my childhood friend. his mum wanted him to marry a girl he Neva love. according to him, his sister get him a girl abroad. wic she taught he would love. but I told me he Neva love d girl at first. but sometimes ago d girl came to naija. his mum forced him to proceed on doing introduction wit d girl. he said he agreed because his mum was sick den, and he also taught maybe wit time he shld develop d love for her. but all dis were fruitless because he began to hate her d more. nao his mum wanted him to marry dis girl, all because dey av gone for introduction. but my friend refused.

How old is this guy?
If he still has issues handling this,then he's not even ready for the marriage he's getting pushed to.

35years. is like his mum thought is spiritual. I ask my friend he told me he hasnt seen his wish. he told me dier was a girl aim to settle wit but d girl is still in school and he has also invested so much in her because he was d one sending her to learn trade after school period. d girl is in hnd1 nao.

If he has someone he really likes,then he should let the mum know and continue the relationship with the lady.
He can marry the lady now and keep supporting her with her schooling or trade.

What kind of men do we have nowadays?

Are these the weaklings that want to start revolution in Nigeria?

How can you call yourself a man and yet you allow your parents to make life decisions that won't even benefit you?

If you cannot stand up to your parents who can even empathize with you, na government body you go get power?

Tueh!

exactly, wot kind men. my friend is staying wit his parents. feeding dem wit d little he has. all he keep saying is he love his parents dearly.

more advice pls

English ... an eyesore... constant use of abbreviations.... nonsense

tinubz:
more advice pls

Your friend may regret it for life if he listens to his parents. Many men have made this mistake and regret it bitterly. The only enduring choice anyone has is marriage. Think of it, he did not choose his parents yet they choose almost everything for him till he was probably 18. Instead of them to stop, they want to continue. If you don’t have a choice you don’t have a life. Choice in itself is the essence of life. Talk to your friend.

I showed him everything. thank you all. shld my friend relocate because right now he stay wit his parents.

tinubz:
I showed him everything. thank you all. shld my friend relocate because right now he stay wit his parents.

wit immediate effect!!!!!! no time to waste

35 year old man smh

thank you my people for your candid advice. but another thing has happen oo.

let me narrates the story well. my friend ( Olu) has a sister ( pastor that has a church) in SA. His sister introduced him to a girl ( lizzy) on whatsap but d girl is in SA. In the church in SA, a member in called Toyin has another sister (grace) in nigeria wic now attend a branch of d church. Here in Nigeria church dats is where my friend is. Now, my friend is saying he didn't love lizzy at all. he was planning for grace wic is presently in HND 1. RELATE THIS TO THE EARLIER STORY.
Currently, Lizzy has travel back to SA, now insulting and fighting toyin that she was the one that introduce her sister (grace) to my friend that she make my friend to neglect her.
Toyin's mother was now begging my friend to consider Lizzy so as to relieve grace and her sister that they are not the one that disturb Lizzy from getting married to my friend. but my friend love grace soo much. pls advice

I dnt know why its difficult to just say u are the one

my childhood friend. but pls issue is he need ur help pls. SA don hot nao. because Lizzy has bin abuses toyin in SA dat she was aware of their affairs wit grace

darlenese:
I dnt know why its difficult to just say u are the one

I swearit! The story stinks! Imagine a grown man needing advice on an issue like this. Hian! Put your feet down and make your choice! EOD!

Why will prospective gfs be fighting sef? Iranu

exactly, my friend is right here with me since yestday, he could not eat nor think of way forward. pls guys ur advice is very much important here. shld he listen to mum grace who ask him to accept d girl in SA back

tinubz:
exactly, my friend is right here with me since yestday, he could not eat nor think of way forward. pls guys ur advice is very much important here. shld he listen to mum grace who ask him to accept d girl in SA back

u are both weaklings,let him continue fasting since he cant eat.Iranuu

thnks alot