I have A Friend Who Wants To Get Married Soon But the Lady Is Not A Good Cook... This Lady Is Very Beautiful but His Family is Pressurin Him and Saying He Shouldnt Marry A Woman Who Cant Cook... His Mother Said "God Forbid She Supports His Marriage To The Girl"... She Says Girls Like That Are Spoilt And Bad As wife...


I Have Told Him, as Long As They Love Each Other Then He Should marry Her... I Personally Dont Care If My Woman Can Cook Or Not, the Love And Happiness She Gives Me Is Most Important...

Is Cooking Skill Of Major Importance To You?

Let her go and learn

Well it might really not be much of an importance if na d man dey cook for the house.i know some married men wey na dem dey cook for the house.but for me sha i love ladies who cook.

if i am a man it is important

if she cant cook whats the point of marriage?? sex? then a prostitute is a better cheaper deal.

Yes and No

lefulefu:
Well it might really not be much of an importance if na d man dey cook for the house.i know some married men wey na dem dey cook for the house.but for me sha i love ladies who cook.

Since I don't no how to cook that means you'll be the one to do all the cooking

you guys should eat out everyday at the finest eatery in town
in six months time you'll know what's up.

you guys should eat out everyday at the finest eatery in town
in six months time you'll know what's up.

It's important. If you can cook, try to teach her. She will learn faster that way.

biacan:
Since I don't no how to cook that means you'll be the one to do all the cooking

i never see igbo babe wey no sabi cook b4.its like dem born una with dat skill...so don't lie.

fellowman:
you guys should eat out everyday at the finest eatery in town

in six months time you'll know what's up.

majority of these eateries and especially the fast food ones no dey give fresh food and besides eating out all the time dey kill money.many of dem go give last night left overs to chop.na God go save person.

lefulefu:
i never see igbo babe wey no sabi cook b4.its like dem born una with dat skill...so don't lie.

Hahahahahah so u know her abi

No

biacan:
Since I don't no how to cook that means you'll be the one to do all the cooking

So u cannot cook abi?
Na wa for u ooo
Anyway lefulefu go teach u sha

Safiaa:
Yes and No

lefulefu:
i never see igbo babe wey no sabi cook b4.its like dem born una with dat skill...so don't lie.

Hahahahahh

The way to a Naija Man's heart is through Belly.

Martin0:

So u cannot cook abi? Na wa for u ooo Anyway lefulefu go teach u sha

what about you........?

sexybbstar:
It's important. If you can cook, try to teach her. She will learn faster that way.

actually the guy can cook

lefulefu:
Well it might really not be much of an importance if na d man dey cook for the house.i know some married men wey na dem dey cook for the house.but for me sha i love ladies who cook.

. You re just been diplomatic here. That a woman cannot cook is a big shame to her.A lot of meanings can be read into it like,lack of home training, laziness,wayward lifestyle etc.People think that when one get married,its only she,husband Nd kids. We keep forgetting that African culture has to do with our extended families. Just imagine the embarrassment as a woman u travelled to the village with ur husband nd you cannot cook a good meal for his family members to enjoy.Ladies,truth be told,knowing how to cook is one of the qualities. Believe it or not.

DeadRat:
actually the guy can cook

. Not an excuse for her not to know how to Cook. If they ve visitors nko,Nd the husband is not around? So she will ve to wait for him to come from where ever he is to cook abi? Cooking is of a major importance.

Yes. Can't marry a guy that can't cook.

JONNYSPUTE:
. You re just been diplomatic here. That a woman cannot cook is a big shame to her.A lot of meanings can be read into it like,lack of home training, laziness,wayward lifestyle etc.People think that when one get married,its only she,husband Nd kids. We keep forgetting that African culture has to do with our extended families. Just imagine the embarrassment as a woman u travelled to the village with ur husband nd you cannot cook a good meal for his family members to enjoy.Ladies,truth be told,knowing how to cook is one of the qualities. Believe it or not.

the reason i was being diplomatic is because i don't want any uneccessary argument with any feminazi here.of course its an added quality if a lady can cook but bros many ladies these days don't know how to cook.even some dislike handling any kitchen utensils cos they believe it would spoil their painted nails.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Not an excuse for her not to know how to Cook. If they ve visitors nko,Nd the husband is not around? So she will ve to wait for him to come from where ever he is to cook abi? Cooking is of a major importance.

bro where i stay right now there is this pastor that is my neighbour who is married to a lady who don't cook.na the guy dey cook,dey wash clothes.on saturdays in the mornings he will call his two kids and together they will be washing their clothes. A soft spoken man..he's a nice guy.so sometimes there are men who can tolerate a wife who can't cook as long as she has other good qualities.but as for me sha na women wey dey cook i dey like. Feminazis and man haters na turn off.

lefulefu:
the reason i was being diplomatic is because i don't want any uneccessary argument with any feminazi here.of course its an added quality if a lady can cook but bros many ladies these days don't know how to cook.even some dislike handling any kitchen utensils cos they believe it would spoil their painted nails.

. Lol. You don't want them to jomp on you? Hahahahah.

biacan:
Hahahahahh

JONNYSPUTE:
. Lol. You don't want them to jomp on you? Hahahahah.

exactly!

lefulefu:
bro where i stay right now there is this pastor that is my neighbour who is married to a lady who don't cook.na the guy dey cook,dey wash clothes.on saturdays in the mornings he will call his two kids and together they will be washing their clothes. A soft spoken man..he's a nice guy.so sometimes there are men who can tolerate a wife who can't cook as long as she has other good qualities.but as for me sha na women wey dey cook i dey like. Feminazis and man haters na turn off.

. I get u.

lefulefu:
bro where i stay right now there is this pastor that is my neighbour who is married to a lady who don't cook.na the guy dey cook,dey wash clothes.on saturdays in the mornings he will call his two kids and together they will be washing their clothes. A soft spoken man..he's a nice guy.so sometimes there are men who can tolerate a wife who can't cook as long as she has other good qualities.but as for me sha na women wey dey cook i dey like. Feminazis and man haters na turn off.

. You re right on this. But if the problem is only about her immediate family,ie she,husband Nd kids,then its OK but what if they travelled let's say Christmas, with lots of other family members around,will the husband still do the cooking? Even if her husband enjoy doing the cooking,she must know how to cook also.But for any woman to say that cooking is not of a major importance in her marriage is just been economical with the truth.

JONNYSPUTE:
. You re right on this. But if the problem is only about her immediate family,ie she,husband Nd kids,then its OK but what if they travelled let's say Christmas, with lots of other family members around,will the husband still do the cooking? Even if her husband enjoy doing the cooking,she must know how to cook also.But for any woman to say that cooking is not of a major importance in her marriage is just deceiving herself.

i doubt if she can cook.she looks like one of these ajubutter babes from a rich family.

biacan:
what about you........?

Na wa oo You asking me..
I can cook