There is this beautiful lady one of my siblings sent her pic to me. I and her sister have also discussed about her too, and I have started chatting with her. She looks beautiful for marriage, and may be a good wife, but this where one of the problems is.
Her same sister is married, but has tried seducing me at different points before. She told me verbally to do certain sexual stuffs with her, but I declined.
Now please reason with me. Assuming I marry this beautiful lady, what is my fate in the marriage if probably her sister seduces me continuously. What if the sister visits and stays in the house for weeks, and does seductions. Again, I don't know if this beautiful lady will have same attitude as the sister..

Should I forget about them? As me entering into such family may not be safe.
This is a real life stuff, and not a tale.
Kindly advise..

If her character is not questionable in that direction, go ahead. If she has even small of those traits, guy LET HER GO.

It runs in their blood flee for your life...

As the guy said above, run o runnnnn for your life my brother so you won't come here crying after

It's best you forget about that family cause she may ruin your marriage since you did not heed to her seduction by twisting her sister's mind that you were trying to seduce her.

Ever8090:
It runs in their blood flee for your life...

You can not lay the sin of one on another. So, whst if this man is supposed to be the husband of the younger sister? She should loose her own matrimonial home because of the sins of her sister? God don punish you kill you because of the sin of your papa? I don't know how some of you nairaland men reason or is it nairaland is littered with underage boys?

ikeno:
It's best you forget about that family cause she may ruin your marriage since you did not heed to her seduction by twisting her sister's mind that you were trying to seduce her.

Nobody can ruin anybody's marriage except both parties involved regardless of outside interference.

pradoyeep:
There is this beautiful lady one of my siblings sent her pic to me. I and her sister have also discussed about her too, and I have started chatting with her. She looks beautiful for marriage, and may be a good wife, but this where one of the problems is.
Her same sister is married, but has tried seducing me at different points before. I mean, a married lady telling me she wants to suck my "private part". She wanted me to touch her breast at a time. I didn't. Me and the ladies reside in one of the South-West state.
Now please reason with me. Assuming I marry this beautiful lady, what is my fate in the marriage if probably her sister seduces me continuously. What if the sister visits and stays in the house for weeks, and does seductions. Again, I don't know if this beautiful lady will have same attitude as the sister..

Should I forget about them? As me entering into such family may not be safe.
This is a real life stuff, and not a tale.
Kindly advise..

Go ahead and marry who you want to marry if she is a good woman. When next that shameless old hag come at you, have solid proof. Tell her sister with it then you and your espoused should warn her if she continues with that nonsense near you, you'd taje it to her husband. May your future wife guide her affairs concerning her with wisdom.

If she is good, marry her, it will be unfair to judge her with her sister's standard. Beside, maybe, once u accept to marry, her sister will stay clear knowing u are now involved with her sister.

Let me book space. I know the SW part is to invite insults since it is irrelevant to the story.

I am here to give free hometraining.

maybe it's a trial to taste your faithfulness, but if you don't like it, allow the married sister to suck you before quitting the shuitt marriage/proposal

KingOfAllIgbos:
Let me book space. I know the SW part is to invite insults since it is irrelevant to the story.

I am here to give free hometraining.

I have removed the SW part. It is not invite insult.

Jazmine10:
You can not lay the sin of one on another. So, whst if this man is supposed to be the husband of the younger sister? She should loose her own matrimonial home because of the sins of her sister? God don punish you kill you because of the sin of your papa? I don't know how some of you nairaland men reason or is it nairaland is littered with underage boys?

this is why I see Christians who say Jesus died for their sins as deluded... even when Jesus himself didn't say he came to die for any sins... every man for himself...

Reminderz:



this is why I see Christians who say Jesus died for their sins as deluded... even when Jesus himself didn't say he came to die for any sins... every man for himself...

Bro, the concept about the Messiah you are yet to understand... Christians are not deluded. Your eyes are still blinded.
Go look up John 10:10 seat on it. May Grace locate you.

A married woman for that matter? Na wa

What tribe is Ur wife to be from?

Is she Igbo?

Some Igbo gals act that way .

Only Southwest gals are perfect..

SHiNJA4RMDWEST:
What tribe is Ur wife to be from?

Is she Igbo?

Some Igbo gals act that way .

Only Southwest gals are perfect..

Leave tribe ooh

Forget about this lady and look for someone else

So you are judging her by her sisters character? Wow 😳

I don't think you are matured and ready for marriage. It's better you leave her be and find someone else. Since you have patterned her ways you will always be cynical towards whatever she does and this will reduce her mentally. Pls leave her for her sanity's sake

It is well

pradoyeep:

Should I forget about them?

the seductress will turn the story against you and even tell her sister that you have tried to rape her twice. She will NEVER stop fighting you physically, emotionally & mentally.

Don't just close the chapter, burn the book.

pradoyeep:
There is this beautiful lady one of my siblings sent her pic to me. I and her sister have also discussed about her too, and I have started chatting with her. She looks beautiful for marriage, and may be a good wife, but this where one of the problems is.
Her same sister is married, but has tried seducing me at different points before. She told me verbally to do certain sexual stuffs with her, but I declined.
Now please reason with me. Assuming I marry this beautiful lady, what is my fate in the marriage if probably her sister seduces me continuously. What if the sister visits and stays in the house for weeks, and does seductions. Again, I don't know if this beautiful lady will have same attitude as the sister..

Should I forget about them? As me entering into such family may not be safe.
This is a real life stuff, and not a tale.
Kindly advise..

The issue here now is about your self discipline

Let her flaunt her self on you as much as she wants

Just maintain your stand

Where you can no longer help
You bleep her as thats the only way out

If she is married then she should hold herself and respect her marriage

frozen70:


The issue here now is about your self discipline

Let her flaunt her self on you as much as she wants

Just maintain your stand

Where you can no longer help
You bleep her as thats the only way out

If she is married then she should hold herself and respect her marriage

This your advice

Ever8090:
It runs in their blood flee for your life...

You sure? You may be wrong.

Marry one, get one free.

The lady is beautiful sha