lefulefu:
he no play im game well that's why

Whitegrlinnaija:


Yes because I don't understand pidgin. I have confronted him. He completely denies that he has ever met any girl. That it is all about his friend. I know his friend too, we have met many times and I know him to be a player (i set him up with my friend a few years ago for her fun) but I just want to be sure of this before I end our relationship! no be small thing.

Emmytes:


Hahaha, no be lie.

But if the guy Na real g, nothing spoil. Na woman after everything. Just wash her head come use better knacking reset her Brain. Na we know how we dey run am.

Na we know as we dey run am

alexialin:
Op truth be told.
Your man may just be catching his fun. And he could probably be inlove with you and see a future with you.
Please don't throw what u have away due to such conversations between him and his friends.
He's idle nw, that's why he can afford to play around.
And I know u are dissapointed at him with the text messages u read. But seriously, don't breakup, think of how long it took you to eventually found someone who clicked with u.
90% of men cheat. And men are getting married every weekend. So what does that tell u? As long as you are not a white lady? Then perfect. Hes still coming back to u. Think about it wisely. Before saying what u will regret later on.

Emmytes:


Hahaha, no be lie.

But if the guy Na real g, nothing spoil. Na woman after everything. Just wash her head come use better knacking reset her Brain. Na we know how we dey run am.

lefulefu:
lol his friend is a playa and ur man told u he himself is no player but is faithful to u..hmmmm

Whitegrlinnaija:


K so he be cheating on me. Thank you for your consideration but I am out. I don't understand what you mean as long as I am not white woman. If I was it would be better or worse?

Whitegrlinnaija:


Sorry but I don't understand this?

Whitegrlinnaija:


Sorry but I don't understand this?

alexialin:





What he means is that, a man will always be a man and some men who are pro in cheating knows how to handle their women perfectly well, she won't even have a clue of what's going on. And she will still be there, Inlove and loyal.

Emmytes:


You just dey bust code anyhow.

Whitegrlinnaija:
But please don't mistake me, the money is not a problem. It is the dishonesty that I cannot live with. I believed I have met the love of my life and we lived together and shared beautiful times and to find this is heartbreaking.
"...heaven is a love without betrayal"

Emmytes:
The chances of finding a man who won't cheat on his woman is like finding a needle in a haystack.

I always laugh when woman say they want a man who won't cheat on them. Bitch, sit your ass down. Your man has not cheated on you yet cause he has not gotten an opportunity. He'll cheat on you the second the opportunity presents itself but that really does not mean he doesn't love you. We always have one woman who we'll love,cherish and run back to when the cards are down.

Men are polygamous in nature and very adventurous. We see women as a kind of conquest. It's engraved in our DNA, we can't help it. Heck, if jayz could cheat on Beyoncé then wtf are you?!?

Don't leave your man because he cheated on you because you might end up with another who will cheat and still beat you on top. I only advise women to leave an abusive relationship.

If your man respects you and performs all his duties then hold unto him tight. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

Whitegrlinnaija:
Okay so my boyfriend has travelled back to his home village in anambra state and pls don't judge but I see some messages with him and his friend about meeting some girls. Will anyone pls be kind to tell me exactly if I am correct, because they in pidgin and I don't want to overstep if I worry for no reason. Pls tell me if u can help me

Whitegrlinnaija:


Well thank you for the eye opener for your culture. Honesty, respect and faithfulness are all regular expectations of men where I live. I think any man who think they can take advantage of woman who works 50 hours, makes more than one thousand every time every week and supports them is more silly than anyone I know. ��

alexialin:
Op truth be told.
Your man may just be catching his fun. And he could probably be inlove with you and see a future with you.
Please don't throw what u have away due to such conversations between him and his friends.
He's idle nw, that's why he can afford to play around.
And I know u are dissapointed at him with the text messages u read. But seriously, don't breakup, think of how long it took you to eventually found someone who clicked with u.
90% of men cheat. And men are getting married every weekend. So what does that tell u? As long as you are not a white lady? Then perfect. Hes still coming back to u. Think about it wisely. Before saying what u will regret later on.


Even lefulefu himself is even saying :

Even though lefulefu is a ladies man and appear straight and loyal. He can still run things with a woman he loves
And she will believe him, hook line and sinker.

