Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit?

davidylan:

Because men are looking for something very few women can offer. Companionship, understanding, patience and a loving nature.
A lot of women spend too much time on their outward appearance and think that +  intimacy should be enough to earn them a ring. nothing could be farther from the truth.

ayettymama:

na2day they send u to me??

can one no longer appreciate the work of God??

me i wont deny i like fine men!!!

but im very well aware that looks dont define someone!

im not a child!

alot of men come on nl sayin things like

thier gf's are gettin fat and they want to end the relationship

their wives no longer wear make up

his gf doesnt look like beyonce!
if someone was telling these women to run from shallow mofo's b4 the women wont be havin any problem!

davidylan:

Because men are looking for something very few women can offer. Companionship, understanding, patience and a loving nature.
A lot of women spend too much time on their outward appearance and think that +  intimacy should be enough to earn them a ring. nothing could be farther from the truth.

Diva 2.0:

I love that there are so many different responses and I'm sorry I can't get to respond to each one of them but I'll respond to this one.

I understand and agree with where you're coming from. However, you have to agree even when men meet the few who offer all that and more, some of them would still not be ready for a serious relationship. Which leads me to agree with what someone said, men really don't know what they want. It's not even about marriage or even living together, it's just showing that you truly love her.

stillwater:

Small boy mentality.

asoderock:

@post,
But you can agree there are a lot of 'committed men'.
Thing is, if you are worth commitment, men will commit to you.
Otherwise check yourself in & out-there is something you are probabily not doing right.
Just that many men will not tell you, and might decide to bleep a little longer.
Commitment cost men a lot, so only a truely deserving woman gets it!

Diva 2.0:

Oh and to all the concerned men on this thread, I'm actually in a relationship lol

Diva20:

I agree, but then why waste her time letting her think you're in love? Just let her know what you want up front. If you want sex tell her, you might not get it but at least you're being honest.

rokiatu: True or False?
Love is the price a man pays for sex
sex is the price a woman pays for love.

If only all women would collaborate and deny them intimacy, trust me they would put a ring on our fingers

Girl846: If women collaborate and deny them intimacy, by-force by-force they will behave like prince charming. The world will be a better place 

pro01:

women and their skin deep thinking. Always (subconsciously?) deceitful. So you mean sex is nothing to women? That they only do it reluctantly to satisfy men? What nonsense. So why do they say they want a 'stud'? Why lust after a konk supplier of a thing you claim not to like? Just like me saying ishiewu is bitter but i proceed to order a jumbo mortar! If women want 'love' and not intimacy then impotent men ought to be da bomb for y'all! There're a few impotent men out there, why not get one as a committed lover?

Part of this grand deceit is why you girls feel intimacy should be your only 'contribution' in a relationship, like you dont enjoy it.

**worst of all they'll deny a genuinely committed lover-boy of sex and give it to another ruud boy**

martinosi:

CO-SIGN

And i guess that the thread-starter is wondering why a particular guy does not
what to commiit to her lol!!!