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Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Nobody: 11:41am On Oct 30, 2017
frankkydee:
You are just being unrealistic here. let's look at it this way,if she finally gets married to the Muslim guy,which religion will she be practicing? or do you think her husband will allow her to go to church? Even if he allows her to go to church,what about their children,which religion will they be practicing? Though the pastor over reacted too.
It is gradual thing' If a Christian lady Marry a Muslim man and she is loyal to him as a good Christian' in no time the man will follow her to church
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by horlakunle25(m): 11:42am On Oct 30, 2017
Endtime bishop!! And I toth all our religious leader shud be a PEACE maker!....se dis kain bishop dey find peace with other religion so
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Azam101: 11:48am On Oct 30, 2017
pastor want to sample the mulato!
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by meforyou1(m): 11:52am On Oct 30, 2017
GavelSlam:


Lots of Muslim women marry Christian men - Saraki's daughter being a prominent example.
lots? Seems u were absent in the thread they threatened fire and brimstone because saraki's daughter was getting married to a christain man
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Clever2: 11:52am On Oct 30, 2017
You are wrong, even the Bible say u should not be equally joke with unbelievers
pyyxxaro:
When husband don scarse the only one when manage serious mk she drive am undecided

The pastor must be drunk


If native Doctor self propose give Aunty Rita Dominic now , she go gree

lipsrsealed Maybe the pastor de eye the aunty ukwu b4


Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by meforyou1(m): 11:56am On Oct 30, 2017
GavelSlam:
Some people would still defend their "papa".

Who is to say she wouldn't be able to convince her spouse to give the Lord a chance?
check this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/4131724/tosin-saraki-marrying-christian-man
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by SAMBARRY: 11:58am On Oct 30, 2017
babajero:
Lots of Muslim women? Apart from Sarah's daughter can you please tell me another? And moreover hope you know the criticism that followed her marriage, even till now you people are still criticizing it, calling it Haram. It is even in the Quran as Haram.
but what's all this nonsense sef.when you came to the world did they stamp Christian or Muslim on your forehead?it's bad enough we're divides by tribe,ethnic groups,language and culture now we've aded religion.why can't we love each other genuinely without looking at each other with the eye of religious difference or ethnic differences

Oyinbo that brought religious differences shey them no dey see Buddhist man marry atheist woman?

Na we go dey overdo everything
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by meforyou1(m): 11:58am On Oct 30, 2017
apholaryn:
stfu ..u know nothing,only illiterates like you have that kind of mentality.
check this https://www.nairaland.com/4131724/tosin-saraki-marrying-christian-man
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by GavelSlam: 11:59am On Oct 30, 2017
meforyou1:
lots? Seems u were absent in the thread they threatened fire and brimstone because saraki's daughter was getting married to a christain man

It's an anonymous forum. They could be impostors.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Dotng: 12:04pm On Oct 30, 2017
Most of those commenting have no knowledge or regard for order and structures in an institution. That is how the minority will start condemning the pastor and when hell breaks loose in their home or society they will come back crying or accuse the pastor of negligence. The choir of a church is a leadership role. There is no institution in the world where you will be allowed to retain your position when you start fraternizing with a rival group. The very existence of that institution is at stake if they overlook such situations in the name of political correctness. Asking the church members not to attend the wedding may sound a little bit on the extreme side but if you have held the role of being a shepherd, leader or parent that does not want the rest of the people to follow the same example, you have to know when to put your feet down on certain matters. It is a sign of weak leadership when you accommodate those that swing between two camps of opinion alongside with those who are committed to the values of the institution. you are simply weakening the system and telling the committed that they can also compromise. That institution will never last.

