If I was told seventeen years ago that I will be in this dilemma, I will surely place a bet that it can't be simply because as a boy of fifteen years old, I already knew to whom my heart and love belonged to. It was a relationship I nursed, pampered and oiled for over fourteen years.
Alas! She broke my heart, got married about two years ago, had a beautiful daughter for her husband and separated from the guy all within a timeframe of 24months. I, on the other hand have a woman I don't really think I m love with(in comparison with my love for my ex) who I believe is now pregnant for me though we are not married yet but she stays under my roof.
Though, going back to my ex is out of the equation, I m torn between marrying my present woman because I don't want my child to grow up with such emotional stigma of not having his/her parent living together as one and looking elsewhere for the love and partner I crave for.
There is a lot of twists and many other variables(dependent and independent) to the story which I can't type due to time. My dear nairalanders, help me find a way out of this with ideas and advice. Please, ejoo, biko.

Marry your babymama, don't make that child a bastard.

like the popular saying " don't fall in love but grow in love" tryna find her her strength, where her beauty lies and start loving her for these.... You are a winner!

acme6:
Marry your babymama, don't make tihat child a bastard.

One of the twist to the story is that there is a possibility of me not being responsible for the pregnancy

HORLADY:
One of the twist to the story is that there is a possibility of me not being responsible for the pregnancy

Then wait till she delivers then you do a DNA test.