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Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by HARDLABOR: 10:56pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
The gel am dating, her parents doesn't like me buh she really loves me |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Moji12(f): 11:04pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Sage7:sir they are always 80-85% right most times n that by me is a pass mark. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by sweetcocoa(f): 11:10pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
I don't think a parent has the right to say "no" and put a stamp on it. Just for the record. |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by dabrake(m): 11:13pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
I am dating a Yoruba lady and I'm from the down south but I do not want a case where she will stand against our union so few weeks into the relationship, I told my mum I wasn't interested in God and Christianity anymore. Then I deliberately changed for the worse in all attitudes. My mum was concerned and troubled. (She wasn't aware of the relationship) Then I changed after a while and I told her I met this lady and she was the one who lead me to Christ and I am trying to live right. My mum approved of her straight. 13 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by marooh: 11:25pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
This ;Dis matures thread! So? |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by cyborg123(m): 11:29pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
dabrake: 419. 10 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Bollinger(m): 11:39pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Moji12: Lol. No one can live your life you. You make mistakes, you learn from it, you move on. If you have to wait for someone to tell you what to do, girl, you are not living. 6 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by DJEhimond(m): 12:01am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Good write deturla |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Nobody: 12:04am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Divay22:Take an unannounced vacation with Le boo for some weeks without telling anyone. Their brain will reset to default setting its all part of subtle tbreats. |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 19, 2017 |
dabrake:Scammer Aye. This your plan ehn.... 1 Like
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Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by MChaze25(m): 12:14am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Making such sacrifice by ignoring parental advice for a Nigerian lady/guy is risky expect if he/she not the stubborn type or doesn't sulk!!! The day he/she will start quarrel with you, they will say stupid things that will make you regret ever making that sacrifice. Its like helping a poor person and tomorrow he/she says you re too poor for his/her likeing.. #Nonsense & ingredients 3 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Nobody: 12:25am On Dec 19, 2017 |
You don’t have to be best friends with your in laws but it pays to have a respectful cordial relationship for your children’s sake. Keep your sentiments with your spouse but also be thoughtful and just understand time on earth is limited make it meaningful Love is a risk on its own a risk not everyone takes with honesty and sometimes fear ruins the building process. The marriages that last are those who took that risk together the ones who build each other and respect family ties and the hierarchy of communication No matter how angry you get or your parents get just understand love will out live prejudice anyday love made a president who kept slaves begin the path to freedom for all slaves. Love brings people together in wisdom for the progress of the family and the world. 8 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by tomdon(m): 1:43am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Which kind of half brain parents reject their child's choice as if they will provide another ready made spouse. When the lady becomes grand mother there eye go open |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by femi4: 5:28am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Divay22:Most cases, its the mother. You ll hear something like "Femi, my spirit does not flow pelu girl to mu wa le yen" 5 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by dingbang(m): 5:46am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Kentrasso:yes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Rajosh(m): 6:03am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Number 2 is very childish. Run away now. When hunger beat you you'll come back. |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Sike(m): 6:23am On Dec 19, 2017 |
My Marriage. My Blessing |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by AyoolaIgwe(m): 6:50am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Divay22:well said...I taya for controlling parents. Parents must learn to allow their children (now adults) to be self-governing. Even God who created ALL things have allowed us 'freewill'. I'm out of here. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by CarterKim(m): 7:17am On Dec 19, 2017 |
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Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Moji12(f): 7:33am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Bollinger: Did u jus miss the part that I mentioned "parental advice" ofcos no one can live my life for me but I will always give room too their advice that is why they are there to guide in the first place. In ur context I realized u would rather make a mistake than avoiding it. As for making mistakes n learning from it, shows u go with the saying experience is the best teacher. But I would rather by example is the best teacher. Let me give an example using animals. sheep move in flock so if the leader falls in a pit others must follow suit cos they want to experience it instead of learning from their leader's mistake. If parents advice against something, it means they have their genuine reasons and our interests at heart not because they want to see us miserable becos most of the time we r blind by emotions so we would need someone with rational thought n not irrational. Anyways sir that is my opinion u must not buy it. |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by princeloba: 7:37am On Dec 19, 2017 |
acceptance or rejection of marriage proposal is of two ways, this is very common to female parent. some mother want their daughter to get married to a guy which they can have control over. so that they can gain more access over their daughter marital affair. secondly they may look at the spiritual implications of the relationship. most of these marriage proposal rejection always come from mother few from father |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Veraatabeh(f): 7:50am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Politicowizard(m): 7:56am On Dec 19, 2017 |
First tell them that you are not sure if you will at all get married. Try and show it in character. After some times, then surface with your Bae telling them that this is the only woman that made you to change your stance on your earlier decision. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Dejiy10(m): 8:46am On Dec 19, 2017 |
An interesting topic. Ultimately it is your life, and your happiness in the cross hairs. If because of respect for parents, you leave the one who makes you happy and end up having a terrible married life, you are to blame. Yet, is anything worth becoming estranged from your parents who practically made you? such a conundrum, we have to find the balance. for me now, she's almost 2 years older than me. Yet to face the 'rents. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by joyndidi: 9:54am On Dec 19, 2017 |
dabrake:hmmmm Baddo......lolzzz 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Bollinger(m): 10:05am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Moji12: You said parents are 85% correct in whatever advice they give which is not true which is why i said what i said. Their advice is even worse when it comes to relationships because what they like will not be what you like. Well, like you said, it's you opinion. |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Opistorincos(m): 10:50am On Dec 19, 2017 |
Moji12: Moji, omo yoruba jo ni wa, some parents do that cos of their selfishness, my parents are telling me I must marry from my hometown, why? Cos that'll make me visit them at intervals, most homes in my home town ain't balanced and the balanced ones I can point to are intertribal marriages 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by layonke: 12:19pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
Lionbite: yes o |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by Kentrasso(f): 3:15pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
dingbang: you'll have to convince me otherwise cos anything can happen in future and if you cut your parents off the man can misbehave, and you have nowhere to go 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Your Parents To Accept Your Relationship by dingbang(m): 3:22pm On Dec 19, 2017 |
Kentrasso:sent a pm |
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