biacan:
Those comments though.......so it's because he's a man that why those ladies are spewing trash......imagine how they joke around with such things........... but if it happens to one of us I'll be the first person to call men beast.......hmmmmm na wooooo we ladies get problem sha

shut up joor! Men make those stupid comments too when its a lady. Those ladies are just giving them their replies

overboard:
Comments got me like:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7LgavrgMI6c

Everyone who made a comment on this topic should watch this video

Proudlyngwa:
Sarcasm or not, rape cases and allegations should not be taken lightly,I hope when men return the favor with sarcasm, people will still see the funny side, because I promise there will be one big payback

Like guys haven't been saying that nonsense for decades.

wtfcoded:

That sounds serious of u
Now u realize that real men are not born to take shit.

Thus you see the wonderful nature of man, aptly reflected by women.

What a wonderful creature. That gives out shit but can't take it. What an intelligent yet terrible and selfish, wicked being.

safarigirl:
you cannot even see the joke

The ladies are only saying what men would say if it were a lady such had happened to.

Sarcasm is lost on her

NAWA O

Sigh ... Comparing a guy getting raped at a gay party with a girl getting raped at some other rando party is quite silly eh.

1. How common is it to find a gay party.

2. He wasn't aware he was attending a gay party vs girls that are fully aware that they are heading out to a rave with fully hammered (drunk or high) high libido beasts who are hoping to offload that night.

3. The odds of a guy getting raped are far far and I repeat far slimmer than the odds of a girl getting raped.

4. On the offside that a guy is going to get raped, unless sedatives or some type of drugs are involved, it will be a very difficult and hectic feat to rape the average guy.
The average girl tho is as easy as ABC to an evil rapist and can only rely on luck or a hero appearing, which is why girls are warned that if they must go to zones were expecting rape to happen isn't a far off dream they should never go there alone. Or even at all -.-.

Also considering my number 4, dude in this story was nearly raped.

5. The dressing sexy remark is even more stupid. He didn't know he was going to attend a gay party, how does a guy dress sexy yet indecent exactly ... Especially in this country. Then comparing it to girls who specifically dress in the most revealing things they can find ranging from showing breasts, wearing tight skirts or gowns without pants or tongs for maximum thickness, or whatever silly antic just to make heads turn for her own ego trips.

Note I'm not justifying female rape, but going to a place were there is a very decent chance someone will be a victim of a crime (in this case rape quite common), doing things that'll actually attract the aggressor to you is stupid.
If I walk around at night in a place like bariga,holding wads of cash and bling from head to toe and I end up getting jumped. Morally speaking I should be free to roam however I like, but being realistic I was very stupid for creating a target at my back by myself and I'm sure you all will agree with this and if this was a topic on nairaland I'm sure 90% of comments would bash me.
Or let's say you are blessed enough to buy a Porsche and you park your damn car in a place that is known and that you know is popular for car thievery ... If it gets stolen people will laugh at your stupidity . Yet when its rape things change entirely.

Meh back to observing I go

bughead:
Useless women!

Black women are one of the worse creature on earth!

what of ya mama?

as in ...these commenters are just plain foolish, so it's a crime for someone to attend party in tight jeans. see them, blaming the victim,

The guy wasn't raped so there is no cause for all these rubbish brouhaha

biacan:
Those comments though.......so it's because he's a man that why those ladies are spewing trash......imagine how they joke around with such things........... but if it happens to one of us I'll be the first person to call men beast.......hmmmmm na wooooo we ladies get problem sha

They were being sarcastic Na, the comments they made are the same types of comments some men make when they hear women get raped

boringnigerian:


Like guys haven't been saying that nonsense for decades.

Like I said, rape cases and allegations are not what should be used as a means of making fun, but this issue has completely changed my perspective.

I am not a fan of opposite sexes ,who are not related to be together exclusively.
Anyone can rape and anyone can be raped.
As well as anyone can alleged to have been raped.

Until your reputation or that of your relatives are dented then you will know why this issue should not be taken lightly by anyone.

