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Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ftosino(m): 1:15pm On Nov 13, 2017
My Name Is Tosin, I Am 18, I Have Always Been Single Until September. I Profess My Love To A Girl On The 11th. She Accepted. she claimed she doesnt have a bf then that she used to.

she logged in her account on my phone, facebook, which she later logged out, unknowingly to her the password is saved. i am a very curious and inquisitive, i checked her chats, while going through her chats i saw a msg from a guy, i opened it and went through their msg, all what they chat point to them being lovers.

thats when i know she was lying and she is double dating.

i thought that was all, until yday that i logged in her acct that i saw another chat of her with another guy, shd asked for the guy's gf, he said she is fine, the guy also asked for her bf,
she said "they are fine"

she now mentioned 4 guys name including mine with the one i thought was the first bf, i was wowed, she nw said she love one of us more, wich is nt me or the other guy.

my fellow nairalanders, what shd i do guys wats yor opinion, ladies whats urs.

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ftosino(m): 1:17pm On Nov 13, 2017
and she will be claiming she loves me, that she can sacrifice anything for me, that if i leave her, she can kill herself..
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 13, 2017
Lol.. just forget about her
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by delugajackson: 1:29pm On Nov 13, 2017
Young man, you are investigating too much. Certain things shouldn't bother you.

Its obvious you are new in the game, and do not know how its played. She seems smart, but not too smart. No sensible girl will log in her account on your phone and forget to log out her details for fear of suspicion.

She's just playing with your heart, man.

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ftosino(m): 1:33pm On Nov 13, 2017
delugajackson:
Young man, you are investigating too much. Certain things shouldn't bother you.

Its obvious you are new in the game, and do not know how its played. She seems smart, but not too smart. No sensible girl will log in her account on your phone and forget to log out her details for fear of suspicion.

She's just playing with your heart, man.

exactly, whenever she is with me, she is all lovey-dovey, she is actually playing with my heart.
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by delugajackson: 1:48pm On Nov 13, 2017
ftosino:


exactly, whenever she is with me, she is all lovey-dovey, she is actually playing with my heart.
That's a red flag already. Its good she's showing forth these signs early enough, so you have to take note. Besides, that will save your pillow from getting wet with tears all night.

Love is a delicate luxury, acquire at your own risk.

Lastly, play safe.

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by rawpadgin(m): 2:09pm On Nov 13, 2017
U ain't seen nothing yet

I am currently receiving every of my girl's(nothing serious between us though) chat cuz she forgot to logged out after using my messenger

Am so enjoying the thrill cheesy cheesy

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Blackhawk01: 2:20pm On Nov 13, 2017
rawpadgin:
U ain't seen nothing yet

I am currently receiving every of my girl's chat cuz she forgot to logged out after using my messenger

Am so enjoying the thrill cheesy cheesy


Na your babe dey chat like this? shocked

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ftosino(m): 2:25pm On Nov 13, 2017
rawpadgin:
U ain't seen nothing yet

I am currently receiving every of my girl's chat cuz she forgot to logged out after using my messenger

Am so enjoying the thrill cheesy cheesy


lol,
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Eveezy(m): 2:46pm On Nov 13, 2017
After u do this, what do u gain? No go use high BP kill yourself, life is too short, op are still young, chop Wat u can ND move ahead, me I will even advice my gal by my self say if she see man wen get money pass me mk she follow, if she takes to dt advice it's up to her, me I will continue my life jejely, the right one will come

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by rawpadgin(m): 4:00pm On Nov 13, 2017
Blackhawk01:


Na your babe dey chat like this? shocked
nothing serious between us though grin

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ubunja(m): 4:11pm On Nov 13, 2017
u know what u have to do.
ASK HER!!!!!!!!
dont allow her to divert the topic to your spying on her.my GF knows i like asking her difficult and uncomfortable questions. coz im ready for any answer.im ready to walk away any minute.
its either u ask her or u zip it and become wheel number 5.
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ReinaFarine: 4:45pm On Nov 13, 2017
1. You're eighteen... I think you should focus more on personal building than on relationships...
Who do you see yourself becoming in the next five years...
How is your relationship with this girl who is obviously younger than you gonna help you get there....
What do you want from her.... At 18, it is between coochie and the I 'have' a girl friend name.

2. I was once a teenage girl... And at that age, I didn't understand much about relationship and all it meant to me was night calls, cheesy lines and someone to buy me recharge card... To me, she's not in love with you but with the idea of relationship she's reading or watching on TV... So she's swimming in fantasy and what she tells you, she tells ten more guys because life is all a movie and she's never felt love actually....

3. It doesn't matter his settled you are in a relationship, obsessive insecure and distrustful tendencies like checking your girls phone to see who she's talking to and what they're talking about is going to hurt you. Learn to trust first before loving.... And if she's not trust worthy to you, you're not in love after all.....

4. Peacefully break up with said girl without any drama. Don't give her any reason, don't tell her about reading her messages... That's just gonnna make you sound crazy.... Work on yourself until you're happy and confident alone, you're not ready to take care of a woman.
Don't try patching it up or listen to her sobs... She's a teenage drama Queen... And she's making her own bug telemundo



Forget love until you're in your twenties and not ruled by the man downstairs...

