we've heard various definitions of the ideal husband/wife from different people ranging from the common "he must be God fearing" to the outrageous "she must be from the same compound in my village".

let us know, what qualities must be present in a man/woman for you to consider that person your perfect life partner.

she MUST be RICH.

nothing like perfect partner.

TOPE2000!:

nothing like perfect partner.

true talk

TOPE2000!:

nothing like perfect partner.

Tell the poster, sup

OBLONG:

she MUST be RICH.

Sweetie,being rich alone does not guarantee a perfect partner.

perfection is subjective is it not

this one's a toughie

U can never find a prefect partner but you can make your partner perfect. U cannot get ur dream person to be perfect but u can help that person to overcome his/her weaknesses and that will make the person perfect. My dream partner must be FAT (faithful, available and teachable)

1. my wife must be attractive to me ( very important )no attraction, no connection

2. she must be intelligent

3. God fearing, ( this means religious, decenct, faithful, submissive)

4. shld be romantic.

with these four things in place, that will be a perfec partner to me.

smooooooth:

1. my wife must be attractive to me ( very important )no attraction, no connection

2. she must be intelligent

3. God fearing, ( this means religious, decenct, faithful, submissive)

4. shld be romantic.

with these four things in place, that will be a perfect partner to me.

me tooo

smooooooth:

1. my wife must be attractive to me ( very important )no attraction, no connection

2. she must be intelligent

3. God fearing, ( this means religious, decenct, faithful, submissive)

4. shld be romantic.

with these four things in place, that will be a perfect partner to me.

on the other hand, good for me tooo

My perfect man   

Peronality:
1. Inteligent, with an inquisitive mind of his own. But not an overly genius like person who always corrects me, act too smart or tries to out-do me or something.
2. Sensitive and caring, but not over-protective or clingy.
3. Confident and self assured, but not arrogant
4. Nice and polite (nice to people no matter his status)
5. God fearing
6. Spontaneously romantic
7. Has ambitions, goals and great morals
8. family-oriented
9. clam and collected/down to earth (I don't mean quiet or dumb)
10. Independent



Looks:
1. tall (above 5ft 6)
2. any hair colour (maybe not blonde)
3. killer smile
4. nice voice
5. Neat/ Good personal hygiene (got one already, a total neat freak can be annoying at times, just neat please )
6. neat and classy sense of fashion (I don't want a guy who dress like he's the head of a gang or something)
7. i dont like chest hair (but i could deal with it)
8. nice body not fat not skinny
9. nice skin
10. charming

Other stuff:
1. doesnt smoke or do drugs
2. doesnt drink
3. not a party freak
4. remembers birthdays and aniversaries
5. Doesnt underestimate me
6. rich at least confortable
7. unselfish lover
8. good in bed
9. Keep my secrets and respect my privacy.
10. not too serious ( I don't want our home looking like a battlefield there should be fun, jokes, laughter, and seriousness when require)
11 good conversationalist


That was my perfect man, But I want my ideal man,

I want him to love me and to be kind to me. I want him to treat me nicely. I want him to be loyal and devoted.

I want to laugh with him, share my life with him, and I want him to be God fearing.

I want him to think about my feelings. I want him to share his with me.

I want him to be passionate about life and compassionate with others.

I also want him to be a smart, at least have common sense.

And someone who is not afriad of been himself, confident in himself and love me for being ME



BUT,  i think its true when they say girs dont really know what they want until they find it. i think men are like shoes

has anyone heard d banj and genevive are into a relationship

rokiatu:

My perfect man

Peronality:
1. Inteligent, with an inquisitive mind of his own. But not an overly genius like person who always corrects me, act too smart or tries to out-do me or something.
2. Sensitive and caring, but not over-protective or clingy.
3. Confident and self assured, but not arrogant
4. Nice and polite (nice to people no matter his status)
5. God fearing
6. Spontaneously romantic
7. Has ambitions, goals and great morals
8. family-oriented
9. clam and collected/down to earth (I don't mean quiet or dumb)
10. Independent



Looks:
1. tall (above 5ft 6)
2. any hair colour (maybe not blonde)
3. killer smile
4. nice voice
5. Neat/ Good personal hygiene (got one already, a total neat freak can be annoying at times, just neat please )
6. neat and classy sense of fashion (I don't want a guy who dress like he's the head of a gang or something)
7. i dont like chest hair (but i could deal with it)
8. nice body not fat not skinny
9. nice skin
10. charming

