"WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES" is a title of a book, a best seller written by a WOMAN,Sherry Agrov and whose aim of writing this book is to serve as a woman's guide to winning a man's heart (and of course his d!ck too and all to herself alone).

Well, in an interview with Today.com Sherry Agrov said:

"Men (with class not those 'male folks' who gawk and drool, patronizers of indecent dressed girls) want to commit to women who exude CONFIDENCE (not INSECURITIES) and are in CONTROL of their lives. A CONFIDENT WOMAN IS WHAT THE FIND SEXIEST".

I just saw a thread about MISS WORLD BEAUTY PAGENT and my mind quickly went to that best seller. I remembered reading  Sherry Agrov's view as to beauty pagentry. She wrote:

"Beauty pageants are good example of how women are misled into thinking that most important pursuit is beauty tips and "MAN CATCHING" skills. Granted, they offer educational grants and scholarships, which is very ironic because THE ONLY MEN watching are the ones who like STUPID WOMEN".

("the only men watching are the ones who like STUPID WOMEN". That part ALWAYS makes me laugh so hard. For its a woman sharing her views)

She continues in her book:

"INTELLIGENT MEN think it's embarrassing for a woman to pose and smile like she's always that chipper". (Is it a lie?!!!! Now this next illustration, makes me laugh even more.An observation by a lady, the writer CAN'T STOP EMPHASIZING)

"If you ever notice BEAUTY PAGEANTS are a lot like county fairs. The farmers show the COW across a stage in front of an audience with judges, and MAY BE THE COW EVEN TWIRLS around a couple of times. Then the WINNING COW gets a satin ribbon draped over it, which has the title and the year on it. They even have twelve - month calenders featuring the "cow of the month". 

With the fleeting of time, a lot more SHAMEFUL TRENDS, dehumanizing women have been given birth to. Trends such as MISS BUM-BUM, MISS BOOBS-BOOBS, MOST BEAUTIFUL VAGINA CONTEST................ . It's being a continous DEGRADATION, sinking humanity deeper into the mire of decadence.  

*** Sherry Agrov advice, if a woman wants to attract the heart and d!ck of a man of CLASS and INTELLIGENT, she needs not display her 'ASS-ETS' like some barn yard animal farm. But be confident. Such confidence that comes from SELF RESPECT.

Excerpted from "WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart. By Sherry Agrov.

Which brings us to the defination of a B-I-T-C-H in Sherry's terms.

Sherry Agrov put it as a.k.a "STRONG, SPIRITED WOMAN WHO CAN STAND UP FOR HERSELF".

"The bitch is not rude or abrasive because she's smart enough to know that being considerate is more effective. BUT SHE WON'T WORK OVER TIME TO 'CATCH A HUSBAND' (by playing STUP!D). BECAUSE OF THIS, HE DOESN'T CLASSIFY HER AS A MINDLESS WOMAN HE CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF". Sherry Agrov. (its not the 'bitch' you are thinking, if you are privilege to read the book you will understand that a woman who knows are WORTH don't have to act SLUTTY to attract men)

Its the irony of life, opposties attarcts

you're free to open useless thread as you like ......

WORDWORLD:
"WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES" is a title of a book, a best seller written by a WOMAN,Sherry Agrov and whose aim of writing this book is to serve as a woman's guide to winning a man's heart (and of course his d!ck too and all to herself alone).

Well, in an interview with Today.com Sherry Agrov said:

"Men (with class not those 'male folks' who gawk and drool, patronizers of indecent dressed girls) want to commit to women who exude CONFIDENCE (not INSECURITIES) and are in CONTROL of their lives. A CONFIDENT WOMAN IS WHAT THE FIND SEXIEST".

I just saw a thread about MISS WORLD BEAUTY PAGENT and my mind quickly went to that best seller. I remembered reading  Sherry Agrov's view as to beauty pagentry. She wrote:

"Beauty pageants are good example of how women are misled into thinking that most important pursuit is beauty tips and "MAN CATCHING" skills. Granted, they offer educational grants and scholarships, which is very ironic because THE ONLY MEN watching are the ones who like STUPID WOMEN".

("the only men watching are the ones who like STUPID WOMEN". That part ALWAYS makes me laugh so hard. For its a woman sharing her views)

She continues in her book:

"INTELLIGENT MEN think it's embarrassing for a woman to pose and smile like she's always that chipper". (It is a lie?!!!! Now this next illustration, makes me laugh even more.An observation by a lady, the writer. CAN'T STOP EMPHASIZING)

"If you ever notice BEAUTY PAGEANTS are a lot like county fairs. The farmers show the COW across a stage in front of an audience with judges, and MAY BE THE COW EVEN TWIRLS around a couple of times. Then the WINNING COW gets a satin ribbon draped over it, which has the title and the year on it. They even have twelve - month calenders featuring the "cow of the month". 

With the fleeting of time, a lot more SHAMEFUL TRENDS, dehumanizing women have been given birth to. Trends such as MISS BUM-BUM, MISS BOOBS-BOOBS, MOST BEAUTIFUL VAGINA CONTEST................ . It's being a continous DEGRADATION, sinking humanity deeper into the mire of decadence.  

***Its Sherry Agrov advice, if a woman wants to attract the heart and d!ck of a man of CLASS, INTELLIGENT, she needs not display her 'ASS-ETS' like some barn yard animal farm. But be confident. Such confidence that comes from SELF RESPECT.



Excerpted from "WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart. By Sherry Agrov.

Which brings us to the defination of a B-I-T-C-H in Sherry's terms.

Sherry Agrov put it as a.k.a "STRONG, SPIRITED WOMAN WHO CAN STAND UP FOR HERSELF".

