she was a christian during marriage

but now an olosho after divorce

ariklawani:
Marriage without happiness is hell
she's so happy. just like me.

Tell us your story, Madame Happy Divorcee.

ariklawani:
Shut up,u don't know what pple go thru in an abusive, and troubled unions... is like being in hell.some men are just impossible. this is pictures of a woman,that was homely .but maybe took for granted.am talking frm experience. don't say what u don't know.especially if u have never being married.

wow ur experience speak 4 u.... more divorces coming ur way if u keep up this mentality... the Bible says godliness and contentment is great gain... most divorces are caused by ur xpectations, when they are not met.....

Humanistme:


we do not all suscribe to your religion you hear?

some people are actually happier after they leave stressful, abusive spouses.

I know you are a humanist. You deny the Creator that's why you always have problems.
Let me lecture you. Marriage was created by God and if you don't do it God's way, it will turn out to be abusive and stressful.

Chiboyz40:
I'm just feeling sorry 4 d ladies that will turn this around to say "if divorce can make her look this good, then what's stopping me"

Gbam.

Prec1ous:
This is still busllshit!

See the difference in dressing, if she was like the second picture.... Her marriage chances of survival will have increased.

See assumption

For all you know, na the husband say make she dey wear parachute with beret just as in the picture on the left.

As the man waka, see as she dey shine, fresh like today bread.....

Make E carry E witchcraft waka joorrrr...........

Adaowerri111:
Maybe there won't be a divorce if she had dressed well for her husband, na now eyes open, too late

See assumption. I smell ego all over this tread.......

For all you know, na the husband say make she dey wear parachute with beret just as in the picture on the left.

As the man waka, see as she dey shine, fresh like today bread..... 

Make E carry E witchcraft waka joorrrr........... 

Is it not even the responsibility of a man to take care of his wife and ensure that she looks and shines like the picture on the right ?

So your wife go dress like kunta kinte say she wan commot for house and you wont remind her why you married her? No be man you be? Abi is that you, bobrisky?

Adaowerri111:
Maybe there won't be a divorce if she had dressed well for her husband, na now eyes open, too late

Ada Ada Okwu gi kwu oto ka cigar. So many fools everywhere. Look at her like a mourner because she was married. Now she knows how to dress well. Some push themselves out of the privilege of marriage and stupidly remain that way till they die.

BluntBoy:


Fallacy.

There are people who are even unemployed that look better than very wealthy people. That she looks better in the second picture does not mean she has become richer. Her clothes in the first picture may even be more expensive than the dress in the second picture. You can't judge the worth of a cloth by merely looking at it. I have a family friend whose clothes always look cheap but are shopped for in London and Dubai and are very expensive.

Look at Mark Zukerberg or even our own Dangote. Sometimes, Dangote would wear a shirt that looks cheap and he would look like a driver. That shirt may look cheap but may be very expensive and of high quality.

not d one she is showing us abeg no vex.....by d way I dont know what ur long epistle is for. I said its not abt the dress...it cost money to "looook" better. does any of d men on ur list look bad? or worse than they did wen they didnt have money??



....you own the fallacy. how would you be rich you are not sick yet someone who dont even have enough looks better than you

so for you to do more olosho job you divorce abi.......you just rented 7 bed room flat in hell fire

mpowa:

Your philosophy determines what you get in any relationship, many are enjoying bliss, even in marriage.

Stop quoting me go fix your broken relationship

sholajigga:

One word for you; “Nuisance”.

Woman beater spotted

biacan:
Why won't he be blamed for her past predicament.......? thank GOD her eyes are now open that marriage isn't worth dying for..........infact she looks effortlessly beautiful go girl go girl

Ok..enjoy!

Humanistme:


But people lie, cheat and change. tomorrow is unknown. life is full of uncertainties.

I agree, It happens, people change...successful marriage is work, make sure you marry someone who wants to make it work, because when the emotions are over, Commitment to each other is what keeps you on, I still believe two is better than one any day, marry your friend, someone you love deep to heart and in trying times you won't give up on each other.

biacan:
Stop quoting me go fix your broken relationship

This is a public discussion forum, why you have problems being quoted beats my imagination...I don't have any broken relationship, you gat one? I can help you out for Free.

