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Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by oluwarantimi(f): 7:25am On Nov 21, 2017 |
This one is not small wedding, it is not a wedding sef. It is exchange of vows. There is nothing wrong in it. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 7:41am On Nov 21, 2017 |
cochtrane: Bro, I'm a realist and let's be real. If someone is coming to marry your sister and can't afford to do things the way it should be, and all he can give you guys is doughnuts and zobo, wouldn't you be worried? I'm not saying his fortunes cannot change later in life but the truth is that, I'd be very very disturbed. Nigeria of today is hard and we are all struggling. The last thing anybody wants, is to allow his/her child or sibling to suffer. I'd rather want them to wait till things pick up, rather than stress themselves... Anytime I'm broke and cash strapped, I know how depressing I get when I can't meet up needs at that moment. Not to talk of people who are married. |
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Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by Nobody: 7:49am On Nov 21, 2017 |
I think I should lean from that |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:50am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique: It doesn't have to be poverty. The way I plan to do mine is to have a good enough trad, then go for church blessings. No cliché "white wedding." Different strokes for different folks. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by Donald7610: 7:57am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique:Mr. too know Did I give the reason |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 7:57am On Nov 21, 2017 |
idu1: No. I'm not saying people who have low key weddings are broke. I have noticed that a lot of guys are gradually trying to set the standard for judging a good wife material, by the level of poverty and struggle they can take with a man. But that is absolutely not correct cos people have been raised with different standards and it isn't very easy to cope. It would be unfair to every lady out there, to judge her loyalty and virtue by the level of financial struggle she can take. I have been in a position where an ex politely told me she couldn't marry someone who isn't financially ok cos she's not sure she can cope with struggling as she would get depressed. I understood her very well cos I'd known her for a lot of years and her dad was well to do. Of course, my own dad was doing well then. But at the time we had this discussion, I didn't have a job or business that could provide steady income. All I had was my dreams and of course, she couldn't wait. I reasoned well with her and today, we are still good friends despite the fact that she is married. As a matter of fact, I'm currently chatting with her. People who do low key weddings, do what is supposed to be done in a small way without noise. What we have in this picture up there, isn't a low key wedding. They basically took the risk of getting married like that despite not having. Like I said, I admire their courage but nobody should use it as a standard to judge good women. If a lady refuses such from her fiance, he shouldn't take it that it means she isn't a good wife material. 1 Like |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by samsam2019: 8:04am On Nov 21, 2017 |
ArmadillopgpA:at the end of the day Iran awon eke l'oju ma ti |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 8:05am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Donald7610: Sorry. 1 Like |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 8:06am On Nov 21, 2017 |
PrimadonnaO: That's fair enough. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 8:18am On Nov 21, 2017 |
yhemster: Well, I haven't been married and as such, I can't argue with you. But personally, I'd love something that I can always look back to, smile about it, and be happy about it. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by victory36(m): 8:35am On Nov 21, 2017 |
but why marry when you are not financially capable/bouyant |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by bfmconcepts: 8:36am On Nov 21, 2017 |
I love and envy their courage. I appreciate their sincerity. They saw the reality and they are not living a fake life They did not put themselves in debt because of a day wedding and use first 3 years of marriage to pay debt God bless your union in Jesus Name. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by donBaba01: 8:36am On Nov 21, 2017 |
fake news, this is just a pics from a drama rehearsal, how wedding program go be like this? we aren't all mumu nah. guys wise up pls. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by cochtrane(m): 8:38am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique:If someone wants your sister's hand in marriage, examine the person's head and heart, not his pocket. 1 Like |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by olabrad: 8:42am On Nov 21, 2017 |
FlySly05: Only a blind person will call marriage a contract. Marriage is not a contract. It is a covenant |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by martineverest(m): 8:45am On Nov 21, 2017 |
nairamaniac:ur comment does not sound like sarcasm especially the Musa example u gave |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by martineverest(m): 8:53am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique:don't mind those low mentality Nigerians.... Agbani dare got married to a man from one of the richest families in Nigeria, nobody knew... She only invited 35 ppl |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 9:04am On Nov 21, 2017 |
cochtrane: It's a total package. You don't leave one out for the other. There is the level of "I don't have much" that everyone can take. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by chronique(m): 9:05am On Nov 21, 2017 |