Wishing you all the best

-R

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Rokia2(f): 4:49pm On Nov 13, 2017
Lmao I can see you are a learner in the game.

Welcome to reality.

grin

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Earthquake1: 4:58pm On Nov 13, 2017
Dude you are number 4 on the line.

You shouldn't be crying what do you want the number one guy to do? grin
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by GraveMan(m): 5:05pm On Nov 13, 2017
I Think The Op Is A Bitch Nigga,
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by vicben27(m): 5:06pm On Nov 13, 2017
go n read your Books
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 13, 2017
ftosino:
and she will be claiming she loves me, that she can sacrifice anything for me, that if i leave her, she can kill herself..
forget about her, she doesn't love you.
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 13, 2017
delugajackson:
Young man, you are investigating too much. Certain things shouldn't bother you.

Its obvious you are new in the game, and do not know how its played. She seems smart, but not too smart. No sensible girl will log in her account on your phone and forget to log out her details for fear of suspicion.

She's just playing with your heart, man.
OP should be working with the FBI, too much investigation, he needs to move on.

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by drnoel: 5:15pm On Nov 13, 2017
ftosino:
My Name Is Tosin, I Am 18, I Have Always Been Single Until September. I Profess My Love To A Girl On The 11th. She Accepted. she claimed she doesnt have a bf then that she used to.

she logged in her account on my phone, facebook, which she later logged out, unknowingly to her the password is saved. i am a very curious and inquisitive, i checked her chats, while going through her chats i saw a msg from a guy, i opened it and went through their msg, all what they chat point to them being lovers.

thats when i know she was lying and she is double dating.

i thought that was all, until yday that i logged in her acct that i saw another chat of her with another guy, shd asked for the guy's gf, he said she is fine, the guy also asked for her bf,
she said "they are fine"

she now mentioned 4 guys name including mine with the one i thought was the first bf, i was wowed, she nw said she love one of us more, wich is nt me or the other guy.

my fellow nairalanders, what shd i do guys wats yor opinion, ladies whats urs.


Dat no be matters arising. Collect ya own n move on. Use rubber if u no won story dat touch d heart

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by ftosino(m): 6:09pm On Nov 13, 2017
Reinafarine ,
I Have This Non-challant Attitude Towards, I Wasnt even ready to be in a relationship self. i dont even knw why i toast am sef, i told her on sat that i wann go bak to ma single guys zone, she said am joking, she even gave me a surprise visit to ma store today, i dont knw what to do, i dont knw how i will break up wid ha.
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by delugajackson: 6:24pm On Nov 13, 2017
IAmFreeman:
OP should be working with the FBI, too much investigation, he needs to move on.
Yeah, too bad it has to be this way. For a relationship that young and she's already caught cheating, it tells much about her complicity. The girl ain't loyal.

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Rubbiish(m): 6:35pm On Nov 13, 2017
GraveMan:
I Think The Op Is A Bitch Nigga,
Not really
the guy is still young na...
most dudes acted this way when they were his age...

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Ajebusta(m): 6:37pm On Nov 13, 2017
Try all you can to have sex with her


...
Then show her the chats and tell her you dont have probs...

Provided she will be servicing you anytime konji dey do you... or you will post the chat to the world

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 13, 2017
delugajackson:

Yeah, too bad it has to be this way. For a relationship that young and she's already caught cheating, it tells much about her complicity. The girl ain't loyal.
Yeah, you are very right.
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Arabiandude: 7:18pm On Nov 13, 2017
rawpadgin:
nothing serious between us though grin
Oga if you call such girl your babe in my presence, na 1million slaps I go give you at once I swear. Fvck the damn b!tch and throaway the remain of her pvssy into the river, that's what she deserve

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Zhahovic(m): 7:23pm On Nov 13, 2017
Shes obviously confused.... like most girls of teenage age...they just wanna explore....
..
U better don't kill yourself... face your studies and have your fun wisely!..I repeat have fun..but do it with wisdom....don't commit your heart to any girl yet....commit it to your books!

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Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by rawpadgin(m): 7:24pm On Nov 13, 2017
Arabiandude:

Oga if you call such girl your babe in my presence, na 1million slaps I go give you at once I swear. Fvck the damn b!tch and throaway the remain of her pvssy into the river, that's what she deserve
lol

I told u there is nothing serious between us


Na Bleep mate things
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by dan9ice(m): 7:24pm On Nov 13, 2017
Welcome 2 d league... Dont allow are to relegate you to championship..
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Arabiandude: 7:25pm On Nov 13, 2017
rawpadgin:
lol

I told u there is nothing serious between us


Na Bleep mate things
That's supposed to be the exact story and thank God that's what its. Bleep her like there is no tomorrow
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by rawpadgin(m): 7:26pm On Nov 13, 2017
Arabiandude:

That's supposed to be the exact story and thank God that's what its. Bleep her like there is no tomorrow
grin grin

My guy dey para grin
Re: Women Sha!!, Whats Your Advice On This. by Arabiandude: 7:28pm On Nov 13, 2017
rawpadgin:
grin grin

My guy dey para grin
Brotherly you know my story na, na small thing they boil my blood, mostly from those stupid babes

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