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Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Biafrareform(m): 10:46pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
It takes at lest a year and a few arguments to begin to know who someone really is. Finding a suitable mate is a logical process. Never commit yourself to any person in the early stages of a relationship because you are crazy in love - it's likely to just be your hormones talking. Hormones eventually subside, and when they do, you'll be left looking at the cold, hard facts about whether this person is suitable to live your life with will emerge. Write a list of the minimum you will accept in a partner and stick to it. Don't commit early to anyone and never settle for second best in your relationships and don't let anyone put you second. If you feel that a person has what you want to make your life easy and fun, encourage that relationship. Never use someone as an interim measure until the right person comes along - that causes more pain than pleasure, prevents you from focusing on what you really want and is an abuse of the other person. Why settle for second best when there are about 1.52 million potential perfect partners in the world for you right now?. But you have gat to be active and get out among them. Don't wait to be discovered. You will need to be committed to obtain your dream and it takes a lot of hard work to make it happen. Start now. Shalom. 3 Likes |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by tosyne2much(m): 11:05pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
You made a lot of sense. It's very true that finding the right person requires a logical process. It's not just above love. You forgot to add that a little quarrel will give you a foresight of what the kind of person you want to choose as a companion is really made of 3 Likes |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 11:10pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
tosyne2much: If we look beyond the quarrels and look into the potentials of the individual, we will choose rightly. I made an error in the past looking into quarrels. Though there are downsides sha, the composition of the individual counts, the potential, if compromise and tolerance is there, then fantastic |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 11:14pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:hmm.. That's true |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 11:17pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
sexybbstar: I made this discovery in the week of my last relationship and i felt like if i had been more firm with how i saw the potentials, if i could help her feel the same way too, we could both for the bright side overlook the downsides, but life is fvked up. For now, going on hunting spree abeg, when i've pushed out the negative feelings, i'll repent |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Biafrareform(m): 11:20pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Is there. First few words. '' It takes at lest a year and a few arguments" |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 11:28pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Biafrareform: I think that's rather speculative, a year is too long, the maturity of both individuals is important, if the characters are strong, a few months is okay, and then cultivate the bonding process is the next thing to do |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by tosyne2much(m): 11:28pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Biafrareform:I don't really believe it must be up to a year depending on how much of a good observer you are. It know what to do that will make a lady reveal her real character to me.(i know what I'm saying ) But I agree with you on the disagreement part sha. |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 12:03am On Nov 07, 2017 |
KreativGenius:wow,! That's good. You seems very funny. |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 3:33am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 3:38am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Serious relationship is just about two matured mind that are ready to start life as a mature mind. Love is totally out of serious relationship to be honest cuz no matter how hard we try, we usually don't have that one person we so much wish to have. So it is just becasue they are both ready in their mind that would make them sacrifice everything to make the relationship works. It is like a determined mind that has vowed never to look back. The minds will tolerate whatever, will never get angry, will talk when one is wrong, and is ever ready to apologize and to change it's wrong ways to suit the other serious mind. That's just a serious relationship. So you can even commit yourself from the first day (though only guys can) cuz the seriousness of a lady can usually be seeing even on the first date while some guys till christ will come can pretend to be in same shoe where as na watch. So i think only girls need time to commit (not crime ooo biko) in a relationship. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by tosyne2much(m): 7:22am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Luxuryconsult:My brother, you're head correct I swear |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Biafrareform(m): 7:29am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Luxuryconsult: Two mature minds. Spot on there. To sum it up tolerance. Love doesn't keep marriage. Even those who are divorced still love each other. What keeps relationships going is your ability to tolerate each other excessive. You must learn to compromise for the happiness of the other person. |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 7:32am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Luxuryconsult: Well spoken. Obviously i need some relationships tips, i've gotten rusty. I need to take time off the forum to go read relationships manuals You're right, for it to work, we need : Tolerance Compromise Realistic Expectations Patience Stability Consistency Anger Management Honesty Openness Companionship Chemistry Levelheadedness The Desire to Keep Working to Iron out Issues Effective/Good Communication And a willful choice to stick with the person we're with And off cause Mind-blowing sex I learnt this the hard way |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Might I add this: To make a relationship work, one has to be an absorber. |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by Nobody: 8:55am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Alero3Arubi: Blood of wizkid, so true. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Tips You Must Know Before Committing Yourself To Someone by OliviaThomas: 10:44am On Feb 16, 2023 |
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