Other stuff:
1. doesnt smoke or do drugs
2. doesnt drink
3. not a party freak
4. remembers birthdays and aniversaries
5. Doesnt underestimate me
6. rich at least confortable
7. unselfish lover
8. good in bed
9. Keep my secrets and respect my privacy.
10. not too serious ( I don't want our home looking like a battlefield there should be fun, jokes, laughter, and seriousness when require)
11 good conversationalist


That was my perfect man, But I want my ideal man,

I want him to love me and to be kind to me. I want him to treat me nicely. I want him to be loyal and devoted.

I want to laugh with him, share my life with him, and I want him to be God fearing.

I want him to think about my feelings. I want him to share his with me.

I want him to be passionate about life and compassionate with others.

I also want him to be a smart, at least have common sense.

And someone who is not afriad of been himself, confident in himself and love me for being ME



BUT, i think its true when they say girs dont really know what they want until they find it. i think men are like shoes

uve just described my boyfriend! o how lucky i am

ok maybe the 'perfect' is too elaborate. so why don't we just talk about our ideal man/woman.

my ideal woman must be BEAUTIFUL (in fact, STUNNING BEAUTIFUL)

she must be good with her dressing(but must not forget that the primary aim of clothes is to cover unclothedness)

she must be caring, romantic and have a reasonable level of jealousy.

for no reason whatsoever should she be disrespectful, mannerles or put up an attitude.

common sense, common sense, common sense.
the list is inexhaustible so i'll have to stop here for now

Nawao,pple dey describe o,well poster since u want a perfect partner simply draw it out n place it bsyd u always. NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!

rokiatu:

My perfect man

Peronality:
1. Inteligent, with an inquisitive mind of his own. But not an overly genius like person who always corrects me, act too smart or tries to out-do me or something.
2. Sensitive and caring, but not over-protective or clingy.
3. Confident and self assured, but not arrogant
4. Nice and polite (nice to people no matter his status)
5. God fearing
6. Spontaneously romantic
7. Has ambitions, goals and great morals
8. family-oriented
9. clam and collected/down to earth (I don't mean quiet or dumb)
10. Independent



Looks:
1. tall (above 5ft 6)
2. any hair colour (maybe not blonde)
3. killer smile
4. nice voice
5. Neat/ Good personal hygiene (got one already, a total neat freak can be annoying at times, just neat please )
6. neat and classy sense of fashion (I don't want a guy who dress like he's the head of a gang or something)
7. i dont like chest hair (but i could deal with it)
8. nice body not fat not skinny
9. nice skin
10. charming

Other stuff:
1. doesnt smoke or do drugs
2. doesnt drink
3. not a party freak
4. remembers birthdays and aniversaries
5. Doesnt underestimate me
6. rich at least confortable
7. unselfish lover
8. good in bed
9. Keep my secrets and respect my privacy.
10. not too serious ( I don't want our home looking like a battlefield there should be fun, jokes, laughter, and seriousness when require)
11 good conversationalist


That was my perfect man, But I want my ideal man,

I want him to love me and to be kind to me. I want him to treat me nicely. I want him to be loyal and devoted.

I want to laugh with him, share my life with him, and I want him to be God fearing.

I want him to think about my feelings. I want him to share his with me.

I want him to be passionate about life and compassionate with others.

I also want him to be a smart, at least have common sense.

And someone who is not afriad of been himself, confident in himself and love me for being ME



BUT, i think its true when they say girs dont really know what they want until they find it. i think men are like shoes

For real?
This one na WW3

kokonets:

Tell the poster, sup

im kool, U?

when we at the prestigous universtiy

have perfected human cloning and behavoiral modifications

we will certainly give u a call!

Re: The Perfect Partner

It changes.

eldee:

Guys fall in love with chics, women fall in love with lists.

sad but true

^^^ That didn't make sense to me.

stillwater:

^^^ That didn't make sense to me.