"The bitch is not rude or abrasive because she's smart enough to know that being considerate is more effective. BUT SHE WON'T WORK OVER TIME TO 'CATCH A HUSBAND' (by playing STUP!D). BECAUSE OF THIS, HE DOESN'T CLASSIFY HER AS A MINDLESS WOMAN HE CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF". Sherry Agrov. (its not the 'bitch' you are thinking, if you are privilege to read the book you will understand that a woman who knows are WORTH dont have to act SLUTTY to attract men)

You have read that book, very fantastic read, i think the book is two set, love and marry.

KreativGenius:
Its the irony of life, opposties attarcts

That is no irony, it is what we have been induced to believe

An intelligent individual will always find a slowpoke to be disgusting

Op you are right,

Majority of ladies have been induced to believe the sole way to attract a man is to play dumb. They believe that laughing at jokes, talking about sex and many other unworthy issues will certainly land them a decent man.

Yet, what they don't know is that they will just end up attracting the type of guys that will treat them like a slowpoke.

if confident secure women are what men want then why are dumb virgins so much in demand?
how can you expect BRAINS in a beauty pageant for goodness' sake its not a BRAINS PAGEANT. debate clubs, chess clubs and quiz shows are for that.
men marry to have kids.and beautiful people have been shown to be healthy on avarage more than ugly people.
there are pretty gals i rarely see get sick or ill.attractive people are just biologically superior.hence men wanna reproduce with the hot ones.
stupid gals make the best galfriends.confidence in a woman is as off-putting as shyness in a guy.
but the question is WHY IS THIS UGLY FOSSIL TELLING MEN WHAT TO LIKE?
u cant negotiate desire.people love what they love.u cant change their mind and make them like what u feel they must like. attraction is not logical.its sexual. if a guy looks at u and his d!ck doesnt move its game over for u.

P/s have u noticed that ugly women tend to have this deep seated hatred for menbeautiful women are usually rude(coz they can afford to be)yet they never never ever ever hate men.
P/s have u noticed its mostly ugly gals that usually make rape claimswhen was the last time u saw a really pretty gal accuse a guy of rape?its so rare.

if confident secure women are what men want then why are dumb virgins so much in demand?
how can you expect BRAINS in a beauty pageant for goodness' sake its not a BRAINS PAGEANT. debate clubs, chess clubs and quiz shows are for that.
men marry to have kids.and beautiful people have been shown to be healthy on avarage more than ugly people.
there are pretty gals i rarely see get sick or ill.attractive people are just biologically superior.hence men wanna reproduce with the hot ones.
stupid gals make the best galfriends.confidence in a woman is as off-putting as shyness in a guy.
but the question is WHY IS THIS UGLY FOSSIL TELLING MEN WHAT TO LIKE?
u cant negotiate desire.people love what they love.u cant change their mind and make them like what u feel they must like. attraction is not logical.its sexual. if a guy looks at u and his d!ck doesnt move its game over for u.

P/s have u noticed that ugly women tend to have this deep seated hatred for menbeautiful women are usually rude(coz they can afford to be- avarage and fat women have to be kind and smile a lot coz they really have to if they wana stand a chance against the hot ones)yet these beautiful women they never never ever ever hate men.
P/s have u noticed its mostly ugly gals that usually make rape claimswhen was the last time u saw a really pretty gal accuse a guy of rape?its so rare.

I love me some intelligent lady,not some dumb slowpoke.

Good day to you ubunja, hope you are doing fine and have some how put SMILES on someone's face today. Your family, kiths and kins, friends, neighbours................. the stranger on the street and joy in his, her, their hearts. BOUNDLESS COMPASSION for our fellow beings will solve our ARTIFICIAL PROBLEMS in a world so rapidly changing. Artificial problems as a result of our negligence of our RESPONSIBILITIES as being one with PRIVILEGES. Our duty is to CARE about one another and SINCERELY from inside our hearts, expecting NOTHING in return. Let us ALWAYS practice COMPASSION until it becomes HABITUAL and not GREED nor SELFISHNESS that is living a FULFILLED LIFE.

And our world will sure be a better place. This world is whatever we choose to make of it. Its all up to us, yet its a choice, a choice of CONSEQUENCES really. And ONLY the WISE MEN and WISE WOMEN make the RIGHT and BEST of choices because the have KNOWLEDGE and knowledge is LIGHT which is shone to see the END OF THE ROAD. May we be blessed with WISDOM OVERFLOWING.
 
Ubunja now to your question which is:

ubunja:
if confident secure women are what men want then why are dumb virgins so much in demand?

Ubunja, the answer to your question is right  there on my post. It ALREADY made a DISTINCTION as to the KIND OF MEN she, Sherry Agrov and I are talking about. Kindly read below. Most especially what had been written in the bracket. An excerpt to make things CLEAR.

WORDWORLD:

Well, in an interview with Today.com Sherry Agrov said:

"Men (with class not those 'male folks' who gawk and drool, patronizers of indecent dressed girls) want to commit to women who exude CONFIDENCE (not INSECURITIES) and are in CONTROL of their lives. A CONFIDENT WOMAN IS WHAT THE FIND SEXIEST".

It says "MEN WITH CLASS not those 'MALE FOLKS' who gawk and drool, PATRONIZERS of INDECENT DRESSED GIRLS."

Which is the DISTINCTION already made as to the type of 'MEN' we are talking about who find CONFIDENT SECURE WOMEN the sexiest.
Ubunja, it also seems you have a misconception to this post. No where was I comparing BEAUTY with UGLY, its about CONFIDENT SECURE WOMEN. You kept talking about "UGLY". 

The confident secure women know better and the men with class too, who find them attractive because the are WISE and have built their CONFIDENCE on the old wise saying "BEAUTY IS BUT SKIN DEEP".

These women are women of SUBSTANCE and only the MEN WITH CLASS understand this because they are as WISE enough as them to know that SUPERFACIALITY OF THE SURFACE, physical beauty is at all not enough to build an ENDURING FUN FRUITFUL RELATIONSHIP. These men are attracted to confident secure women because the want a DEEPER CONNECTION in their relationship built on TRUST not LUST so they are looking beyond the surface, 'BIG BOOBS' 'BIG BUTTS' and all the 'MENEMENE' and looking deeper into SUBSTANCE.

