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Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Lalas247(f): 8:06am On Dec 08, 2017 |
So what ? It’s not the end of the world .. people go through spells where the loose their jobs or made redundant .. The question is .... Why the fuvk is your wife not working ![]() ![]() This is the worse .. you stick with your choice and brace the storm ....tell her to go find a part time job and keep job hunting hard till you find something good .... |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 8:09am On Dec 08, 2017 |
You can't run errands for your family but you will gladly run errands for your boss at work... Well-done sir BTW, running errands got nothing to do with poverty. Some wealthy men go to the market, buy their wife and children stuffs. Poverty has a way of making normal things look abnormal. It is bad enough to be poor, don't allow the poverty affect your mentality. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Acidosis: This shi.it is too deep mehn, sadly I can only like once. This has kicked my philosophy mode in full gear. 5 Likes |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:17am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Lalas247: Mr why the f^ck, take am easy. Na my wahala, no be yours. My woman dey work, na level 10 for Lagos civil service. The iss is me not her. Thanks |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:20am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Acidosis: Abeg make una drop this errand tingy. There are other things you can tackle in my post. Imagine writing 100 words on top errand! He don do |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Lalas247(f): 8:20am On Dec 08, 2017 |
december7: O You for talk before ... Yes divorce her and free her ... she needs a man ! ![]() ![]() You do not deserve a woman like that, many even pray for such ... my guy u fall big time .... You should be applying for jobs or looking for something to do instead of coming here moaning at ur uselessness ( no offence ) 1 Like |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 8:25am On Dec 08, 2017 |
december7: Una dey live for Abuja but your woman dey work for Lagos state Civil Service, Abuja branch. Well-done sire!! |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Evacroft: Bro/sis, errand isn't a problem when there's money. It's romance! But these days, the way she go even call me self. For example, D, pls help tidy up the sitting while I ... D naturally means DEAR but that moment na DIDIRIN I dey hear o. DIDIRIN means stupid or so in Yoruba. To be serious, errand is not an issue! 1 Like |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Evacroft: Bro/sis, errand isn't a problem when there's money. It's romance! But these days, the way she go even call me self. For example, D, pls help tidy up the sitting room while I ... D naturally means DEAR but that moment na DIDIRIN I dey hear o. DIDIRIN means stupid or so in Yoruba. To be serious, errand is not an issue! |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:29am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Acidosis: Typo, I no dey write exam! Eazy |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:32am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Lalas247: You need a job more than I do. The time you are wasting on my thread should be spent doing meaningful things to your life |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Lalas247(f): 8:35am On Dec 08, 2017 |
december7: It’s 7:30 am here .... I start work st 9am ![]() Lol just giving u advice ... it’s tough love but you need it .. as a family man why even think that way ... didn’t you take vows ? So this is the worst you have to pull yourself together and do the needful ... you cannot reward your MRs with divorce papers after she is has been the sole bread winner ... |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Lalas247: Concentrate on your job.. Oh! Just noticed you are a single she, naturally you are angry and frustrated, so sorry for responding to you. My dear, that picture is ugly! Is that you? |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 8:53am On Dec 08, 2017 |
december7: I don't understand. You mean you wanted to type Federal Civil Service Abuja but instead you typed Lagos State Civil Service? Is that what you called typo? I think you're just a bored troll |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Una don pursue the egbon with una negativity. Me self yab am sha, but the guy only needs to be motivated. We all have our down moments. |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by Dcholeric: 4:31pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
delishpot:he should be better off marriage and offer support from a distance than take a Jacob position . I don't know what you stand to gain by creating male weaklings . that position isn't for male gender at all (if you say it is not for female too no problem)...it only brings the worst out of them ...the OP is an example. (you heard him says he lost his respect ..I guess if she lost her job she wouldn't loose her respect in his sight) who says the wife should be a house girl? |
Re: Is Being Broke An Excuse To End A Marriage? by delishpot: 6:20pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Dcholeric: Did I say he should condone her disrespectful part? Yeah he should leave his marriage because he said he is being disrespected. Have you heard the woman's own part? Do you know what he terms to be disrespectful? You sit online asking a man to divorce his wife because he told you he feels disrespected by his wife. Who will run errands for his home? Is his wife a robot? He should be a man and stop acting like a baby. Put yourself in wife's shoes. Look at this example, As a man, you go out to Hussle, Your brother lost his job, he has some time to spare at home, you go to work since you shoulder the family financial burden. You come back home from work and ask him to help you do some chores at home or do some stuff and then he starts saying you are turning him into a house maid and disrespecting him because he lost her job. And his friends support him and encourage him to leave home. That one is even putting it lightly, why should a husband feel that doing things for his family is beneath his standard? His wife goes out to work, she has kids to care for too and he is here complaining of the errands he runs for his family ![]() She would not lose his respect if she lost her job because it is expected of men to be breadwinners but she would lose her respect if she was a dirty, loud, quarrelsome, obnoxious wife. Which he did not say she was. 2 Likes |
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