I don’t know about many people but a girl playing hard to get really irritates me. I will first give you the benefit of a doubt that it’s the usual shakers but if it persists I will just put you in your place ASAP. I don’t like it, It annoys me when you tell a girl you like her and all of a sudden a girl giving you green light will now start acting like she’s too good for you. Why do girls do this and guys does that shoot work on you? Does her sudden shakers turn you on to keep trying to get her ?

Those kind of girls usually end up with playboys cos playboys are always persistent, patient and play all their cards just to get the pussssy.

The serious ones are mostly more dedicated to their work than to follow up with a stubborn girl

Lol. Mature ladies don't normally play hard to get, but they try to carefully examine a guy first before opening up their heart to him. But most Nigerian girls are immature. Once you open up your heart to them, their latent pride and hubris takes a toll on them and they begin to play hard to get, putting up attitudes that turns serious and mature guys off.

There's this girl that gave me all kinds of green light during my service year but when i asked her to be my girlfriend, she retreated into her shell. She did not give me a direct answer but she said we should just be friends and nothing more. Well, in order not to waste time, i took her response as polite rejection but then this girl that had always initiated convo with me almost weekly stopped replying my messages. I sent her an sms the first week and followed up with another the following week but did not get a response...so i stopped and deleted her number. 3 months after, this same girl started bombarding me with calls which i didnt respond to. I got to even know she was the one via true caller on my phone. To cut the long story short, she has been asking my friends for my number because she cannot get through to me. I am not in the country and i did not roam. It's been more than a year and a half and till date, this girl still asks about me from my friends. Some ladies are just so indecisive, and i dont like wahala

after rejecting MR NICE GUY and accepting the BADDO PLAYGUY....they will come here shouting all men are the same....USED & DUMPED loading

Its too late to fail amen

There is dis gel I met during my service year. We got along for like 3 months and even though I dint bleep her I really smooched her and she's the one showing more interest. Long story short after service I was jobless and I had a lot of time to think about her. I started professing my love for her and then I visited her only for her to start giving me attitude I begged even though she was d one who offended me. For like a week she didn't pick my call only for her to tell me dat I was harassing her. Gel wey I dey smooch wella now complaining dat I was harassing her. I have stopped calling her even though it's very painful to me. The most painful part is dat I thought she was matured.

story for the Gods ...

Playing hard to get has absolutely nothing to do with maturity like most of you are putting it. It's something that's ingrained in women 'cause they just love being chased and a persistent chaser is termed serious. You don't expect someone who knows little about you to quickly say "Yes" 'cause she's scared of losing you. You're not the first and won't be the last so why the rush?...Nothing good comes easily, and if you decide to give up at any point I think it's a win-win situation for you and the girl in question 'cause no love lost, and no love gained.

kimbraa:
Playing hard to get has absolutely nothing to do with maturity like most of you are putting it. It's something that's ingrained in women 'cause they just love being chased and a persistent chaser is termed serious. You don't expect someone who knows little about you to quickly say "Yes" 'cause she's scared of losing you. You're not the first and won't be the last so why the rush? ...Nothing good comes easily, and if you decide to give up at any point I think it's a win-win situation for you and the girl in question 'cause no love lost, and no love gained.

The bolded are reasonable and somehow valid but not always true. The problem is the attitude that some ladies put on when someone tells them they like them. Trust me, it is appalling and says much about her overall mindset

Girls dont play hard to get for rich guys!

Same here it kills my vibes, I love when there cooperate easily, not the ones that will waste your time, money and emotions. In 2018, as a guy do well to say no to time wasters.

Eglobalma:
I don’t know about many people but a girl playing hard to get really irritates me. I will first give you the benefit of a doubt that it’s the usual shakers but if it persists I will just put you in your place ASAP. I don’t like it, It annoys me when you tell a girl you like her and all of a sudden a girl giving you green light will now start acting like she’s too good for you. Why do girls do this and guys does that shoot work on you? Does her sudden shakers turn you on to keep trying to get her ?

What's the point of playing hard to get though?

kimbraa:
Playing hard to get has absolutely nothing to do with maturity like most of you are putting it. It's something that's ingrained in women 'cause they just love being chased and a persistent chaser is termed serious. You don't expect someone who knows little about you to quickly say "Yes" 'cause she's scared of losing you. You're not the first and won't be the last so why the rush?...Nothing good comes easily, and if you decide to give up at any point I think it's a win-win situation for you and the girl in question 'cause no love lost, and no love gained.

Lmao. Fish Brain.

i know 31 yr old mother of 2 thats playing hard to get.

somethings dont make sense.

Mariinee:
What's the point of playing hard to get though?

God Bless U, if u want sumtin and its offered why d shakara

Those that play hard to get are those with secondary school students brains....in which most of them usually regrets their decision after its too late