As for the lady in question, it is her life and she is free to do as she deems fit. She would have saved herself from a lot of troubles by resigning from the choir. We have seen their types before. When the fellow marries other women or she encounters problems in her marriage she will then know why her pastor will not be able to mediate in her marriage. They are usually at the rear end of prayer meetings crying their eyes out to God for intervention.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Nobody: 12:05pm On Oct 30, 2017
The Muslim counterpart will do worst, I know what I'm saying. And there's no man of God that it will happen to that will not be grieved in his heart because he is her spiritual father, she probably has put him to shame, however I know he will call her back, that's why we shepherd have to be on a good watch to the sheep.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Awoo88: 12:07pm On Oct 30, 2017
nonsense lie!!!! who is the lady what is her name the church and the Bishop involved.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by hotdealz(m): 12:09pm On Oct 30, 2017
profolaolu:
Suspending the girl from choir was good but barring people from attending the wedding was cruel and terrible,it is clearly stated in the Bible that "Do not be equally yoked with an unbelievable" ordinary church member can marry even an herbalist but not a worker in the Church, it is a bad precedent, laying a terrible example for others
A Muslim is an unbeliever? I thought we worship one God? undecided
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by highwaist: 12:11pm On Oct 30, 2017
profolaolu:
Suspending the girl from choir was good but barring people from attending the wedding was cruel and terrible,it is clearly stated in the Bible that "Do not be equally yoked with an unbelievable" ordinary church member can marry even an herbalist but not a worker in the Church, it is a bad precedent, laying a terrible example for others
there is two law in the church, one is for church worker another one is for ordinary member
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Laqrinafrica(m): 12:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
babajero:
But it is Haram for a Muslim woman to marry a Christian right?


And who says it is haram?
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by bahaushe1: 12:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
babajero:
Lots of Muslim women? Apart from Sarah's daughter can you please tell me another? And moreover hope you know the criticism that followed her marriage, even till now you people are still criticizing it, calling it Haram. It is even in the Quran as Haram.

Yes it is Haram and will remain so till the end of time.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Laqrinafrica(m): 12:22pm On Oct 30, 2017
Dotng:
Most of those commenting have no knowledge or regard for order and structures in an institution. That is how the minority will start condemning the pastor and when hell breaks loose in their home or society they will come back crying or accuse the pastor of negligence. The choir of a church is a leadership role. There is no institution in the world where you will be allowed to retain your position when you start fraternizing with a rival group. The very existence of that institution is at stake if they overlook such situations in the name of political correctness. Asking the church members not to attend the wedding may sound a little bit on the extreme side but if you have held the role of being a shepherd, leader or parent that does not want the rest of the people to follow the same example, you have to know when to put your feet down on certain matters. It is a sign of weak leadership when you accommodate those that swing between two camps of opinion alongside with those who are committed to the values of the institution. you are simply weakening the system and telling the committed that they can also compromise. That institution will never last.

As for the lady in question, it is her life and she is free to do as she deems fit. She would have saved herself from a lot of troubles by resigning from the choir. We have seen their types before. When the fellow marries other women or she encounters problems in her marriage she will then know why her pastor will not be able to mediate in her marriage. They are usually at the rear end of prayer meetings crying their eyes out to God for intervention.




where is the love ?
And as a religious leader are we supposed promote this kind of thing and mind you not all Christians and Muslims who get married to each other all have a broken home ..... so this issue of she crying after marriage is out ...

anyway the pastor got it wrong
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by PenisCaP: 12:33pm On Oct 30, 2017
Shafiiimran99:
It is law muslims women cannot marry non muslim
But u wana marry non muslim gals.. dats cheat.
So ur law supports cheating undecided
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by farouk2much(m): 12:36pm On Oct 30, 2017
pyyxxaro:
When husband don scarse the only one when manage serious mk she drive am undecided

The pastor must be drunk


If native Doctor self propose give Aunty Rita Dominic now , she go gree

lipsrsealed Maybe the pastor de eye the aunty ukwu b4


You Sound Funny
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Dotng: 12:55pm On Oct 30, 2017
Laqrinafrica:





where is the love ?
And as a religious leader are we supposed promote this kind of thing and mind you not all Christians and Muslims who get married to each other all have a broken home ..... so this issue of she crying after marriage is out ...

