Same way looking is not a crime and nobody has died for that legally , is same way flirting is not a crime .

Do you know that flirting saves stress ?

By the way , flirting boosts self esteem , yes self esteem , and relationships reduces it . Before you come on me biko lemme explain .

Tell your self the truth , those of you that have been in a relationship for over six months , is it still flowing like it started ?

When you are with one person for too long you start feeling less important, and you start seeing him/her less wanted, you want to try new people .. There is always that point in time ... Even in marriage self , as it goes Down ,the initial hotness reduces.

Now that's self esteem low , you want to meet new people that will give you that initial attention again , and that's what a flirt enjoys , a flirt does not need to stay till that period of time you know , he or she gets that initial and special attention and zooms off to the next person before you start seeing him or her as a pest or treat them less wanted , and their self esteem are always boosting , because they don't give you chance to run it down !.

Ehn do you know that as a flirt your knowledge and standard stimulates ? Before you meet a new girl or try to be noticed by a new boy , you first of all try to step up to the person standard, learn new words from the dictionary , acquire more knowledge .

You try to learn what the person likes , the persons movie actresses and actors and all of that , reading about her likes and dislikes and end up knowing what you never knew ..

so check it out , you be a flirt the rest of your life time , you do be a genius before death ....fact !!!

Remember how you used to talk to your girlfriend and how you use to respond to your boyfriend before you guys started dating , yes its all gone now because everything you say now you feel its not needed , and that's how your communication skill is going down , but when you keep flirting you keep learning how to keep conversation going , keep learning how to coin words and end up with interesting jokes , and then your communication skills is getting close to best ! And you become more fun to be with and smart !

The more you flirt , the more confident in yourself you will be , flirting is nothing too serious , and its not cheating but i am never advising those in relationships to start flirting ooo relationship is sweet too !!!

@chiderachokolate