martineverest: Exactly. That is a true example of low key. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by godofuck231: 9:05am On Nov 21, 2017 |
livingg: Now that's a serious couple who know what life is, they will build, not like tonto and her squad of home breakers, and as for the man he should never forget the sacrifice she made for him, he should make it up to her when things look up and life is better |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by martineverest(m): 9:09am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique:most Nigerians belive low key wedding is poverty /greed |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by Nobody: 9:11am On Nov 21, 2017 |
NICE ONE SHA
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Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 21, 2017 |
There is option for blessing of marriage, it used to be common when I was alot younger, I don't see why this is strange to some people |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by nairamaniac: 9:16am On Nov 21, 2017 |
martineverest: Mumuni? U mean? Well moral to my story is that even the low budget weddings do not guarantee long happy marriage. Your man gave example with tai solarin and I gave mine with iya basira and papa mumuni. Truth I'd reason why most of you men are scared of having fun-filled days that may turnout to become elaborate/extravagant is because you are scared of expectations that may follow it. Scared of having elaborate weddings cause your wife would expect same standard of living for the rest of ur lives after the wedding. Scared of buying her expensive gift (occasionally/when due) cause it may spoil her like a kid. Do you now see that the psychological problem Is in man's head. To me, nothing stops a man from reverting to his own average life with his wife&,family after such a loud occasion. If her family & friends puts pressure on your wife to maintain the safe lifestyle as the wedding portrayed, AND THEY SUCCEED, then you the man should be blamed. Guys, marriage is like a dance. Go with the flow. Don't go into it expecting/planning to maintain one particular standard/living. Be a man and be the DJ all thru. Be in charge of your wife. Make her love you enough to agree with you even if it doesn't favour her. A wise man would see all the signs in a loyal-woman before getting married to her. A wise man would know the one he could take to the best place in the world and give her garri to soak, but she would still stay happy & faithful. Why? Because she loves him, she trust him. He's her friend and her king. He is the only captain on her ship. Cause end of the day, its you, your wife and children. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by Arielle: 9:23am On Nov 21, 2017 |
emeijeh:Who is the 'all' that know the answer? Ask yourself, will the average Nigerian man agree to do this kind of wedding? Or will he be worried and ashamed that his colleagues, friends, family, in-laws and enemies sef, will think he is 'poor, cheap, never-make-am' and all that crap? I am sick of the way you guys especially in Nairaland keep dumping on Nigerian women when you're no better. Humans can never be a homogenous group, because we have different characters, habits, likes and dislikes and all other things that help to shape us into the people we become. If you guys really detest Nigerian girls, that's your call. You have a right to your choice. Look for a foreigner and marry since y'all are perfect, foreign women are perfect and we are beneath you. But the next time any foreigner calls all Nigerian men violent, scammers, thieves, promiscuous, irresponsible, liars and bad marriage material, like they have recently been doing (a lot), please don't expect your countrywomen to support you since we're so bad! ("hoes ain't loyal, right"?) Ok rant over. Thanks for listening. 1 Like |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by yanabasee(m): 9:30am On Nov 21, 2017 |
[quote author=Gluhbirne post=62546671]I'm all for simple weddings, but I know everyone's different sha.[/quoted] You know.... bankyw and his wife said the same right? but ended up doing the opposite!!! |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by yanabasee(m): 9:33am On Nov 21, 2017 |
ImaIma1: This is it.... you ladies always will end up pushing ur men to make it BIG!!! |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by yanabasee(m): 9:41am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique: What's suffering? We have classes... and many people find it easy surviving within their class...Many people have it all but are still suffering..emotionally or mentally... Somewhere in Delta state, there is a family that have nothing except farming for people but send their kids to school and feed's three times a day!! If your siblings end up with a man who plans his life very well...she'll enjoy him... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by Imunose(f): 9:50am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Wedding don't happen every day. After d wedding ceremony, every other year becomes anniversary. So do wat makes u happy forever. Personally I would love a nice wedding dress because I will only get to wear it once But I admire their courage. |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by anonimi: 10:24am On Nov 21, 2017 |
chronique: We are struggling because we overreaching ourselves with unnecessary flexing to impress neighbours who are just as nonetity as we are compared to those who MAKE the things we flex with. We are our own worst enemies. www.nairaland.com/attachments/4207170_fbimg1469018943096_jpeg2e87af2b28b00dc62a4dbf71ba6f4cf7 www.nairaland.com/attachments/4160987_image_jpeg_jpeg6f95b5e7a24ad4fc0808d6698fd37362 1 Like |
Re: Couple Wed: No Wedding Gown, No Cake, Rice, Wine, Chicken, Soft Drinks (Photo) by anonimi: 10:26am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Gluhbirne: Hmmmm, Banky W and Adesuwa said similar things oh but....... 1 Like |
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