bruh

Adaumunocha:
8 years Is that one not a long time girlfriend thing?
Some men can be heartless!!?? Just imagine the heartache

hope You Know He Is Gay

DeadRat:
I Cant believe I Read A Damn Gay Story... All I Can Say Is "You Are Insane"... You Need Jesus.

Hush... Don't b that way.

DeadRat:
hope You Know He Is Gay

Now I know

Adaumunocha:
8 years Is that one not a long time girlfriend thing?
Some men can be heartless!!?? Just imagine the heartache

You definitely didn't read the content. I had my bowl of curses to rain the moment I saw the topic but the content weak me.

8 yrs and he left u? He's an endtime boyfriend

U cannot come and ruin this beautiful day for me with this bullshit story, gay rubbish

You are a good girl
If it were some lady their will eventually pour acid on the guy But some men and their pattern of living sha
Op just use my mail for more insight and thank me in advance

Blackhawk01:


You definitely didn't read the content. I had my bowl of curses to rain the moment I saw the topic but the content weak me.

I've modified my comment.

Adaumunocha:
Hush... Don't b that way.

any Thing Gay is Gross

loneatar:
You are a good girl
If it were some lady their will eventually pour acid on the guy But some men and their pattern of living sha
Op just use my mail for more insight and thank me in advance

Read dude read!

DeadRat:
any Thing Gay is Gross

Ok

In all, it's the lady that suffers...marrying a gay dude...OP your story weak me sha

So were you digging his ass or was your ass being dug?


If it's the former, then look for another hole. However if it's the latter, then the only one I feel really sorry for in this sordid tale is your ass.

Eight years is a helluva long time bro.

Some comments here is a clear indication that people don't read contents before giving their opinion lol.




@the op I have no idea of what to say to you.

Adaumunocha:
Read dude read!

I read bitch I read! What are trying to insinuate this morning dear

loneatar:
I read bitch I read! What are trying to insinuate this morning dear

Hollup! The B word? Dude really? You read the epistle of the op and you did not deduce it to be a gay affair?

loneatar:
I read bitch I read! What are trying to insinuate this morning dear

You didn't read shiit dude.

Congratulations, you won the most stupid post of this week. You are doing great bro. Keep it up

This one weak me o
Smh

loneatar:
I read bitch I read! What are trying to insinuate this morning dear

you can lie for Africa... still doing strong head on top lie... u be real Oga Linus... chai!

What the fvck, ur a gay!!!

loneatar:
You are a good girl
If it were some lady their will eventually pour acid on the guy But some men and their pattern of living sha
Op just use my mail for more insight and thank me in advance

Go back to that story and read once more. Read it gently this time around and come to modify this your comment.

Take this

loneatar:
You are a good girl
If it were some lady their will eventually pour acid on the guy But some men and their pattern of living sha
Op just use my mail for more insight and thank me in advance

I'm sorry, I don't understand you

Jumbus31:
Congratulations, you won the most stupid post of this week. You are doing great bro. Keep it up

Thanks a lot bro, really appreciate the kind gesture

JohnIbori:

Thanks a lot bro, really appreciate the kind gesture

Are u related to Ibori

DanseMacabre:
So were you digging his ass or was your ass being dug?


If it's the former, then look for another hole. However if it's the latter, then the only one I feel really sorry for in this sordid tale is your ass.

Eight years is a helluva long time bro.

It was more of a mutual digging. Ps: I already have several holes waiting in line. This one is just different because we had a strong emotional connection

doctorkush:
you can lie for Africa... still doing strong head on top lie... u be real Oga Linus... chai!

Lolzzz... Don't mind d guy