anyway the pastor got it wrong

I agree with you that not all marriages of this sort have broken homes. On the issue of love, you need to realise that there is no true love without discipline. That is what is called tough love. It is the basis by which strong communities have preserved their existence by enforcing compliance with the laid down rules of the community. Anyone who doesn't comply is expelled. It is better for one man to die than for a whole nation to become destroyed.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by dayowunmi(m): 12:56pm On Oct 30, 2017
Myde4naija:
gov. Amosun's daughter is another example too


Always talk reality and stop all the anti-islam speech you people always spread.
Most of these families you talking about you need to do some more digging. I heard saraki wife is a Christian! But for Amosun wife, am too sure she's a Christian, she frequents redemption camp a lot and attends many church programs. The children probably followed their mums religion. So if fashola son marry a Christian you will use it as example when he's mum is a Christian and probably he's been following the mums religion all these while? Even Ajimobi Oyo state governor I heard has a Christian wife.
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by farouk2much(m): 12:57pm On Oct 30, 2017
priceaction:
So many twitter fake stories these days no name of the church, no address,no name of the choir girl, just nonsense as usual. The funny thing is that it will still make FP.
No This, No That, But Its True
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by kennykane1(m): 12:58pm On Oct 30, 2017
babajero:
But it is Haram for a Muslim woman to marry a Christian right?

ABSOLUTELY NO!!
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by dayowunmi(m): 1:03pm On Oct 30, 2017
The action of the pastor is right. It is against church doctrine for a worker to be married to an unbeliever. Its nothing about Judgment or intolerance that you people are making it out to be, its clearly stated that "do not be yoked with unbeliever" the word yoke speaks explicitly about marriage. All the insinuations that she could convert her husband is hogwash. There are more chances she would be converted to become a moslem than for her to convert her husband. Similar incident happened several years ago, a sister got married to a 'new convert' who later turned out to be a moslem, after marrying her he asked her to convert straight to his religion. I support the pastors action of excommunication. What love are you talking about sef, didn't Paul excommunicated several members of the Corinthian church?
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Seunaj05(m): 1:08pm On Oct 30, 2017
GavelSlam:


Lots of Muslim women marry Christian men - Saraki's daughter being a prominent example.
Saraki's daughter is not a Muslim. Bukola was a Christian, wife and children are still Christians and dude convert to Muslim to scam Ilorin
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Seunaj05(m): 1:09pm On Oct 30, 2017
GavelSlam:


Lots of Muslim women marry Christian men - Saraki's daughter being a prominent example.
Saraki's daughter is not a Muslim. Bukola was a Christian, wife and children are still Christians and dude convert to Islam to scam Ilorin
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Shafiiimran99: 1:12pm On Oct 30, 2017
FreeTraining:

It is gradual thing' If a Christian lady Marry a Muslim man and she is loyal to him as a good Christian' in no time the man will follow her to church
A fool man will do abi?
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Justiceleague1: 1:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
GavelSlam:


Lots of Muslim women marry Christian men - Saraki's daughter being a prominent example.

chatap dia!

grin

Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Myde4naija(m): 1:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
dayowunmi:

Most of these families you talking about you need to do some more digging. I heard saraki wife is a Christian! But for Amosun wife, am too sure she's a Christian, she frequents redemption camp a lot and attends many church programs. The children probably followed their mums religion. So if fashola son marry a Christian you will use it as example when he's mum is a Christian and probably he's been following the mums religion all these while? Even Ajimobi Oyo state governor I heard has a Christian wife.
at least you know all this people are Muslims yet they cope with their various xtians wives.


The fact is xtians usually see enemies where they are friends, and that can be sense in their various islamophobia comments
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Miniano: 1:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
This is the part of the reason why I don't believe in any religion

Nothing bad in this na u wan marry am oga pastor arant nonsense
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by Nobody: 1:15pm On Oct 30, 2017
Shafiiimran99:
A fool man will do abi?
You sound like an ISIS member, u better go and join them,,daz what your religion teaches
Re: Bishop Suspends Lady From Her Church Choir For Marrying A Muslim - Twitter User by BakireBulmaker: 1:17pm On Oct 30, 2017
The Bishop is in order.
You can't consciously and deliberately marry a muslim and remain in the choir/workforce.

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