I can see alot of people are too sentimental even when pictures speaks for itself, yes divorce should not be wildly accepted but we must all realise that people change and when your spouse turns out to be the reason why your life becomes hard, it's is very important you cut them off, I hate to say this, but judging from the pictures, divorce looks good on her

tosyne2much:
[i] This generation is finished..


I pity the ladies that will be led astray by this aftermath picture of divorce

Young bobo you look sweet

biacan:
Why won't he be blamed for her past predicament.......? thank GOD her eyes are now open that marriage isn't worth dying for..........infact she looks effortlessly beautiful go girl go girl

And you are so certain that it's the man's fault ba!

Receive sense.

No difference except the make up application

terrezo2002:

I know you are a humanist. [s]You deny the Creator that's why you always have problems[/s].
[s]Let me lecture you. Marriage was created by God and if you don't do it God's way, it will turn out to be abusive and stressful.[/s]

not all religions is against divorce. Christians have problems in their marriage too. stop yarning trash. chris oyakilome/okotie are not muslims. tonto dike is not an atheist. Marriage wasn't created by your version of god alone. it is a social institution with varying conditions according to the cultures/religion of the people involved.

mpowa:

This is a public discussion forum, why you have problems being quoted beats my imagination...I don't have any broken relationship, you gat one? I can help you out for Free.

Help ke...... fix your big chicks first

biacan:
Why won't he be blamed for her past predicament.......? thank GOD her eyes are now open that marriage isn't worth dying for..........infact she looks effortlessly beautiful go girl go girl

she look effortlessly beautiful bla bla bla! who beauty epp? I don't know why so many ignorant women do think that beauty is the only thing they can offer their partners. That's foolishness of the highest order.
You speak with resentments. if you are hrt broken try get a life.

biacan:
Young bobo you look sweet

Young baby you look sweet too

IamZod:
And you are so certain that it's the man's fault ba!
Receive sense.

Woman beater stop quoting me

tosyne2much:
Young baby you look sweet too

Why are you still in kwara last time you were in ekiti

pocohantas:
Be slow to blame the husband

Let's not forget it's not two people that make up a marriage in Africa.
We have the couple
In-laws from both sides.
Kids.
Religious leaders; she looks very religious in the before pic.
Neighbours.
Colleagues.
Side chicks.
Side guys.

It could have been any of this people breaking the marriage. It could also be either of them, doesn't always mean they are bad, but we need to understand not everyone is cut out for the challenges marriage comes with. Instead we chose to label such people irresponsible.

In all fairness to her and her new look, marriage takes a lot from women. They lose themselves trying to be the perfect wife and mother, not because they can't do better, but it takes up all their time. You need a very supportive husband to overcome this.

That said, she should quit the social media display. Women can be experts in playing victim, same way men are experts in playing clueless.

Explain the emboldened.

frenzyduchess:
I can see alot of people are too sentimental even when pictures speaks for itself, yes divorce should not be wildly accepted but we must all realise that people change and when your spouse turns out to be the reason why your life becomes hard, it's is very important you cut them off, I hate to say this, but judging from the pictures, divorce looks good on her

besides her dressing, not much has changed between the two pictures. She should be better off celebrating her freedom from religion than her divorce.

Unless she is saying the husband made her to dress conservatively in the first picture.

DABMarkNig2019:

she look effortlessly beautiful bla bla bla! who beauty epp? I don't know why so many ignorant women do think that beauty is the only thing they can offer their partners. That's foolishness of the highest order.
You speak with resentments. if you are hrt broken try get a life.

Enemy of progress

Eeyah, she sure looks better after divorce.

Some people divorcing their partners, if you know what they are going thru in the marriage, u wouldn't want any of your family to have a taste of it.

If you as a married man or married woman and u have a good peaceful marriage, just be thanking God everyday. It's not an easy feat.

She will still remarry again. Her body still set kampe, but this time she will be very careful with her choice of man. Wish her best of luck

biacan:
Help ke...... fix your big chicks first

What is big chicks?... You mean my Big cheeks? You like it?

Prec1ous:
Sister, i know what i am saying.
Thr marriage chances will increase if she always acted like the second picture and not looking like the man's mother.

This could have helped things.

How do you know? Maybe the man wanted her to always dress like she did in the first picture. Who knows? My neighbour stopped his wife from wearing short skirts after they got married. If she does not tie wrapper or wear long flowing floor-length skirt, he does not allow her to go out. And she must tie scarf to cover her head.