spikedcylinder:

Guys like to be able to do the same thing with 20 more females and half the time, they are not really in love.

Diva 2.0:

I agree, but then why waste her time letting her think you're in love? Just let her know what you want up front. If you want intimacy tell her, you might not get it but at least you're being honest.

Ebonyeyes:

I agree I prefer it if a man said im just in it for the s3x then to say I love you and then sleep with and sprint.

Diva 2.0:

I agree, but then why waste her time letting her think you're in love? Just let her know what you want up front. If you want intimacy tell her, you might not get it but at least you're being honest.

You ask this assuming a lot of guys are reasonable?

pro01:

Commitment= paying a king's ransom for 'something' another goat would sooner or later 'do' for free. Whats the sense in that?

Show me the one LOYAL female that's worth committing to and i'll put a (diamond) ring on it right away.

spikedcylinder:

You ask this assuming a lot of guys are reasonable?

brutal:

A real man will commit if he finds d right woman. . .

Kgdavid:


that would be tantamount to him shooting himself in the foot

omega25red:

dating is just that "dating" you can date fall in love have intimacy and meet the friends but what else are you doing to make sure the initial mutual intrest stays the same?
honestly though (poor excuse) men are wired to look for the newest and freshest girl because no matter how hot you look no matter how good your bed game is and all the other stuff our mind is always on what the next hot girl can do.

iice:

I don't see why you have to put a ring on it because you're dating or in love.  Sure it's the usual route but not everyone is lucky to be on that route.  Like ebonyeyes, i prefer to have it laid out. 

rokiatu
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If only all women would collaborate and deny them intimacy, trust me they would put a ring on our fingers

Diva 2.0:

Yeah that's what I said, I'd rather you tell me, I'm only here for the intimacy and that's it than tell me you love me and later, break up with me for no good reason after you've got it. If you are going to tell me you love me, you have to be committed.

rokiatu:

True or False?
Love is the price a man pays for intimacy
intimacy is the price a woman pays for love.

If only all women would collaborate and deny them intimacy, trust me they would put a ring on our fingers

iice:

Got what? the intimacy?
Men usually want the intimacy. . .women want to be loved. Men don't have to say it to get it, women shouldn't let men think they need to say it, to get it.

True or false @ the men. Have you not had the 'Tell me you love' during intimacy? _{i scatter laugh after i heard that. . .} women are as much the culprits. They feed the men what the men can use on them.

rokiatu:

True or False?
Love is the price a man pays for intimacy
intimacy is the price a woman pays for love.

If only all women would collaborate and deny them intimacy, trust me they would put a ring on our fingers

rokiatu:

True or False?
Love is the price a man pays for intimacy
intimacy is the price a woman pays for love.

If only all women would collaborate and deny them intimacy, trust me they would put a ring on our fingers

pro01:

women and their skin deep thinking. Always (subconsciously?) deceitful. So you mean intimacy is nothing to women? That they only do it reluctantly to satisfy men? What nonsense. So why do they say they want a 'stud'? Why lust after a konk supplier of a thing you claim not to like? Just like me saying ishiewu is bitter but i proceed to order a jumbo mortar! If women want 'love' and not intimacy then impotent men ought to be da bomb for y'all! There're a few impotent men out there, why not get one as a committed lover?

Part of this grand deceit is why you girls feel intimacy should be your only 'contribution' in a relationship, like you dont enjoy it.

**worst of all they'll deny a genuinely committed lover-boy of intimacy and give it to another ruud boy**

Diva 2.0:

You say like her, she says she likes you, you both go out. She meets your friends and you meet hers. You both engage in sexual activities, you like it but basically you don't want to put a ring on it. What is the point of dating and then falling in love, then call it quits for some odd reason? What are you afraid of?

Kgdavid:


that would be tantamount to him shooting himself in the foot

brutal:

A real man will commit if he finds d right woman. . .

Girl846:

No offense,
There is a popular saying:
"Why buy the cow when the milk is free?"
Guys sometimes don't see the point of committing to a girl when they can get all the 'milk' they need without committing. They have nothing more to gain by committing to you because you have already given them 'everything'. Committing will only add pressure to them. They like things easy.

Everyone knows that with the way world runs, Intimacy equal love.
"giving it up" will never assure you of a man's love. (Its sad but thats just the way it is)

But yes, as many people have already stated, They will commit if you are the 'one'.

rokiatu - I LOVE YOUR THINKING! Women make it too easy for men to misbehave themselves! If women collaborate and deny them intimacy, by-force by-force they will behave like prince charming. The world will be a better place