1. Unnecessary policies and principles. E.g. two of you must do Vigils on phone every night.

2. They are not out-going. Most of them see attending social functions such as burial ceremonies as scripturally abnormal.

3. They are rigid and stubborn. It's hard for them to reason with you on a matter once they've formed their own opinion.

4. It may take about 2 years to go and pray and think about whether to say yes or no. After 2 years of prayers and telling the guy to wait for a reply, their answer may eventually be 'no. ' What waste of time!

5. Some may be too shy and unromantic, even after marriage.