Relationships don't last today because its mostly built on LUST, CARNAL DESIRE which is too SHALLOW, a game of LOSS played by 'THOUGHTLESS LITTLE CHILDERN CALLING THEMSELVES ADULTS' puting the lives of countless innocent produces of their marriage to jeopardy when the seperate, DIVORCE. It was a union built on SELFISHNESS not COMPASSION not COMPANIONSHIP.

Confident people are mostly TRUST WORTHY PEOPLE, hence a confident woman too. Relationships cannot grow unless it is built on TRUST. To be confident means you are not LYING to yourself neither are you LYING to others, hence you are CONFIDENT because you are not a LIAR, you have NOTHING TO FEAR. You are just being yourselve not living a lie, PRETENCIOUS.

It is this REALITY that a man with class finds as being SEXY because only such a lady he can have a DEEPER CONNECTION with and yet both RESONATE on higher levels because she as well knows her man's WORTH.

She doesn't suffer from INSECURITY ISSUES, acting DUMB so that when her partner drops his phone in the bedroom close to her and goes to the living room, or leaves his email open, facebook.......................she starts acting like a CIA agent going through his messages and what have you. She wont even think of picking it because there is NOTHING to find. SHE KNOWS THAT A CHEATER EXHIBITS HIS OR HER ART OF CHEATING IN OTHER HUMAN AFFAIRS APART FROM RELATIONSHIP. AND HAVE STUDIED HIM ENOUGH TO KNOW WHO HE TRUELY IS. IF A MAN IS HONEST IN HIS DEALINGS IN HIS DAY TO DAY BUSINESS HE IS MOST LIKELY NOT GOING TO CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. A MAN THAT KEEPS PROMISES, DOESNT TELL LIES, KEEPS TRUST GIVEN TO HIM ALL THIS ARE TRAIT THAT HAS GIVES HER NO DOUBT AT ALL.

And at least she knows that SUSPICION is a VENOM in any relationship and she has choosen STAY IN LOVE because she accepted her man for a DEEPER reason. She is not searching your phone because she know you better, that you only have a room in your heart for her alone. SHE IS CONFIDENT THAT YOU ARE AS WELL A TRUST WORTHY PERSON.

MEN WITH CLASS are men who know their right from their left, who are decent, responsible, highly sensitive with awesome emotional intelligence enough to understand their partners needs without them saying a single word.........................and knowing how to fulfil this needs and they are sexy too.

THESE MEN HAVE BEEN INTITATED INTO MANHOOD, BECAUSE THEY ARE VERY, VERY WELL GROOMED. THEY THINK WITH THEIR BRAIN NOT THE DING DONG BETWEEN THEIR THIGHS.

So, we are not talking 'MALE-FOLKS' 'LITTLE BOYZ' who think the are MEN. Who GROW UP becoming IRRESPONSIBLE. Who are lacking in SELF CONTROL always ready to GO RIOT like a He-GOAT.................."BLEAT! BLEAT! BLEAT! and BLEAT! every and anytime the see 'ABUNA' and running ERRATICALLY into farm yards of ladies who open their gates WIDELY for them to come eat them up, their tomatoes and tangerines with RECKLESS ABANDONMENT leaving them picking up the peels which is but EMOTIONAL WOUNDS for these FVCK BOYZ eat them merciless since they have built no VALUE to be respected in themselves. They are lacking in SELF ESTEEM. And these FVCK BOYZ find them attractive because the can over ride them.

*something that is ERRATIC does not follow any pattern or plan but happens in a way that is NOT REGULAR. Which is not the attribute of the men we are talking about who find CONFIDENT SECURE WOMEN THE SEXIEST. These men are focus and discipline.

Ubunja, we are not talking about such HE-GOATS 'MALE FOLKS', 'FVCK BOYZ' who go BLAIR! BUFF! BUFF! BLAIR,BUUUUUUUF! .hitting their feet on the ground, banging their head on the wall once they see PUCCY.

Isn't this the TRAIT in mostly today's MALE-FOLKS? FVCK BOYZ SO MUCH IN THE MULTITUDE?!!!! Should it then be a puzzel to find "DUMB VIRGINS" in high demand when this little boyz in their multitude want to settle down?

Ubunja, and why won't these FVCK BOYZ after dividing every CARELESS RED SEA in their with their JOYSTICK into two want to settle for an EXUDOS OF A SLAY QUEEN.

So, they become 'VIRGIN HUNTERS' (thinking they are wise) moving from the city and through villages they hunting for "DUMB VIRGINS" which your qualification of course is actually a demonization of chastity, making it look unfashionable by qualifying it with the word "DUMB".

A MAN WITH CLASS WANTS COMPATIBILITY. COMPANIONSHIP NOT JUST KIDS IN MARRIAGE. THEY REALITY IS THAT THESE KIDS WILL ONE DAY LEAVE YOUR HOME TO START THEIRS TOO. LEAVING JUST THE BOTH OF YOU ALONE LIKE IT WAS IN THE BEGINING. SO IF ITS ALL ABOUT KIDS, NOW THEY ARE ALL GONE, REMAINING JUST THE TWO OF YOU. AND AT THAT TIME, IF YOUR LOVE REVOLVES NOT AROUND COMPANIONSHIP, AND DEEPER CONNECTIVITY YOU ARE BOTH IN BIG TROUBLE.

So, ubunja NOT everyone 'MALE' with two balls between their legs and dangling like a pendulum, couple with a BIG CANON for the shooting are all MEN................MOST are LITTLE BOYS who pass through to ADULTHOOD and never to MANHOOD but think they are men. They are but BOYZ..........a.k.a FVCK BOYS.

I repeat, it is MOSTLY these 'LITTLE BOYZ' after SLAYING all ladies in town, honoring them with the title 'SLAY QUEEN' who start HUNTING for "DUMB VIRGINS" to settle thinking that they are playing smart and that KARMA ain't going to smoke their ass.  