Had it been some of the ladies condemned it some made jest of it , it will be a different issue, they all made jest of it.

By the time , men start claimingg rape,women are also claiming rape, goodbye physical companionship.

biacan:
Those comments though.......so it's because he's a man that why those ladies are spewing trash......imagine how they joke around with such things........... but if it happens to one of us I'll be the first person to call men beast.......hmmmmm na wooooo we ladies get problem sha

You obviously missed the sarcasm. Those girls' comments are typical guy comments on rape cases. Cos guys will usually say the victim (the lady) is scorned and probably wanted the D but was forming. They'll ask why she didn't go with a friend. They'll say she's a long throat looking for free flexing or she dressed seductively. Now go and look at the comments again.

Very hilarious

So on point . I hope the men can see how it feels when they make such comments about female victims. But dare I hope? Misogyny is evil and stronger than many people realize. It’s strong enough that the people who make such comment actually mean it (not sarcasm as is this case) and evil enough that women have been trained to think that way too.

RealLandForSale:
Safarigirl e pain this one die!!!
Bughead it’s just a joke. The women are just being sarcastic.
See how it feels when the tables are turned

the only sensible someone here!


Got it!

Mariangeles:
Would you have believed if it happened to a girl...?

Yes I would have. And I am sure you would have been quick to defend her irrespective of where she was or what she was putting on. Flip d coin and its a different story

afamaustin:
Sombori help me piles is tormenting my life

Pile shouldn't torment your life.
Go to a good pharmacy and buy Anusol ointment or cream. Don't buy the suppository, but the ointment or cream. It will shrink the pile in no time.
When you've recovered, please eat a healthy diet with vegetables and fruits. Pile is caused by wrong feeding.

TimeMod1:
The poster above could burst a muscle, ko kan aye..

See all dem bitches been trolling on a brother, that's some sense of humour, Lol.
From the reactions of the bitches, one can rightly say it's an indication to the fact that our messages sink in somewhere around the corner of their skulls.

Gays rarely rape at private parties, such most likely do not occur, each gay very often tag along with his partner but for the exception of few cases during initiations, and that being initiation.


#NoBitchAttitude

expert on gay nigga behavior. Is ok is ok.

biacan:
Those comments though.......so it's because he's a man that why those ladies are spewing trash......imagine how they joke around with such things........... but if it happens to one of us I'll be the first person to call men beast.......hmmmmm na wooooo we ladies get problem sha

tou didn't get the point all those ladies were intentionally saying what a guy would have said if it was a girl that almost got raped

Petty but deserved

TheMyth:
Sigh ... Comparing a guy getting raped at a gay party with a girl getting raped at some other rando party is quite silly eh.

1. How common is it to find a gay party.

2. He wasn't aware he was attending a gay party vs girls that are fully aware that they are heading out to a rave with fully hammered (drunk or high) high libido beasts who are hoping to offload that night.

3. The odds of a guy getting raped are far far and I repeat far slimmer than the odds of a girl getting raped.

4. On the offside that a guy is going to get raped, unless sedatives or some type of drugs are involved, it will be a very difficult and hectic feat to rape the average guy.
The average girl tho is as easy as ABC to an evil rapist and can only rely on luck or a hero appearing, which is why girls are warned that if they must go to zones were expecting rape to happen isn't a far off dream they should never go there alone. Or even at all -.-.

Also considering my number 4, dude in this story was nearly raped.

5. The dressing sexy remark is even more stupid. He didn't know he was going to attend a gay party, how does a guy dress sexy yet indecent exactly ... Especially in this country. Then comparing it to girls who specifically dress in the most revealing things they can find ranging from showing breasts, wearing tight skirts or gowns without pants or tongs for maximum thickness, or whatever silly antic just to make heads turn for her own ego trips.