It's unfortunate your guy is not professional and smart enough to cover his tracks lol.

Chill jare.. Don't disturb your mind. Continue with your plans with him and let him. Know u hate and despise cheating. That's all.

Whitegrlinnaija:


K so he be cheating on me. Thank you for your consideration but I am out. I don't understand what you mean as long as I am not white woman. If I was it would be better or worse?

lefulefu:
haba biko i didn't mean it dat way.frm the way op sounds it looks as if the man is in a very serious relationship with her that might lead to marriage.if na dat type of relationship its not cool if he cheats oo. Except na casual relationship sha then he's free to do wat he wants to do.what i see here is that the guy is just playing her.she should investigate further and if found wanting kick his ass off her home .hope i am not spoiling a guy's racket sha.

Whitegrlinnaija:


Well thank you for the eye opener for your culture. Honesty, respect and faithfulness are all regular expectations of men where I live. I think any man who think they can take advantage of woman who works 50 hours, makes more than one thousand every time every week and supports them is more silly than anyone I know. ��

Ejaculate:
I Just don't have idea of whatever you've invested in that relationship. But I strongly advice you walk away as fast as you still can let go! Dont waste anymore time with him. No talk say dem no warn before sand enter garri cuz most anambara men no dey marry outsider so na your kpekus and green card tins him dey find.

Whitegrlinnaija:


Well thank you for the eye opener for your culture. Honesty, respect and faithfulness are all regular expectations of men where I live. I think any man who think they can take advantage of woman who works 50 hours, makes more than one thousand every time every week and supports them is more silly than anyone I know. ��

alexialin:
Op truth be told.
Your man may just be catching his fun. And he could probably be inlove with you and see a future with you.
Please don't throw what u have away due to such conversations between him and his friends.
He's idle nw, that's why he can afford to play around.
And I know u are dissapointed at him with the text messages u read. But seriously, don't breakup, think of how long it took you to eventually found someone who clicked with u.
90% of men cheat. And men are getting married every weekend. So what does that tell u? As long as you are not a white lady? Then perfect. Hes still coming back to u. Think about it wisely. Before saying what u will regret later on.


Even lefulefu himself is even saying :

Even though lefulefu is a ladies man and appear straight and loyal. He can still run things with a woman he loves
And she will believe him, hook line and sinker.

It's unfortunate your guy is not professional and smart enough to cover his tracks lol.

Chill jare.. Don't disturb your mind. Continue with your plans with him and let him. Know u hate and despise cheating. That's all.

Whitegrlinnaija:


K so he be cheating on me. Thank you for your consideration but I am out. I don't understand what you mean as long as I am not white woman. If I was it would be better or worse?

Martin0:

Op remember this.

Besides, if you do find some dirt, you'll
still have to disclose how you found it.

Also, unless you discover a sexy picture or
a "looking forward to another lunchtime
quickie" note that is undeniable proof of
wrongdoing, there's a high likelihood
you're going to misinterpret a conversation
and read more into it than it really was. If
you confront him over a comment such as
"thanks for last night," and it turns out his
friend was thanking him for helping her
reconcile with her boyfriend, you just lost
his trust forever. Not to mention, you now
look like an ass. A soon-to-be-single-ass at
that.

Please am not protecting any male rather am been more direct..

Shaybebaby I hope you will also understand what ve just typed..

Anymore question coz I also wanna learn ..

Emmytes:
The chances of finding a man who won't cheat on his woman is like finding a needle in a haystack.

I always laugh when woman say they want a man who won't cheat on them. Bitch, sit your ass down. Your man has not cheated on you yet cause he has not gotten an opportunity. He'll cheat on you the second the opportunity presents itself but that really does not mean he doesn't love you. We always have one woman who we'll love,cherish and run back to when the cards are down.

Men are polygamous in nature and very adventurous. We see women as a kind of conquest. It's engraved in our DNA, we can't help it. Heck, if jayz could cheat on Beyoncé then wtf are you?!?

Don't leave your man because he cheated on you because you might end up with another who will cheat and still beat you on top. I only advise women to leave an abusive relationship.

If your man respects you and performs all his duties then hold unto him tight. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.