*13 WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT
HURTING HER FEELINGS*
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Most Men do hurt their Wives in the name of
correcting them. They speak harshly, they are so
rash in their approach and can be very brutal.
Lots of women are living their lives in bitterness
and anger due to the careless ways their
husbands have been talking to them over time.
Here you will be able to know the right ways to
talk to your wife without hurting her:
*1) LOWER YOUR VOICE:* Don’t shout at her,
she is not your housemaid, she is not a Child.
You can correct, yes, but why shouting?
*2) DO IT IN LOVE:* Correction should be done
in love if done in any other way it turns to
criticism and condemnation.
*3) DON’T CRITICIZE:* Stop criticizing her, rather
correct in love. Most will say it’s constructive
criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing
out errors and mistakes.
Correction is the act of offering better options to
mistakes.
Correction and criticism are never the same.
Husband A says: what manner of food is this? is
this popcorn or fried Rice? how I wish I marry a
more sensible wife, with better home training,
who can cook better.
Husband B says: Sweetheart this rice is too salty
and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think
salt should be reduce any other time because of
our health.
Husband A criticized, Husband B, corrected his
wife in love. Stop criticizing your wife.
*4) PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT* : It will
be wrong to correct when it’s not well done
when you don’t praise when it’s well done. Form
the habit of praising and appreciating your wife
for good deeds.
*5) DON’T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN:*
Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of
your Children.
Incessant correction of your wife before your
Children will make them disrespect her.
*6) DON’T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC* :
Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does
not show you as a gentleman, and will affect her
self-esteem.
*7) AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER:* Stop
correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting,
beating and making trouble. Real men don’t do
that.
* DON’T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER
WOMAN* : In your thought of correcting her, you
might have been comparing her with other
women. “Don’t you see what your friend is
doing?”
“Can’t you learn from our neighbors wife?”
“and so”
This is very wrong, no woman love to be
compared with others, stop it.
*9) AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES*
Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled,
stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and
move on.
*10) DON’T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD:* And
you call yourself a woman? Virtuous women don’t
behave like this, you better change before I
change you.
This is very wrong, don’t do it.
*11) DON’T ATTACK HER DIGNITY* : You don’t
behave like someone with sense, do you think at
all? And you said you went to school, I doubt it.
This is very wrong, you too, you are not talking
like somebody that pass through a college.
*12) DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE:* Most husbands
do want to correct in the heat of anger, at the
height of misunderstanding, when temper has
already hit the roof. That is not the best time to
correct, it will yield little or no result.
*13) GIVE A HELPING HAND*: The best way to
correct is to lead by example, step into the
kitchen to give a helping hand, don’t just sit in
the front of the Television correcting what goes
on in the kitchen.
Wives are doing a great job, appreciate yours and
support her to be a better wife and mother.
May Gods blessings be on our homes

Really sweet

Meh
Most especially that number 1
He can pain

True. Same applies to we ladies too.

What if you have a wife that 'knows everything'?

thesicilian:
What if you have a wife that 'knows everything'?

Is it possible sha?....lol

Good. I pick out 3 and 9

thesicilian:
What if you have a wife that 'knows everything'?

just take time to keep on correcting her in love. With time she will succumb