Note I'm not justifying female rape, but going to a place were there is a very decent chance someone will be a victim of a crime (in this case rape quite common), doing things that'll actually attract the aggressor to you is stupid.
If I walk around at night in a place like bariga,holding wads of cash and bling from head to toe and I end up getting jumped. Morally speaking I should be free to roam however I like, but being realistic I was very stupid for creating a target at my back by myself and I'm sure you all will agree with this and if this was a topic on nairaland I'm sure 90% of comments would bash me.
Or let's say you are blessed enough to buy a Porsche and you park your damn car in a place that is known and that you know is popular for car thievery ... If it gets stolen people will laugh at your stupidity . Yet when its rape things change entirely.

Meh back to observing I go

you need to find a sense of humour

Just write epistle for nothing. If this was an exam, you would haved failed woefully

purples25:


Thus you see the wonderful nature of man, aptly reflected by women.

What a wonderful creature. That gives out shit but can't take it. What an intelligent yet terrible and selfish, wicked being.

Don't jugde all men on how ur dad maltreated u n ur mum
After the Gods, men follows n God alone knows why he made it so.

Proudlyngwa:



Like I said, rape cases and allegations are not what should be used as a means of making fun, but this issue has completely changed my perspective.

I am not a fan of opposite sexes ,who are not related to be together exclusively.
Anyone can rape and anyone can be raped.
As well as anyone can alleged to have been raped.

Until your reputation or that of your relatives are dented then you will know why this issue should not be taken lightly by anyone.

Had it been some of the ladies condemned it some made jest of it , it will be a different issue, they all made jest of it.

By the time , men start claimingg rape,women are also claiming rape, goodbye physical companionship.

how do you know they all made jest of it when it is just random screenshots that were taken? Did you go to the Instagram handle and read the over 1k comments there to come to this conclusion or are you basing your conclusion on about ten comments?

All these internet judges sha

gwmlogistic:

Yes I would have. And I am sure you would have been quick to defend her irrespective of where she was or what she was putting on. Flip d coin and its a different story

So it's okay for a guy to be anywhere at anytime... but when a female is almost raped, the question will be "what was she doing in that place at that time?"

Lol... this is really funny.

This is exactly what female rape victims face. Instead of attacking the rapist, the rape victims are the ones usually been shamed.

I guess this is an eye opener for all the guys.. You can now see how stupid you guys sound when you start making those foolish comments..

safarigirl:
which victim? Underpaid olosho you mean

If he had just remained at home like his mates, we wouldn't be hearing this story, after all, is it by force to go to party? How many responsible men were even at that party?

Anytime you go to any party, I pray you get raped.

Amen!

safarigirl:
you need to find a sense of humour

Just write epistle for nothing. If this was an exam, you would haved failed woefully

Lmao ... Sense of humor ... failed because you the examiner ba.

I'm aware its sarcasm, there can only be 2 reasons for it, either all the people making these jokes are depraved or they are trying to send a message.
Their message is basically to mock the attempts of men they claim shame rape victims by using this dude as a scapegoat by using the criticisms men usually throw out back.

I've already explained why this is silly because these are different situations.

And I hope for both our sakes you won't reply back with some silly retort about humor and 'just for fun' .

safarigirl:
how do you know they all made jest of it when it is just random screenshots that were taken? Did you go to the Instagram handle and read the over 1k comments there to come to this conclusion or are you basing your conclusion on about ten comments?

All these internet judges sha

Ah no wonder you tackled me.
Comment count is slightly more than 1300 with 95% being sarcastic remarks from females.

Don't you read the sarcasm The ladies are just reacting how most guys react to such post if the victim were a lady.

biacan:
Those comments though.......so it's because he's a man that why those ladies are spewing trash......imagine how they joke around with such things........... but if it happens to one of us I'll be the first person to call men beast.......hmmmmm na wooooo we ladies get problem sha

Exactly... To see that they are pained by such comments. What's good for the geese is good for the gander.

lovethchioma:
Lol... this is really funny.

This is exactly what female rape victims face. Instead of attacking the rapist, the rape victims are the ones usually been shamed.

I guess this is an eye opener for all the guys.. You can now see how stupid you guys sound when you start making those foolish comments..