The major message in this post is that we should make SUBSTANCE our priority over SUPERFACIALITY  of the surface.
"Beauty is but skin deep".


NO WISE MAN WILL EVER WANT A "DUMB VIRGIN" AS A WIFE ONLY A FOOLISH MAN WILL.

A VIRGIN WIFE?! OKAY BUT NOT A DUMB ONE. A lot of men make such choices, they are always looking for a lady who they can RIDE UPON deny her her rights, hence the go for the dumb ones who know not WATZUP while the continue their RECKLESS life. After all she is just DUMB and her job is to produces "KIDS" like some kind of BREAD FRACTORY.

greiboy:

That is no irony, it is what we have been induced to believe

An intelligent individual will always find a slowpoke to be disgusting

humans are more diverse than you think. There are intelligent peeps who aren't sapiosexual. Sapiosexuality typically comes from intuition - people who obtain facts by intuition usually like interacting with knowledgeable peeps.

monex:


humans are more diverse than you think. There are intelligent peeps who aren't sapiosexual. Sapiosexuality typically comes from intuition - people who obtain facts by intuition usually like interacting with knowledgeable peeps.

Not again!

WORDWORLD:


NO WISE MAN WILL EVER WANT A "DUMB VIRGIN" AS A WIFE ONLY A FOOLISH MAN WILL.

how about if he is WISE enough to know that in his PECULIAR scenario, the optimal spouse should be both dumb (better put not as intelligent as him) and a virgin. isnt that wisdom?

Try to disabuse your mind from a one-size-fits-all !

not all intelligent men are sapiosexuals. Not all sapiosexuals are intelligent

Sapiosexuality:
Not again!

just realised I mentioned your name. lol

monex:


humans are more diverse than you think. There are intelligent peeps who aren't sapiosexual. Sapiosexuality typically comes from intuition - people who obtain facts by intuition usually like interacting with knowledgeable peeps.

hmm

I understand that not every intelligent person is sapiosexual but not that doesn't mean opposites always attract as well.

Still, my point was based on what most people term as intelligent , which is not measured i.e. IQ type of measurement, but just basically average intelligence (just simple abilities to have basic discussions and complete simple task without supervision).

monex:


how about if he is WISE enough to know that in his PECULIAR scenario, the optimal spouse should be both dumb (better put not as intelligent as him) and a virgin. isnt that wisdom?

Try to disabuse your mind from a one-size-fits-all !

not all intelligent men are sapiosexuals. Not all sapiosexuals are intelligent

Did you say in his "PERCULIAR SCENARIO"?!!! And what kind of perculiar scenario can you please explain.

Too much knowledge. Life would be simpler if we knew lesser. Our problems are directly connected with our knowledge. Chai.I despise intelligence at times

WHICH IS THE PARADOX OF OUR AGE,
"We have more degrees but less sense;
more knowledge, but less judgment; more
experts, yet more problems; more
medicine,but less wellness".

Now let me further make CLEAR even though i already describe the kind of INTELLIGENCE am really talking about and which is EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. It is not the same thing as INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENTS. So, lets not mix it up. One of the most important qualities especially a guy should strive to possess ABOVE AVERAGE is emotional intelligence. Highly sensitive men make the best LOVERS. A high IQ does not predispose an individual to be a good lover. Relationship is not mathematics. The former does because he is always able to probe into the mood of his significant other, the WOMAN who seldomly do not open up. Even though a CONFIDENT WOMAN you still have to understand moods. She a woman functions mainly on intuition than men do.

WORDWORLD:
"We have more degrees but less sense;
more knowledge, but less judgment; more
experts, yet more problems; more
medicine,but less wellness".

Now let me further make CLEAR even though i already describe the kind of INTELLIGENCE am really talking about and which is EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. It is not the same thing as INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENTS. So, lets not mix it up. One of the most important qualities especially a guy should strive to possess is ABOVE AVERAGE is emotional intelligence. Highly sensitive men make the best LOVERS. A high IQ does not predispose an individual to be a good lover. Relationship is not mathematics. The former does because he is always able to probe into the mood of his significant other, the WOMAN who seldomly do not open up. Even though a CONFIDENT WOMAN you still have to understand moods. She a woman functions mainly on intuition than men do.

This makes me laff - Highly sensitive men make the best LOVER. I wish i can be a good dude anyways


You have depth whoever you are, nice one. I;m commenting the first time, but i read your posts. Brilliant, simply brilliant

KreativGenius:



This makes me laff - Highly sensitive men make the best LOVER. I wish i can be a good dude anyways


You have depth whoever you are, nice one. I;m commenting the first time, but i read your posts. Brilliant, simply brilliant

Thank for your remarks, your inputs on NL have been so beneficial to those like me and others who are always striving to grow in WISDOM. "Wisdom is found only in TRUTH" Wolfang Geothe.

KreativGenius let me tell you something perhaps you already know. And if not its but an ENLIGHTENMENT. When you give people LIGHT they are able to find their path.

You see 'INTELLIGENCE' is a gift to all of us from birth. To NOT be INTELLIGENT is to NOT be truly HUMAN and HUMANE, an inclination towards the ANIMAL SIDE of man, a loss to himself, and humanity which unfortunately the systems of our EDUCATION runs this gift down by watering it with RUBBISH making an INTELLECTUAL MALNURISHED society.

There is no debating this gift of INTELLIGENCE to the whole of mankind right from birth. Have you ever taken your time to study children. Children, we are so full of CURIOUSITY, always wanting to know, asking questions, looking for answers. Wanting to discover, they are great explorers. Asking "WHY, WHAT, HOW, WHO.............." very curious.

By the time they pass through so many systems fashioned, the vortex of ideologies and the education based on INDOCTRINATION. It makes too many to not use their gift of faculty of reasoning but just follow DOGMAS. That isn't how we were design to function as humans, hence our curiousity becomes NARROWED down. Instead of asking questions you are told all kinds of things which you are not meant to ask because, when we start ASKING QUESTIONS they Masters of Mankind who are the architect behind societal design and for their own SELFISH GOALS will loose their POWER.

