thatsincerechic:
Its rampant o
I know somebody that is married and the child she is pregnant with is not for her husband.
She was with another man and took in , then this her husband came from abroad and married her, although they were dating online o.
When she took in for her ex, she came to me for an advice on what to do , because the abroad guy just proposed and he was coming over to Nigeria to do the traditional marriage and court wedding, while the ex was just a Playboy. According to her she wanted financial security .
I couldn't tell her to abort the pregnancy,that's murder and i couldn't force her to reject the proposal of "Mr Abroad" before they tag me "world people " or enemy of progress.
I simply told her to do the right thing and she left my house that day looking more confused.
A month later the abroad guy came down and they got married then he traveled back to his base after a couple of months.
Recently I saw her with a protruding stomach but I couldn't ask, I just didn't want to be a part of it. Wondered why she told me about the pregnancy in the first place.
Now the abroad guy thinks he has a baby on the way, Mr ex doesn't know he does or maybe he knew who knows?
It's well !
My people this is quite common oo

. Mebo mebo.mind your own business.abroad man complained to you?

I really think men should conduct DNA test on their first born cos most women are in the habit of having goodbye sex with their ex before marriage. Sometimes they get pregnant and dump the pregnancy on their poor husbands who will be happy that they are sharp shooters to meet the nine months target . It is well sha

cry me a river.

cute child .. nice guy ....wrong father..

. May be she slept with both men few days apart ....and think the man that has been hammering her the longest has the child.

kimbraa:
He's an American and could've gotten this test done after the birth of the child without breaking a sweat but it took him 6yrs to suddenly realize he may not be the father of the child. Well, I sympathise with him 'cause some ladies have degrees in trapping men with babies that isn't theirs.

A lady who takes you to court for child support is clearly an opportunist and should've been thoroughly investigated.

you are blaming a man for trusting his wife. Smh. What a generation!

Thepasserby:
See the bootilicious babymama here http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/man-cries-out-after-dna-test-reveals-his-babymama-lied-to-him-for-6-years

Don't waste your MB,NOTHING bootilicious to see..#HISSS

pocohantas:
There should be some years of imprisonment for this level of deceit.

If a woman is confused about the owner of her pregnancy, she is a hoe. Her concern should be how to fix her life, not how to hook the pregnancy on an available man.

I concur.

They should pass a law against such.

As it same as 419, or impersonation or Obtaining marriage by false pretense.

Similarly, men should not be allowed to refuse paternity test, if the lady is damn sure.

And once confirmed, he must marry her and take responsibility for the woman and baby welfare.



Ladies get away with this sort of thing too easily and ruin a once happy man, but a sentence on this sort of thing will reduce promiscuity, improve self awareness and responsibility.

Additionally, all this Olobo Ole will desist from trapping innocent men with another man's pregnancy and all these players will learn to keep their dick in their pants or use a damn condom.

Nltaliban:
After God, Fear women


They can do and undo

Pix below says it all.

Jman06:
Trust aside, all my kids are getting a DNA test from birth. Samples would be taken immediately after delivery while my wife is still recuperating. I will pay specially for the handlers to keep it a secret so that no one will feel like i don't trust her.
It is all for good. If the result is good, no one will be hurt, if it is bad, at least the truth will be known.

you are on the right track brother!!!

same thing happen to one of my friend , after 12yrs .

Suits men right. They feel they can cheat and go free. Karma is a bit.t.ch . I know a lot of married women that have children that don't belong to their husbands.

deco22:
This is the worst thing that can happen to a man in a marriage.

Bad shii out there bruv

Jman06:
Trust aside, all my kids are getting a DNA test from birth. Samples would be taken immediately after delivery while my wife is still recuperating. I will pay specially for the handlers to keep it a secret so that no one will feel like i don't trust her.
It is all for good. If the result is good, no one will be hurt, if it is bad, at least the truth will be known.

That's best way to get a DNA test done, it's not by broadcasting it or taking the child to the lab. Just cut off a few strands of hair or some saliva.

This is one of the worst thing you can do to another

Some women get mind o. She lied to him and to her own child. There is no apology for this kind of issue. The law needs to step in and criminalise this madness. Poor man! Poor child!

If na me I will keep the result to myself and kill the woman

Magnifico2000:

Karma is awaiing both of you. It is when you marry and your wife do the same then your ee will clear.

Leave am. He might get married and his wife would then be unable to conceive. That is when he would start running around looking for his -ex and the baby. I know someone who got married twice and couldn't have a child with either wife. After going to a church, he was told to repent and look for the ex-babe he abandoned with a pregnancy when he was in school. It took him 2 years to find the babe, o. And it took another 3 years for the girl to forgive him and allow him to see the child....

Guys don't be fooled make sure you do coded and timely DNA test for those kids of yours..so you dont train someone else kids because your wife chose the hoeing path.If and when you discover they aren't yours bundle her and her kids back to her father's house. What a shame!!

Martin0:



That lady needs to be sued for conspiracy and faking a pregnancy

Maybe she didn't know herself

Dimples129:

Maybe she didn't know herself

Infact she also need to be sued for infidelity..
She didn't know herself,I doubt that.. You know ladies know whatever they do .

pocohantas:
There should be some years of imprisonment for this level of deceit.

If a woman is confused about the owner of her pregnancy, she is a hoe. Her concern should be how to fix her life, not how to hook the pregnancy on an available man.

I sincerely do not think she is confused about the owner of the pregnancy, she was only trying to stay with the "man that will threat her well". Maybe the real owner is not well to do.

Honestly, in my own opinion, I think we guys just have to ignore DNA. Assume and believe you are the owner of the child since you nurtured the pregnancy, Did the child's rights, Trained the child. Loved him. It is better you ignore DNA and stay happy forever.

I will gladly take d boy as my son..... And move on


Nothing changes

Forget that report,

That pikin is your carbon copy...

Things fall Apart: One should never hurt a child that calls you 'father'.
So father must not necessarily means a biological father, so as long as he takes care of the boy and the boy calls him 'father', the boy remains his son. DNA or No DNA test the boy remains his son.

I just wonder how she was able not to feel guilty for this long.

abeg I need DNA to check if I'm bill gate pikin... because this my curling hair... I yam not understanding oooO

Thepasserby:
After six long years, this man came to discover that the child he had adored so much was never his. The heartbroken man then took to his Facebook wall to advice ladies to know who they are sleeping with.

As it is, the babymama only went to the court to lie about the baby's paternity since she needed some money for Child support

See the post below
http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/man-cries-out-after-dna-test-reveals-his-babymama-lied-to-him-for-6-years

What nonsense is this?
What is the meaning of(race : black)?
Wow BETIDE all this Caucasians albino pale BASTARDS

Magnifico2000:
Oya coman make baby for me.

*side eyes*

[quote author=josite post=63064022]. Mebo mebo.mind your own business.abroad man complained to you?[/quote is like your stupid?? did she say she told the "abroad" guy the truth?? evil thing !!

Woe-men. They are the woe of most men


O pari

Sad. But a father ain't a sperm donor.

You can still love that kid.

If you want. After all people adopt.



But kick that bitch out before u slit her throat.