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Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by ocelot2006(m): 11:44pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Spaxon: & watch a child's life being destroyed by her own father?? Evil thrives when good men & women do nothing. My recommendation: Confront him & possibly withdraw that child from that toxic environment IMMEDIATELY. Take her to a safe home (grand parents, uncles/aunts, etc) or even yours (if you have the capability to cater for her) till the issue is addressed. Then discreetly involve close family members in the case; I'm not so keen on involving the cops, at least not immediately, as it will definitely have negative effects/cast a stigma on the innocent girl. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by ocelot2006(m): 11:46pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Gulderbottle85: OH COME ON!! HABA!! |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 11:47pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Gulderbottle85: The most important thing u need to do is contact one of this sexual abuse ngo or hotlines. They will come and take her away from there IMMEDIATELY and reconnect her wt her mother. They'll also bring in d police. Please call them now and make sure u keep following up on her till she's reconnected wt her mother. Don't confront dt rapist by yourself. Even if u do, he will either just deny & continue or Run away or hide the girl. We don't want any of this outcomes. So please try to get external help. I'll post links here if I find some. Another option is to take her away by yourself and let her stay somewhere safe. Maybe talk to ur church (pastors wife or sthn) till u can get the ngo to step in. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Gurusblend(m): 11:49pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
You can't just confront like that, else he will deny doing so, wait for an opportunity to grab solid / concrete evidence against him, you can video tape him when doing it but be careful so as not to leak the video, or all of you should enter at once when he started doing so as to be caught red handed.. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by swazpedro(m): 11:50pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Everyone is giving solutions, but no one has offered to help.. Nigeria 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by deolurexy1(m): 11:51pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
selflessmaya:You are a bastard for insulting me. For starters this platform isn't the right place for this kinda issue it will only Leave the op more confused. Now every family loves differently, give or take he is stil her father having him put away forever would make her case worse believe no matter the therapy. As sad as it sounds these things ha occurred since man and woman existed. They should separate them but not totally. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Drnice: 11:57pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
First, save the child by keeping her to a trusted mature female's care. Talk to few(2 or 3) persons about it that will walk alongside you to confront the Pervert, while questioning him keep your phones on recording, atleast use questions to lure him in. But Traditionally, if really he committed such sin, let the elders of that land decide his fate(curse, exile). I will also advise, when the case is done, disassociate with such friend. Thanks! |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by IForgotMyLoginD(f): 11:57pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
Calling a spade, a spade. You are a witness to rape. Your friend rapes his daughter. Report him to the authorities. And involve an anti-rape NGO. protect the girl child. He's doing a lot of damage to her. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sanpipita(m): 12:00am On Nov 17, 2017 |
deolurexy1: People easily get emotional at these things forgetting there is a need to have a critical thinking, lets just pray this girl won't developed any sort of Stockholm syndrome for the dad, aside taking her to bed, the Dad has been the only one in her life, no mother, no brother or sister. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Maski87: 12:00am On Nov 17, 2017 |
You will be ruining this girls life if you do not confront this man and Man him stop traumatizing this child |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by 9jatatafo(m): 12:00am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Please OP get the contact of the mother of the little girl so she can confront the man and possibly get her daughter back. But OP you said you saw the man bouncing on top of the girl and you and your female friend and a neighbour called the little girl to confirm. why confirm from the girl what you already saw? |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Drnice: 12:02am On Nov 17, 2017 |
swazpedro:Solution might be help inturn. Besides, people who would help will PM him(Op). You don't expect them to go public to tell the community that they are about to help. Btw, I'm Biafran! |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 12:02am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Gulderbottle85:confront him.why are you risking your life like this.bro I will advice you to report this to agent in charge of rape 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by futurehome: 12:02am On Nov 17, 2017 |
I strongly advice you talk to him first, he might be going through an emotional trauma. Tell him the repercussions involved in his actions. Threaten to report if he refuse to change. Your friend also needs help. Spiritual and emotional help. If you report him, it will do.more harm than good. Naija police no dey rehabilitate person o, na to finish him life. May God give you the wisdom to help both of them. Gulderbottle85: |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 12:04am On Nov 17, 2017 |
deolurexy1: WTF?? Did u just use the word love? Arent u a sick bastard? Dt girl has bn damaged forever and ur here sympathizing wt a sick man. He MUST be put away so he doesnt molest another minor. Nonsense. 6 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by maclatunji: 12:04am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Gulderbottle85: He won't, report to the authorities. Save her from further defilement. 4 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 12:09am On Nov 17, 2017 |