One of such system is the UNIVERSAL BASIC EDUCATION world wide. Nigeria as a case study what people pride themselves as WESTERN EDUCATION is TRASH. The education passed was to make us as DUMB as DUMBO. Very clerical and hinge towards RELIGION which mainly is the bed rock of DOGMATISM. So you can't use your head. When we say WESTERN EDUCATION who are you developing yourself or the West?

Unless you SELF STUDY by embracing PURE RESEARCH void of subjectivism, becoming a CHILD, curious can one show gratitude for being human and humane for you are now using your head not just taking orders or being manipulated.

This 'BOOKISH' systems were delibrately structured to make "HUMANS TO BE AS STUP!D" as possible for easy MANIPULATION by MASTERS OF MANKIND who control human affairs for their own GREED. Its up to individuals who choose to be 'SALIK', meaning a SEEKER to learn cultivation of the mind, weeding it out of IMPURITIES so as to allow their SIXTH SENSE, to give them LIGHT . Light of wisdom to navigate our rapidly changing world. I gat to sign off. Have a splendid night and always practice compassion. Nice meeting you.

WORDWORLD:


Thank for your remarks, your inputs on NL have been so beneficial to those like me and others who are always striving to grow in WISDOM. "Wisdom is found only in TRUTH" Wolfang Geothe.

KreativGenius let me tell you something perhaps you already know. And if not its but an ENLIGHTENMENT. When you give people LIGHT they are able to find their path.

You see 'INTELLIGENCE' is a gift to all of us from birth. To NOT be INTELLIGENT is to NOT be truly HUMAN and HUMANE, an inclination towards the ANIMAL SIDE of man, a loss to himself, and humanity which unfortunately the systems of our EDUCATION runs this gift down by watering it with RUBBISH making an INTELLECTUAL MALNURISHED society.

There is no debating this gift of INTELLIGENCE to the whole of mankind right from birth. Have you ever taken your time to study children. Children, we are so full of CURIOUSITY, always wanting to know, asking questions, looking for answers. Wanting to discover, they are great explorers. Asking "WHY, WHAT, HOW, WHO.............." very curious.

By the time they pass through so many systems fashioned, the vortex of ideologies and the education based on INDOCTRINATION. It makes too many to not use their gift of faculty of reasoning but just follow DOGMAS. That isn't how we were design to function as humans, hence our curiousity becomes NARROWED down. Instead of asking questions you are told all kinds of things which you are not meant to ask because, when we start ASKING QUESTIONS they Masters of Mankind who are the architect behind societal design and for their own SELFISH GOALS will loose their POWER.

One of such system is the UNIVERSAL BASIC EDUCATION world wide. Nigeria as a case study what people pride themselves as WESTERN EDUCATION is TRASH. The education passed was to make us as DUMB as DUMBO. Very clerical and hinge towards RELIGION which mainly is the bed rock of DOGMATISM. So you can't use your head. When we say WESTERN EDUCATION who are you developing yourself or the West?

Unless you SELF STUDY by embracing PURE RESEARCH void of subjectivism, becoming a CHILD, curious can one show gratitude for being human and humane for you are now using your head not just taking orders or being manipulated.

This 'BOOKISH' systems were delibrately structured to make "HUMANS TO BE AS STUP!D" as possible for easy MANIPULATION by MASTERS OF MANKIND who control human affairs for their own GREED. Its up to individuals who choose to be 'SALIK', meaning a SEEKER to learn cultivation of the mind, weeding it out of IMPURITIES so as to allow their SIXTH SENSE, to give them LIGHT . Light of wisdom to navigate our rapidly changing world. I gat to sign off. Have a splendid night and always practice compassion. Nice meeting you.   

True @ When you give people LIGHT they are able to find their path....MANY TIMES OUR HEARTS ARE FOGGY, AND WISDOM DRAWN FORM DEEP PARTS ILLUMINATES OUR PATHS AND HELPS US SEE THE WAY AHEAD IN A CLEARER MANNER. WHICH IS WHY WE MUST DISPENSE KNOWLEDGE TO PEOPLE BY ALL MEANS POSSIBLE.


Yes, Intelligence is good, but has its own downsides. I.e. an intelligent person is easily stiff-necked ! Once they set themselves on a path, its difficult to see errors and make corrections because they have a heitghtened state of self, low self realization and self examination is not performed to evaluate better ways of performance. Self-intelligence is the stumbling block in the path of any intelligent mind that hasn't learnt the benefit of selfawareness, reflection and self re-positioning. To walk aright, consideration of self is important. An intelligent mind that hasn't gonme through process is difficut to correct. They make errors,and become of their inflexibility, correcting them forcefully will make such an individual snap, because self management is not an ability they possess, an intelligent being is good, but the one that has gone through process is better


Manipulation. I will exhaust myself if i open this door. So i won't for now. Perhaps in the future !

WORDWORLD:
Good day to you ubunja, hope you are doing fine and have some how put SMILES on someone's face today. Your family, kiths and kins, friends, neighbours................. the stranger on the street and joy in his, her, their hearts. BOUNDLESS COMPASSION for our fellow beings will solve our ARTIFICIAL PROBLEMS in a world so rapidly changing. Artificial problems as a result of our negligence of our RESPONSIBILITIES as being one with PRIVILEGES. Our duty is to CARE about one another and SINCERELY from inside our hearts, expecting NOTHING in return. Let us ALWAYS practice COMPASSION until it becomes HABITUAL and not GREED nor SELFISHNESS that is living a FULFILLED LIFE.

And our world will sure be a better place. This world is whatever we choose to make of it. Its all up to us, yet its a choice, a choice of CONSEQUENCES really. And ONLY the WISE MEN and WISE WOMEN make the RIGHT and BEST of choices because the have KNOWLEDGE and knowledge is LIGHT which is shone to see the END OF THE ROAD. May we be blessed with WISDOM OVERFLOWING.
 
