I was matched with this woman from Ukraine through a site called A Foreign Affair.

We’ve been in a relationship for about 2 months now. We have yet to see each other in person and I’m really nervous about our recent conversation.

She’s inviting me to be her date for her aunt’s wedding in a few months and I don’t know if accepting it would be the best choice. I’m extremely reluctant to meet her family since I’ve only been her boyfriend for a while.

They don’t even know about our relationship yet and I have no clue as to how they are going to react once they meet me. Secondly, I’m not entirely certain if seeing each other in person this fast is a good move. What if by going to this wedding would make things move too fast? What if her family won’t be too thrilled to meet me when I attend the event? So many questions are popping in my head right now.

Aside from these “what ifs,” seeing my foreign girlfriend would make me incredibly happy. Long distance can be tedious sometimes and just thinking about accompanying her in person would mean the world to me. I could easily book a ticket and pack my things but I’m still wondering if it would be a wise decision.

The only factors that strike my mind are the reactions of her family, the progression of our relationship, and what to do when I see her for the first time. I’m not really accustomed to her culture so I’m contemplating on the types of gifts I should bring over. What’s an ideal first date? How should the date go and how can I make it magical? We should we have the date before or after the wedding? I badly need some advice. Any tips and comments are gladly appreciated. Thank you so much in advance!!

Girlfriend invited me as date for wedding. Advice?

It's not too expensive to meet her family. They will see you as just a friend unless if she decides to introduce you as her boyfriend.


....... but bros are you truly in love with her?
Be honest with yourself, can you marry her?

What if you are kidnapped also?

Nigerians and time wasting, so it has to be years before you find out if her family will like you?

Just go. Don't overdo anything try to be as real as possible. You are not the only one who should be nervous, they also owe you a nice treat.

By the way are you going for the wedding? Or you just going to show up at the wedding-this will make you more nervous unless you don't mind being stared at like king-kong

First, you must know that (in most cases), QUICK LOVE DOESN'T LAST. But you have to make it work.

Remember that if a typical Nigerian babe is in the same scenerio, she'd have travelled to meet her 'foreign suitor' without a second thought; and she'll MAKE THINGS WORK OUT BY FORCE. Learn from their logic.

Don't let someone else grab this your opportunity: many people are looking for a chance like this.

xendra:
Nigerians and time wasting, so it has to be years before you find out if her family will like you?

Just go. Don't overdo anything try to be as real as possible. You are not the only one who should be nervous, they also owe you a nice treat.

By the way are you going for the wedding? Or you just going to show up at the wedding-this will make you more nervous unless you don't mind being stared at like king-kong

best advice

If you can afford it, see it as a holiday adventure.

MatricNumber:

best advice

tnx

Get her a nice wrist watch or necklace with perfume...should do the trick....