We have confronted him but he is denying. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Bamz(m): 12:10am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Spaxon: It is clear that beauty and brains are worlds apart. Gulderbottle85, You need to report this on time. Eyes on you man. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sorextee(m): 12:12am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Dont just base it on only girls alone.. We guys get molested by females too wen we were young. Let me just speak for myself.. Its a shameful thing to talk about.. delishpot: 5 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by KanuJEWSarePIGS: 12:13am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Obviously, OP is in a state of limbo. I sense his "friend "has been his benefactor overtime hence, his state or confusion. But you should know that, you and no one else owe that helpless child her freedom. The earlier you swing in action the better for YOU, YOUR" BENEFACTOR " AND THE EMOTIONALLY CHAINED FRAIL YOUNG INNOCENT GIRL. Don't confront your friend about your experienced, this is only for your safety for you never can tell how he would walk his way out of the show unscattered. Locate a child care unit and tender your experience. You really don't need any prove here as it is readily available. The young girl will be checked for penetration and she would by then have gathered some confidence to finger her dad as the culprit. GO SAVE A YOUNG LIFE THAT IS CURRENTLY IN CHAIN. GO FOR THE RESCUE. GO SAVE YOURSELF AVOIDABLE GUILT. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by hopebacy(m): 12:14am On Nov 17, 2017 |
report the pervert to NAPTIP.. and see how the idiot will rot in jail. 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Boyooosa(m): 12:14am On Nov 17, 2017 |
selflessmaya:Whatever shiit u r highing on doesn't make good sense of u. How can u mention 2 diff monikers and mix your whole life up, check your mentions again and type 'am sorry' hundred times. Gulderbottle85:The reason I advised to lay his hand on pix as evidence. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Bamidele539: 12:17am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Gulderbottle85:what was his response? He denied it i guess? |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sorextee(m): 12:17am On Nov 17, 2017 |
He just offered his advice based on his level of understanding. So why insult him? Nigerians are always quick to insult.... OldBeer: |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by OldBeer: 12:18am On Nov 17, 2017 |
sorextee:You are right. Emotions overcame me there. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sorextee(m): 12:23am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Even if d story doesnt add up, three things I want you to know is that 1. It happens 2. Its happening 3. It will continue to happen. Some mothers sleep with their sons too. sanpipita: 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by AreaFada2: 12:24am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Na wa o. Very awful. Do not be surprised if the dad was also abused as a kid. As kids, lots of men were abused by one "aunty, neighbour, friend, inlaw, etc. It is shocking how many male friends had such an experience growing up. You have to secretly contact child protection services. Some have already mentioned Mirabel. The child's mother needs to know. The girl will need counselling. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Nobody: 12:27am On Nov 17, 2017 |
texazzpete: this is harsh but some of it is true and my first thought too, it's like seeing a person getting killed and going home to plan to report when u could have raised alarm, saved a life and caught the murderer red handed, even if he didnt raise alarm cos he didnt want to cause the child stigma and had plans to report to the cops, why not keep concrete evidence eg: a video, if you're letting red-handed opportunity get away, then surely u must have a plan besides word of mouth to get ppl to believe u. i do blame him for not interrupting the session and taking the girl out of that house with him immediately, he should never have left her there once he saw that. honestly, since the girl will not be living with the man anymore and will be leaving the neighborhood, he should have just raised alarm, that would have been the easiest thing, it's rare for a crime to be solved without ppl knowing about it, rape cases have to be exposed in order for justice to play out. and we dont even have a fair legal system so chances are this man wont get the evil he deserves. infact in most cases, jungle justice or involving the family is the only resort nigerians have. and to do both, u need to cause a commotion, get attention, get fellow witnesses. even if the law cant do much, if many ppl know about this, it'll be easier to find a relative she'd live with. her mental health is story for another day. truth is, she's damaged and will never fully be fixed and i doubt nigeria will even try to fix her. even if him alone had confronted this pervert red-handed without causing a scene, the perv will be so humiliated, he wont even know how to lift his head, this guy can tell him if he resists him taking the girl with him, he'll raise alarm and watch the perv back off.. but he could take the girl and the friend will frame him, say he kidnapped and sexually abused his child and turn their words against them, even if they both bring up the abuse, he'll say the kid has been brainwashed, she thinks she's in love so she's willing to lie against her own father. nigeria does not have the advanced technology or system of interrogation & investigation for someone to throw away solid evidence, u see it, u get as many witnesses as possible to see it too, then when and if u involve law enforcement, there'll be no long story. the best way to catch a criminal is red-handed. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by Macgreat(m): 12:27am On Nov 17, 2017 |
Why didn't you take picture? |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sorextee(m): 12:27am On Nov 17, 2017 |
OldBeer: Lol... Are u hearing this kinda story for the first time?? Things are happening o. Son/mother Father/daughter. Some end time daughters fall in love with their fathers. And d father succumbs.. See bros things dey happen. but for now, lets focus on this one on ground... 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by sanpipita(m): 12:30am On Nov 17, 2017 |
sorextee: My assertion wasn't to discount it happening just some parts of the story got me skeptical about its authenticity, I know it happens, incest is very rampant these days, there are many cases abound both ones we know and ones we have no idea about. |
Re: My Friend Is Sleeping With His 13-Year-Old Daughter by gregyboy(m): 12:31am On Nov 17, 2017 |
TheTrueApostle: chill don't kill him make him impotent let dat thing of his not stand again for what na abomination in short kill ur friend buy gun tomorrow kill am ure right thetrueapostle indeed ure 2 Likes |
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