Ubunja now to your question which is:



Ubunja, the answer to your question is right  there on my post. It ALREADY made a DISTINCTION as to the KIND OF MEN she, Sherry Agrov and I are talking about. Kindly read below. Most especially what had been written in the bracket. An excerpt to make things CLEAR.



It says "MEN WITH CLASS not those 'MALE FOLKS' who gawk and drool, PATRONIZERS of INDECENT DRESSED GIRLS."

Which is the DISTINCTION already made as to the type of 'MEN' we are talking about who find CONFIDENT SECURE WOMEN the sexiest.
Ubunja, it also seems you have a misconception to this post. No where was I comparing BEAUTY with UGLY, its about CONFIDENT SECURE WOMEN. You kept talking about "UGLY". 

The confident secure women know better and the men with class too, who find them attractive because the are WISE and have built their CONFIDENCE on the old wise saying "BEAUTY IS BUT SKIN DEEP".

These women are women of SUBSTANCE and only the MEN WITH CLASS understand this because they are as WISE enough as them to know that SUPERFACIALITY OF THE SURFACE, physical beauty is at all not enough to build an ENDURING FUN FRUITFUL RELATIONSHIP. These men are attracted to confident secure women because the want a DEEPER CONNECTION in their relationship built on TRUST not LUST so they are looking beyond the surface, 'BIG BOOBS' 'BIG BUTTS' and all the 'MENEMENE' and looking deeper into SUBSTANCE.

Relationships don't last today because its mostly built on LUST, CARNAL DESIRE which is too SHALLOW, a game of LOSS played by 'THOUGHTLESS LITTLE CHILDERN CALLING THEMSELVES ADULTS' puting the lives of countless innocent produces of their marriage to jeopardy when the seperate, DIVORCE. It was a union built on SELFISHNESS not COMPASSION not COMPANIONSHIP.

Confident people are mostly TRUST WORTHY PEOPLE, hence a confident woman too. Relationships cannot grow unless it is built on TRUST. To be confident means you are not LYING to yourself neither are you LYING to others, hence you are CONFIDENT because you are not a LIAR, you have NOTHING TO FEAR. You are just being yourselve not living a lie, PRETENCIOUS.

It is this REALITY that a man with class finds as being SEXY because only such a lady he can have a DEEPER CONNECTION with and yet both RESONATE on higher levels because she as well knows her man's WORTH.

She doesn't suffer from INSECURITY ISSUES, acting DUMB so that when her partner drops his phone in the bedroom close to her and goes to the living room, or leaves his email open, facebook.......................she starts acting like a CIA agent going through his messages and what have you. She wont even think of picking it because there is NOTHING to find. SHE KNOWS THAT A CHEATER EXHIBITS HIS OR HER ART OF CHEATING IN OTHER HUMAN AFFAIRS APART FROM RELATIONSHIP. AND HAVE STUDIED HIM ENOUGH TO KNOW WHO HE TRUELY IS. IF A MAN IS HONEST IN HIS DEALINGS IN HIS DAY TO DAY BUSINESS HE IS MOST LIKELY NOT GOING TO CHEAT IN A RELATIONSHIP. A MAN THAT KEEPS PROMISES, DOESNT TELL LIES, KEEPS TRUST GIVEN TO HIM ALL THIS ARE TRAIT THAT HAS GIVES HER NO DOUBT AT ALL.

And at least she knows that SUSPICION is a VENOM in any relationship and she has choosen STAY IN LOVE because she accepted her man for a DEEPER reason. She is not searching your phone because she know you better, that you only have a room in your heart for her alone. SHE IS CONFIDENT THAT YOU ARE AS WELL A TRUST WORTHY PERSON.

MEN WITH CLASS are men who know their right from their left, who are decent, responsible, highly sensitive with awesome emotional intelligence enough to understand their partners needs without them saying a single word.........................and knowing how to fulfil this needs and they are sexy too.

THESE MEN HAVE BEEN INTITATED INTO MANHOOD, BECAUSE THEY ARE VERY, VERY WELL GROOMED. THEY THINK WITH THEIR BRAIN NOT THE DING DONG BETWEEN THEIR THIGHS.

So, we are not talking 'MALE-FOLKS' 'LITTLE BOYZ' who think the are MEN. Who GROW UP becoming IRRESPONSIBLE. Who are lacking in SELF CONTROL always ready to GO RIOT like a He-GOAT.................."BLEAT! BLEAT! BLEAT! and BLEAT! every and anytime the see 'ABUNA' and running ERRATICALLY into farm yards of ladies who open their gates WIDELY for them to come eat them up, their tomatoes and tangerines with RECKLESS ABANDONMENT leaving them picking up the peels which is but EMOTIONAL WOUNDS for these FVCK BOYZ eat them merciless since they have built no VALUE to be respected in themselves. They are lacking in SELF ESTEEM. And these FVCK BOYZ find them attractive because the can over ride them.

*something that is ERRATIC does not follow any pattern or plan but happens in a way that is NOT REGULAR. Which is not the attribute of the men we are talking about who find CONFIDENT SECURE WOMEN THE SEXIEST. These men are focus and discipline.

Ubunja, we are not talking about such HE-GOATS 'MALE FOLKS', 'FVCK BOYZ' who go BLAIR! BUFF! BUFF! BLAIR,BUUUUUUUF! .hitting their feet on the ground, banging their head on the wall once they see PUCCY.

Isn't this the TRAIT in mostly today's MALE-FOLKS? FVCK BOYZ SO MUCH IN THE MULTITUDE?!!!! Should it then be a puzzel to find "DUMB VIRGINS" in high demand when this little boyz in their multitude want to settle down?

Ubunja, and why won't these FVCK BOYZ after dividing every CARELESS RED SEA in their with their JOYSTICK into two want to settle for an EXUDOS OF A SLAY QUEEN.