Guys are more practical . . . they don't know what they want till they find it.
Women on the other hand have a mental list a guys has to tick for her to actually like him.
And the lists are usually made up of stupid things like 'neatly trimmed toenails'

TOPE2000!:

sad but true

I know the number one condition on your list is . . . 'he must be able to dig 300 ridges in one day'

stillwater:

^^^ That didn't make sense to me.

what eldee is saying is girls have list of things they want their partner to have, so they usually date guys according to the list they have in their head abt their dream guy but men dont list, they see a chic they like, they go for her as long as she is pretty with bosoms/backside

eldee:

I know the number one condition on your list is . . . 'he must be able to dig 300 ridges in one day'

Boy . . . . . shut uppppppppppp
i just want a man with deep pocket

The perfect partner is she that knows football time(especially when my team is playing) shouldn't be interrupted,not for any reason.Any other thing can take second place.

kay_pumpin:

The perfect partner is she that knows football time(especially when my team is playing) shouldn't be interrupted,not for any reason.Any other thing can take second place.

U aint asking for too much bro kay, i like that

My ideal woman   

Personality:
1. Inteligent, with an inquisitive mind of her own. But not an overly genius like person who always corrects me, act too smart or tries to out-do me or something.
2. Sensitive and caring, but not over-protective or clingy.
3. Confident and self assured, but not arrogant
4. Nice and polite (nice to people
5. God fearing
6. Spontaneously romantic
7. Has ambitions, goals and great morals
8. family-oriented
9. clam and collected/down to earth (I don't mean quiet or dumb)
10. Gud cook
Looks:
1. tall (above 5ft 6)
2. any hair colour (maybe not blonde)
3. killer smile
4. nice voice
5. Neat/ Good personal hygiene.
6. neat and classy sense of fashion.
7. i dont like dotcoms hair (but i could deal with it)
8. nice body not fat not skinny
9. nice skin
10. charming

Other stuff:
1. doesnt smoke
2. doesnt drink
3. not a party freak
4. remembers birthdays and aniversaries
5. Doesnt underestimate me
6. comfortable wif ma status
7. unselfish lover
8. good in bed
9. Keep my secrets and respect my privacy.
10. not too serious ( I don't want our home looking like a battlefield there should be fun, jokes, laughter, and seriousness when required)
11 good conversationalist


I want her to love me and to be kind to me. I want her to treat me nicely. I want her to be loyal and devoted.


I want her to be passionate about life and compassionate with others.

kay_pumpin:

The perfect partner is she that knows football time(especially when my team is playing) shouldn't be interrupted,not for any reason.Any other thing can take second place.

Better yet. . . we both sit there screaming SHOOOOOOTTT!!!!

Guys are more practical . . . they don't know what they want till they find it.
Women on the other hand have a mental list a guys has to tick for her to actually like him.
And the lists are usually made up of silly things like 'neatly trimmed  toenails'  

And guys don't have a mental picture of what they want in a lady?

Being practical also involves knowing what you want and going for it.
A mental list is a sure way of knowing what you want and having a plan which makes women practical.
Practical doesn't suit guys in this case if he is yet to know what he wants.

TOPE2000!:

U aint asking for too much bro kay, i like that

Tope, please tell me I'm not your perfect partner . . .

kay_pumpin:

The perfect partner is she that knows football time(especially when my team is playing) shouldn't be interrupted,not for any reason.Any other thing can take second place.

Now that will be one hell of a damn good partner.

TOPE2000!:

U aint asking for too much bro kay, i like that

Sis Tope,believe me,i can cope with any other vices,non-usefulness in the kitchen(thank God i don't need to deal with that though) and shoppingspreeism inclusive.

BTW,is there anything as a "perfect" partner?doesn't the defination of it changes with as the relationship grows older?

debosky:

Better yet. . . we both sit there screaming SHOOOOOOTTT!!!!

My mother-in-law's idea of football was non-existent,but now she texts after each Arsenal match to share her view of who is the MOTM   Most times she's right too.

chamotex:

Tope, please tell me I'm not your perfect partner . . .

No u r not. . . . . i 8 u.

kay_pumpin:

Sis Tope,believe me,i can cope with any other vices,non-usefulness in the kitchen(thank God i don't need to deal with that though) and shoppingspreeism inclusive.

Awwwwwwww. . . . . . Tell your wifey i said she is lucky to have you n im sure u r lucky to have her too

BTW,is there anything as a "perfect" partner?doesn't the defination of it changes with as the relationship grows older?

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