So, they become 'VIRGIN HUNTERS' (thinking they are wise) moving from the city and through villages they hunting for "DUMB VIRGINS" which your qualification of course is actually a demonization of chastity, making it look unfashionable by qualifying it with the word "DUMB".

A MAN WITH CLASS WANTS COMPATIBILITY. COMPANIONSHIP NOT JUST KIDS IN MARRIAGE. THEY REALITY IS THAT THESE KIDS WILL ONE DAY LEAVE YOUR HOME TO START THEIRS TOO. LEAVING JUST THE BOTH OF YOU ALONE LIKE IT WAS IN THE BEGINING. SO IF ITS ALL ABOUT KIDS, NOW THEY ARE ALL GONE, REMAINING JUST THE TWO OF YOU. AND AT THAT TIME, IF YOUR LOVE REVOLVES NOT AROUND COMPANIONSHIP, AND DEEPER CONNECTIVITY YOU ARE BOTH IN BIG TROUBLE.

So, ubunja NOT everyone 'MALE' with two balls between their legs and dangling like a pendulum, couple with a BIG CANON for the shooting are all MEN................MOST are LITTLE BOYS who pass through to ADULTHOOD and never to MANHOOD but think they are men. They are but BOYZ..........a.k.a FVCK BOYS.

I repeat, it is MOSTLY these 'LITTLE BOYZ' after SLAYING all ladies in town, honoring them with the title 'SLAY QUEEN' who start HUNTING for "DUMB VIRGINS" to settle thinking that they are playing smart and that KARMA ain't going to smoke their ass.  

The major message in this post is that we should make SUBSTANCE our priority over SUPERFACIALITY  of the surface.
"Beauty is but skin deep".


NO WISE MAN WILL EVER WANT A "DUMB VIRGIN" AS A WIFE ONLY A FOOLISH MAN WILL.

A VIRGIN WIFE?! OKAY BUT NOT A DUMB ONE. A lot of men make such choices, they are always looking for a lady who they can RIDE UPON deny her her rights, hence the go for the dumb ones who know not WATZUP while the continue their RECKLESS life. After all she is just DUMB and her job is to produces "KIDS" like some kind of BREAD FRACTORY.

rich men marry dumb blondes.
if you have everything you have no use for a smart intelligent woman. there is nothing special about intelligent women other than the fact that they can get a good job.but if she doesnt have to work then her intelligence is unneeded.
im so shallow.be pretty and be very tall and we will talk business.i know physically my children will be gifted.
and noone needs intelligence to cook sumptuous meals and take care of a family.

ubunja:

rich men marry dumb blondes.
if you have everything you have no use for a smart intelligent woman. there is nothing special about intelligent women other than the fact that they can get a good job.but if she doesnt have to work then her intelligence is unneeded.
im so shallow.be pretty and be very tall and we will talk business.i know physically my children will be gifted.
and noone needs intelligence to cook sumptuous meals and take care of a family.

LMAO @

rich men marry dumb blondes.
if you have everything you have no use for a smart intelligent woman. there is nothing special about intelligent women other than the fact that they can get a good job.but if she doesnt have to work then her intelligence is unneeded.
im so shallow.be pretty and be very tall and we will talk business.i know physically my children will be gifted.
and noone needs intelligence to cook sumptuous meals and take care of a family.

Exactly what i've been saying, intelligence has its downsides...


I think i'll consider this opinion. Countdown, i hear d bells ringing

KreativGenius:


LMAO @

rich men marry dumb blondes.
if you have everything you have no use for a smart intelligent woman. there is nothing special about intelligent women other than the fact that they can get a good job.but if she doesnt have to work then her intelligence is unneeded.
im so shallow.be pretty and be very tall and we will talk business.i know physically my children will be gifted.
and noone needs intelligence to cook sumptuous meals and take care of a family.

Exactly what i've been saying, intelligence has its downsides...

I think i'll consider this opinion. Countdown, i hear d bells ringing 

The whole message on this thread is the old wise saying "BEAUTY IS BUT SKIN DEEP". Of course "rich men" marry "dumb blonde". Which summaries the whole message as one of SUPERFACIALITY and not SUBSTANCE. She accepted the rich man because his got money even if drools like a puppy dog and he too has possessed her like another of his properties because his got money which on a good day if not for his money he doesnt stand a chance.  The thread is not even RICH MEN but MEN WITH CLASS whose de-factor not money not physical beauty but that CONFIDENCE for being oneself enough TRUTH illuminating. They want DEEPER CONNECTION as well as to RESONATE ON A HIGHER LEVEL based on SUBSTANCE. Its not about "KIDS" but what makes relationship THICK.
 

Now, to Intelligence. If that word INTELLIGENCE means what it RIGHTLY MEANS. Then, there is ABSOLUTELY NO DOWN SIDE to it as to being a "stiff neck" except an attribute of PSEUD INTELLECTUALS. The TRUELY intelligent are never afraid to change their stance and opinion when presented with new data or simply as result of new avenues of thought. Accepting their mistake, correcting them for that is GROWTH. Those who remain "STIFF NECK" are but PSEUD, persons who pretend to know a lot of things and talks about it in a complicated way in order to make other people admire them. The TRUELY INTELLIGENT are always seeking after TRUTH. For they know like Wolfang Geothe that "WISDOM IS FOUND ONLY IN TRUTH".
There is absolutely no down side to INTELLIGENCE in its ABSOLUTE mean, which is devoid of the "I" in "ME", PRIDE. Its a one way traffic and which is a leaping forward always in the right direction.

"STIFF NECK" is but PUFF UP PRIDE and its an attribute of EMPTY PEOPLE pretending to be INTELLECTUALS. "WISDOM is rare, and it is only wisdom that can appreciate true well being and distinguish it from the false apperance of well being".

WORDWORLD:


The whole message on this thread is the old wise saying "BEAUTY IS BUT SKIN DEEP". Of course "rich men" marry "dumb blonde". Which summaries the whole message as one of SUPERFACIALITY and not SUBSTANCE. She accepted the rich man because his got money even if drools like a puppy dog and he too has possessed her like another of his properties because his got money which on a good day if not for his money he doesnt stand a chance.  The thread is not even RICH MEN but MEN WITH CLASS whose de-factor not money not physical beauty but that CONFIDENCE for being oneself enough TRUTH illuminating. They want DEEPER CONNECTION as well as to RESONATE ON A HIGHER LEVEL based on SUBSTANCE. Its not about "KIDS" but what makes relationship THICK.
 

Now, to Intelligence. If that word INTELLIGENCE means what it RIGHTLY MEANS. Then, there is ABSOLUTELY NO DOWN SIDE to it as to being a "stiff neck" except an attribute of PSEUD INTELLECTUALS. The TRUELY intelligent are never afraid to change their stance and opinion when presented with new data or simply as result of new avenues of thought. Accepting their mistake, correcting them for that is GROWTH. Those who remain "STIFF NECK" are but PSEUD, persons who pretend to know a lot of things and talks about it in a complicated way in order to make other people admire them. The TRUELY INTELLIGENT are always seeking after TRUTH. For they know like Wolfang Geothe that "WISDOM IS FOUND ONLY IN TRUTH".
There is absolutely no down side to INTELLIGENCE in its ABSOLUTE mean, which is devoid of the "I" in "ME", PRIDE. Its a one way traffic and which is a leaping forward always in the right direction.

"STIFF NECK" is but PUFF UP PRIDE and its an attribute of EMPTY PEOPLE pretending to be INTELLECTUALS. "WISDOM is rare, and it is only wisdom that can appreciate true well being and distinguish it from the false apperance of well being". 

About intelligence, it's more or less the same thing that was expressed above, one can be intelligent and not be wise. Did you read where Paul says Knowledge puffs up? Beauty is skin deep, Intelligent is bae, but intelligence with humility, wisdom and good character is priceless, find a woman with such qualities embrace her, find a man, keep him close

remind me again DOES THE VAGINA OF AN INTELLIGENT WOMAN TASTE SWEETER THAN THE VAGINA OF A DUMB WOMAN?
are the breasts of an intelligent woman nicer to play with than the breasts of a dumb woman?
are the kisses of an intelligent woman more delicious than the kisses of a dumb woman?
LOOOOOL what i have seen are men married to smart intelligent top-achieving women who cheat with dumb brainless gals who are hot as hell
take the smart ones my brothers. just leave the dumb ones for me they have what im looking for and i have what they are looking for

Jupxter:



About intelligence, it's more or less the same thing that was expressed above, one can be intelligent and not be wise. Did you read where Paul says Knowledge puffs up? Beauty is skin deep, Intelligent is bae, but intelligence with humility, wisdom and good character is priceless, find a woman with such qualities embrace her, find a man, keep him close

Thank you so so much for shooting at target. Yes HUMILITY like the oceans, even though their vastness have to humble themselves for rivers to flow into them. "Intelligence with humility, wisdom and good character character is priceless, find a woman with such qualites embrace her, find a man, keep him close" Thank you so much and which reminds me of this by one of my mentors "The central task of education is to implant a will and facility for learning, it should produce NOT LEARNED but LEARNING people. The TRULY human society is a learning society, where grand parents, parents and children are students together. IN A TIME OF DRASTIC CHANGE IT IS THE LEARNERS WHO INHERIT THE FUTURE. The learned (stiff necked) usually find themselves to live in a world that no longer exist". Eric Hoffer.

ubunja:
remind me again DOES THE VAGINA OF AN INTELLIGENT WOMAN TASTE SWEETER THAN THE VAGINA OF A DUMB WOMAN?

My dear brother, you honestly do not comprehend the message on this thread right from the word go.

WORDWORLD:


Thank you so so much for shooting at target. Yes HUMILITY like the oceans, even though their vastness have to humble themselves for rivers to flow into them. "Intelligence with humility, wisdom and good character character is priceless, find a woman with such qualites embrace her, find a man, keep him close" Thank you so much and which reminds me of this by one of my mentors "The central task of education is to implant a will and facility for learning, it should produce NOT LEARNED but LEARNING people. The TRULY human society is a learning society, where grand parents, parents and children are students together. IN A TIME OF DRASTIC CHANGE IT IS THE LEARNERS WHO INHERIT THE FUTURE. The learned (stiff necked) usually find themselves to live in a world that no longer exist". Eric Hoffer.

You reminded me what i told a lady yesterday offline, readers are rulers, learners are great rulers. Intelligence without character is chaotic, intelligence needs control, that control button is humility.

WORDWORLD:


My dear brother, you honestly do not comprehend the message in this thread right from the word go.

mother nature created beauty for a reason.
dont act holier than thou and pretend to be God who seeks what lies deeper.
if we all marry the intelligent ones who will comfort the dumb ones?
i volunteer

ubunja:

mother nature created beauty for a reason.
dont act holier than thou and pretend to be God who seeks what lies deeper.
if we all marry the intelligent ones who will comfort the dumb ones?
i volunteer

As if to be intelligent means automatically to be 'UGLY'. Beauty is but a relativity. And as to your question if we all marry the intelligent ones who will comfort the dumb ones? You already have told us the the "RICH MEN" do all the comforting.

WORDWORLD:


As if to be intelligent means automatically to be 'UGLY'. Beauty is but a relativity. And as to your question if we all marry the intelligent ones who will comfort the dumb ones? You already have told us the the "RICH MEN" do all the comforting.

well u mentioned Beauty Pageant then mentioned Stupid so obvious u are allergic to hot dumb gals. some of us love them.
but the question is :WHY ARE WE TAKING DATING ADVICE FROM A WOMAN
what does a woman know about dating a woman?
thats like taking Fishing Lessons from a Fish
u are better off asking the Fisherman NOT the fish